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How can I drop an emotional facade without loosing everyone who's come to like me for said facade?
But the real me is apparently an aggressively irritable asshole, while the alter me is a bubbly hyper empathetic...thing. Anytime I drop it even a little people take notice, almost always in the bad way like "we will never be friend anymore."
I'm having the exact same problem but mine stems from the fact that I'm not learning anything from the instructor, and if I'm not going to be learning anything why should I go. I dont know what to say other than force your self thats what I have been doing, seeing as I'll be in school for awhile I'm just going to turn everything in last minute and have some bs excuses for not being in class....its worked for me in the past.xitel said:
I know I'm at the point that I just want to be done with it a friend of mine who I go to school with and work with feels the same way and he's just started. I dont know I know it will bite me in the ass later on but I just dont care, just want o be done.xitel said:
I've been doing kickboxing for 5 months and mixed martial arts for 1 month. But there is the occasional moment during my training where I just feel like I've lost my edge. Like I just can't do as good as I normally do. I must admit that sometimes I have a very slight lack of motivation, but other times, I just tire out more easily than I normally do.
I don't think the problem is with my eating/sleeping habits. I almost never eat junk food, and I get at least 7 hours of sleep a day. (I read on a fitness website once that the more you exercise, the less sleep you need, so I should be able to get along fine with 1 less hour of sleep than most people, seeing as how I do kickboxing fairly often)
I don't think the problem is with my eating/sleeping habits. I almost never eat junk food, and I get at least 7 hours of sleep a day. (I read on a fitness website once that the more you exercise, the less sleep you need, so I should be able to get along fine with 1 less hour of sleep than most people, seeing as how I do kickboxing fairly often)
Have you ever thought that maybe kickboxing just isn't your sport? Maybe you tried it out and realized that you don't really like it. Back in high school my sister tried pretty much every activity she could before she settled on the one she liked. I think maybe you should try out some other martial arts and see if you like those better. Think about the thing that attracted you to kickboxing in the first place, and look for other styles that have that same factor.Duck Sandwich said:
Asked my drum tutor about this and he said to slow yourself down doing say 120bpm without using your feet at all for 2 minutes or so, really into the groove of the thing and then start on a really simple off-time beat with your feet and keep doing that for a while, then gradually get faster and fasterThe Kind Cannibal said:
The idea is that you completely forget about what your hands are doing (because it becomes so easy after you do the same thing for 2 minutes) and you can then completely concentrate on your feet
Go for it?Death Magnetic said:
I should think you'll regret it if you don't
If you go for it and she says "yes" then Kudos and a cookie for you
If you go for it and she says "no" then you won't see her again
And if you don't try it at all then you won't see her again
I can't see as you lose anything by trying
Well, I would say don't ask her out right off the bat. That's a mistake a lot of people make. Just go up to her and start talking about the music, and at the end of the concert, ask if she wants to hang out some time, nothing else. If she says no, then you'll know that you had no chance with her without coming off as some weird guy. If she says yes, you'll be sure that you can see her again outside of the concert, and you'll get rid of you "deadline" that the concert provides. Don't ask for her number, but give her yours, or your email address.Death Magnetic said:
The point of this thread is to get advice. No matter what the problem is, you can still always use advice. And the reason asking here is useful is because you can maintain a certain level of anonymity if you have a slightly embarrassing question that you wouldn't feel comfortable asking your friends in person.Crap_haT said:
Thanks to both xitel and fruhstuck, I'll make an attempt with the advice and go for it if she's there at the concert. If she isn't there, I'll know it unfortunately probably wasn't destined to be much to my protest. I'll also like to publically express my gratitude to antiantagonist for advice through a PM. If she is there at the concert, I'm going for it a hundred percent and attempt not looking like a weirdo. Thanks.
-Ricky
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