Your View on Physically Hitting the Oppsite sex

[Zersy]

I have come across this argument so many times in my life that if it were to be put into one time period, it would be a 2 whole days worth of this arguement.

anyway now on to the never dying issue

"Is it okay for a man to hit a women in Self Defense" ?

In my life at a school fool of ignorant wannbe ghetto kids where ANY kid will make a whole issue on something as small as a accidental bump on a shoulder ,i have noticed that when it comes to a man hitting a women no matter what the mans reason
the man is always the one to be blamed because the women is supposed to be weaker.
(This is in my experiance BTW )

I have had to experiance this type of issue loads of times because there were a certain type of stearotypical black ghetto ignorant bitchy girls that loved to get me to crack because i was not afraid of hitting girls

let me explain my quick view ,i think that no matter who the person is , if that person physically hit me on purpose i have full right to hitback regardless of who the person is.

so basically they would do their hardest to make me lash out from frustration but this useually failed since i have common sense, in the end they would have to do the first move by useually kicking my shin or what so ever then i would instantly hitback, then a whole bunch of unnesscary teacher and principle arguement happens where i have to attend a detention and have my parents called in for "Anger Problems" and talk about the fear of me becoming some sort of womenbeater

while the whole group who started the uneeded crap gets to go away with everyone on their side

but i'm finally out of school (Or atleast finishing it)

My questions

What is your view when it comes to someone having to defend themselves but are seen as shameful when the other person is the oppsite sex ?

 

[Xvito]

If somebody is beating on you, then it is always okay to fight back, no matter what age or gender the other person has.

They want equality? They got it.

Seconded.

 

[Glerken]

They want equality? They got it.

Summed up my feelings in the first post. Good job.

 

[elitecrewer]

Only if she attacks you with a bottle (<- In Bruges)

It's up to the man really. Also liking the above.. it's equality in its purest form!

 

[Rednog]

In my book if you get hit and it causes enough damage and follow up hits are coming you have ever right to stop them dead in their tracks no matter who they are.
If its a glancing or weak blow then go then try to restrain them.
Verbal provocation, never.

 

[the_hessian]

Simple as this.
If a girl goes for you.
Hit that *****.
If she tries again.
Hit her again.
If she tries a third time.
Make sure she can't a 4th.
And I'm a very open minded equal rights kind person.
These rules apply to everyone I encounter.
Though I usually use intelect to shut them up, or baffle them enough for me to make good my escape before it turns violent.

 

[teisjm]

Thats a hard one... I would have a relly hard time if i was to hit a girl. But if people assault you male or female they're ass-holes, and ass-holes needs to be hit.

I can't give you a good answer, sorry

 

[_Janny_]

Dudes have more muscle mass by nature, so it's hard to make a fight fare... But if they find strong girls, I don't think guys should shy away from fighting them. We're also strong, though not as much because of our naturally skinny bodies, ugh...

 

[Learchuz]

Only girl I've ever hit was my sister. And I hit her with Go-Gurt packet. SUDDENLY GO-GURT, EVERYWHERE!
Don't think I'd hit a female, probably just restrain her or throw her off me and keep away.

 

[razer17]

They want equality? They got it.

equality is not giving equal treatment, but giving everyone the chance to do what they are able to.

then again i think a man can hit a woman in retaliation. most girls i know agree, in fact most guys as well. if a woman is big enough to hit you, you can hit her back. then again i would probably still feel bad if it came to it.

edit - if you do hit them back, ease off a bit, unless they are boxing champs, because they are normally more physically fragile than men. - not sexist, fact.

 

[IceStar100]

I say hit'em. Same thing with abuse sadly. I had many cases where the women does not have a scratch the man is bleeding and we have to take the man to jail. Or worst the doctor want to see the women and make sure she ok. We are getting away from the old world but not there yet. That all said sometime I wish I was born in Iran. It come down to eather man or women is in controll and the other the lower sex.

 

[ChrisP.Lettuce]

Well, when I was eighteen my Mom attacked me (alcoholic). I'm Male, 6'2, 200 lbs. She is 5'4 and 130. What am I supposed to do? Just stand there? I warned her repeatedly before restraining her and forcing her backwards into a chair.

Am I a bad person? If the police became involved I probably would have been in trouble. In this particular case I was in the right, I would think. I think it is possible to OVER retalliate to something. If you get a kick on the shin, don't haymaker her in the face. I would say just relax.

Guys that abuse women for no good reason deserve to be thrown off a cliff though.

 

[InProgress]

They want equality? They got it.

Thirded/ quoted for the fourth time. I'm not sure how that's said.

 

[Smurfy 0151]

I've hit a woman once in my life. But, she stabbed me, so I figured that made her a dude for the time equivalent of the next one Haymaker. Broke her nose. No, I don't feel bad, She gave me a nasty scar around my kidney.

 

[Travdelosmuertos]

Any person who would strike a person who is not in a similar physical capacity to defend themselves is a coward. This goes for children, the disabled, the elderly and yes, the opposite sex.

In self-defense, all is fair. Preservation of self is really the only justifiable use of violence. Don't misquote me, either. I'm saying this in the context of a direct physical attack that threatens your person. Nor do I condone excessive violence. Only what is necessary to survive the encounter.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

I don't know about hitting a woman, but unless she's coming at you with a knife or any other sharp object, you should just hold her down and either calm her down or make her tire herself out.