Most of the people here are fairly easy to get along with. One of my first friends on here I got to be friends with after a debate about self defense in school. Sure, we called each other morons, they called me an overeager brute, and I called them a pacifistic hippy who was more likely to die than defend themselves (I'm paraphrasing of course) but after the argument, we both realized that each made valid points and became friends.
Most of my other friends happen to post on threads I'm interested in and are, as a rule, generally good people. I think that the trolling and flaming and such doesn't seem to be as bad here, or at least not on the threads that I generally visit. I like the Escapist community. I wouldn't say we're any better than any other site, but there seems to be an unspoken bond of sorts between the members. I mean, how many other "I need advice/help" threads do you see on other forums that are met with actual advice/help instead of the wall of flame or horde of trolls?