A Moral Conundrum for you guys, Would you sleep with a married person? (READ THE OP BEFORE POSTING)
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Strangely, having the spouse's consent wouldn't alter my answer much. I would find it creepy if they were and icky if they weren't.
Now, for the record, it is my experience that women out to get laid who are married won't share that fact on a one night stand with any regularity outside of venues that cater to . . . alternate sexual lifestyles.
Now, for the record, it is my experience that women out to get laid who are married won't share that fact on a one night stand with any regularity outside of venues that cater to . . . alternate sexual lifestyles.
Frankly given that hypothetical scenario, for me to hit it off with someone that intensely, it has to be something really special.
Sorry moral peeps, but im actually sticking with that woman in that scenario. It's extremely out of character for me to seduce someone like that (at my most charming, i adopt the "keep em laughing" approach) and for it to work so effectively and for the person to respond so well....
It's not a mere 1 night stand
Regarding cheating, normally I wouldn't even consider someone who's taken, but in this case evidently I worked over that and decided the person is worth breaking my rules for.
Seems that for one of the few times in my life, I decided to be selfish and focus on my own happiness. So yeh sorry to the bf, but clearly it wasn't working out if this scenario happened.
That said, regarding OPs question, once she announces she is married there would be no nookie that night. Sorry lady, but we are gonna have to do a lot more talking and explainning before we do the big nasty.
Sorry moral peeps, but im actually sticking with that woman in that scenario. It's extremely out of character for me to seduce someone like that (at my most charming, i adopt the "keep em laughing" approach) and for it to work so effectively and for the person to respond so well....
It's not a mere 1 night stand
Regarding cheating, normally I wouldn't even consider someone who's taken, but in this case evidently I worked over that and decided the person is worth breaking my rules for.
Seems that for one of the few times in my life, I decided to be selfish and focus on my own happiness. So yeh sorry to the bf, but clearly it wasn't working out if this scenario happened.
That said, regarding OPs question, once she announces she is married there would be no nookie that night. Sorry lady, but we are gonna have to do a lot more talking and explainning before we do the big nasty.
Honestly, I'd probably still hit that. I know I sound awful, but how good a marriage could the other person be coming from anyway if it's come to this. The rest is their (the couple's) problem. Anyway, who has to know? Would the world really be worse off we went through with it and the spouse never found out? Most likely not.
First of all, I would never have a one-night stand or sleep with someone who I don't know very well.
It's just something I could never do, or want to do, I have issues with touching other people, and even if I didn't, I'm more interested in a relationship than casual sex.
And I wouldn't get involved with someone behind the back of someone.
If their partner knew, and was okay with it, (I know people with open relationships like that), I wouldn't have a moral issue with it, but I personally wouldn't want to get involved in a relationship that's not exclusive.
It's just something I could never do, or want to do, I have issues with touching other people, and even if I didn't, I'm more interested in a relationship than casual sex.
And I wouldn't get involved with someone behind the back of someone.
If their partner knew, and was okay with it, (I know people with open relationships like that), I wouldn't have a moral issue with it, but I personally wouldn't want to get involved in a relationship that's not exclusive.
I would not. Part of me would say "well s/he's the one doing wrong right? If s/he didn't sleep with me, then she'd find someone else." But the stronger part of me would say "like it or not, you are condoning the behavior that may or may not hurt someone in the future. Are you willing to take that risk?"
I've actually been in a situation like this. She wasn't married, but engaged, though.
I called it all off and informed her significant other of the situation. They ended up breaking up when he found out that she had a long history of cheating on him.
I regret nothing.
I called it all off and informed her significant other of the situation. They ended up breaking up when he found out that she had a long history of cheating on him.
I regret nothing.
Id be careful with that assumption I know a lot of guys who dont wear their wedding rings some because they dont actually like wearing any jewellery and others because its not practical to have things on their fingers when doing their jobs and so rarely bother to put it on at all even when out, its not that they want to be seen as available to get sex from someone other than their spouse.Dags90 said:
OT: It would be a no brainer for me I would not have sex with her I would ask why the hell she let it go this far in the first place without telling me and then to kindly get the fuck out of my place and my life I dont like complications and the more people involved (indirectly or otherwise) the more complicated something gets.
I would have sex with her, But I wouldn't want to be in an relationship with her.
In that moment, I'm having a good time, she's having a good time and the fact that she's married is not my responsibility or concern.
In that moment, I'm having a good time, she's having a good time and the fact that she's married is not my responsibility or concern.
Scenario is invalid. A nerd would never be in a club.
And we we would go to hers. No strangers sleeping in my house.
Otherwise yes, who cares what the husband thinks, unless hes OG, but you probably wouldn't know that.
And we we would go to hers. No strangers sleeping in my house.
Otherwise yes, who cares what the husband thinks, unless hes OG, but you probably wouldn't know that.
While some people are saying "well if the marriage is screwed anyways..." (which you're helping to ruin anyways, hypocrites) I don't think that's the only point. Its one less possible std, its one less possible explanation to a pissed off spouse, and its one less possible story to try and explain to people you know. I feel like one night of potential sex (which if we're being this hypothetical, isn't that hard to come by in a bar full of drunken idiots) isn't worth much, but hey, some people like to fuck anything that asks them, so reason isn't going to persuade them.
If you're going to further the pain of another man, then at least have the decency to tell him, otherwise you're nothing more than a spineless troll who deserves nothing less than cancer. (You're still a spineless troll though, just maybe not worthy of cancer)
I know some people think sex is necessary (it isnt) and its great (good for you scooby doo), but I, like some people, have standards. I actually have the self control to say NO, and I think that's important. I've seen some people that completely break under sexual pressure and can't say no, and I believe that is a sign of a pretty weak person to be honest.
If you're going to further the pain of another man, then at least have the decency to tell him, otherwise you're nothing more than a spineless troll who deserves nothing less than cancer. (You're still a spineless troll though, just maybe not worthy of cancer)
I know some people think sex is necessary (it isnt) and its great (good for you scooby doo), but I, like some people, have standards. I actually have the self control to say NO, and I think that's important. I've seen some people that completely break under sexual pressure and can't say no, and I believe that is a sign of a pretty weak person to be honest.
Meaning of I pet you enough, you'll rub against me?malestrithe said:
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In your scenario? I would have sex with her. Multiple times that night. Aaaaaw yeah. It's simple because we are already at my place and I am horny. I'd say no if she said so at the club. But the girl wants to cheat. Soooo why not with me? In a way I'm doing the husband a favor. You'd rather know sooner then later that your wife is a cheating wh*re.
[sub]yes I am most likely going to hell, what off it?[/sub]
[sub]yes I am most likely going to hell, what off it?[/sub]
Continue.
It wouldn't be the first time I did it with someone who already had a man.
Yep, I'm a horrible person.
It wouldn't be the first time I did it with someone who already had a man.
Yep, I'm a horrible person.