About sex

[Choppaduel]

You'll know it when it happens.

 

[JemothSkarii]

Well, I'm 18, still a virgin, all my friends lost theirs at around 14 to 16.
HOWEVER, my girlfriend and I believe that we should wait a while (she's only 16, so she wants to be an 'adult' for when it happens) and I personally have a physical disability so the notion of sex scares me because I'm afraid I won't be able to 'put out' properly for her...so being a virgin at 16 is still cool, just so you know.

...I believe I'm off topic.

To answer your query, a sex drive is when you see someone and have sexual thoughts about them, being it through physical beauty, personality, whether they're a guy or girl. Simply: Anything that makes you want to have sex ergo sex drive. When you masturbate? Sex Drive, when you look at porn or people in their swimmers at the pool and your erection wants to explode out your pants like a Hitler salute? Sex Drive.

 

[MrMixelPixel]

I don't think I've ever had one myself. At least, I've never had anything beyond the simple stuff. I've just never been interested in stuff of that nature. I'm fine with keeping the few social relationships I have simple.

 

[Cupid]

Well, you ask a very good question for the position you're in at the moment. A sex drive to me starts initially from the physical features: signs of health, nice complexion, body curves, signs that are basically hammered into human instinct. If those appeal to you then your body is telling you that that person is a potential mate.

Attraction is usually what starts relationships. If you like the appeal or personality of the same sex, then it works just the same way as if you were attracted to the opposite sex.

I concur with this.

 

[Chefodeath]

Sex drive.

Thinking of boning.
Is she moaning?
For humping too hard.
Will make her start
like a heart.

But you will struggle!
You will spill.
Hopefully not in
her pretty little
sin.

Now it's finished!
You're a man.
Or so they think.
Because what is a man?

A MISERABLE LITTLE PILE OF SECRETS!
BUT enough talk! Have at you!

You sir, have made my day!

 

[astrav1]

For me-if you have ever had a thirst for revenge-it is kind of like revenge. A driving force only more of a feeling in the penis region. If you are one of those "resist temptation" people then you are lucky that you lack one.

 

[The Stonker]

Sex drive.

Thinking of boning.
Is she moaning?
For humping too hard.
Will make her start
like a heart.

But you will struggle!
You will spill.
Hopefully not in
her pretty little
sin.

Now it's finished!
You're a man.
Or so they think.
Because what is a man?

A MISERABLE LITTLE PILE OF SECRETS!
BUT enough talk! Have at you!

You sir, have made my day!

But it is night?
And I hope it will be bright!
For the everlasting fright.
Makes me delight.

 

[PleasantKenobi]

When you look at porn or people in their swimmers at the pool and your erection wants to explode out your pants like a Hitler salute? Sex Drive.

Worst, or quite possibly the best, or maybe even the most rediculous metaphor I have heard for an erection in the pants in a very, very long time.

 

[thermo1]

Dont mix up wanting to fall in love with a sex drive although they do often coincide.

I had a friend once who said

"everytime a boy talks to a girl who isnt related to them he is trying to get into her pants."

which i think is often true even if its only on a sub-conscious level but only up to a point....


when you fall in love all your waking consciousness is absorbed by wanting to be with them, to protect them, to make them happy even at your own expense. Which is a kind of obssession, but hopefully in a good way.

Otherwise sex drive is the biological mechanicism that makes you desire intercourse with anyone who superficially looks like a good mate. Which is very shallow, but i think usually in your subconscious.

 

[Dr Snakeman]

Generally a sex drive is just a yearning to 'stick it in' something...

This sums it up. Seriously, it isn't too complicated. Sex drive is wanting to screw something.

If your sex drive keeps wanting to screw the same person, then things get a bit more complicated. That could be the beginnings of genuinely caring for them. But let's not get into that, because if we did, I'd have no idea what I was talking about.

 

[Mr. Google]

mmmm...I love sex And sometimes i get horny as hell and want to put my dick into a female. Thats my sex drive. And this happens on a...15 times daily basis. Unless i actually get laid then only about 5 times daily. I miss getting laid

 

[Nieroshai]

If you can feel aroused, you have a sex drive. If nothing turns you on, you have no sex drive. So what raises your rocket/wets your tube?

...don't tell me, that was a hypothetical.

 

[Mr. Google]

Generally a sex drive is just a yearning to 'stick it in' something...

This sums it up. Seriously, it isn't too complicated. Sex drive is wanting to screw something.

If your sex drive keeps wanting to screw the same person, then things get a bit more complicated. That could be the beginnings of genuinely caring for them. But let's not get into that, because if we did, I'd have no idea what I was talking about.

Caring for people is bullshit! Anon Sex FTW!

 

[OneOfTheMichael's]

Before I begin I think it's necessary to point out a couple things; I'm only 16; I'm a virgin; I don't know my sexuality; the whole 'not knowing' thing is starting to irk me.

Now to my main point. As humans we experience our world through a subjective view, and we can only sympathise with others through experience (at least, I imagine that is a limitation most of us have). So when it comes to the idea of a sex drive, I can't tell whether I'm normal or not because I can't get inside the head of other people[footnote]And I would prefer to ask through the anonymity and wider audience potential of the internet than throw my parents/siblings/some of my friends a curve-ball[/footnote]. My issue is this; I ca't tell what a sex-drive is meant to feel like because I can't experience what others can, and therefore I can't know if what I feel (or lack thereof) is what others feel or not.

So this is my question; What does a sex drive feel like to you? I ask because I want to know if I've experienced it and simply dismissed it as nothing, or if I haven't experienced it (yet?). It's also an interesting social experiment as well, to see if everyone who thinks they have/does have a sex drive feels it the same way as everyone else.

NOTE: Apologies to all those getting sick of these gay/sex/love/relationship threads, this has been bothering me for a while and I figured it would be less annoying if I throw it in as part of a whole bunch of threads rather than have it as a stand-alone sex-thread.

You forgot about one of the key features in to people helping you on the internet.
Describe you gender!!!
Sorry but are you male or female?

 

[Megacherv]

Assuming you're straight/bi:-

You see that girl there? You see her cleavage almost bursting out of her top? You start to think "Woah...woah...wow...that's..." and you get that strange feeling in your stomach and you cant take your eyes off of her? You start to slowly get an erection.

That's your sex drive

Assuming you're gay/bi:-

You see that guy there? Yeah, you get the idea...

...what?

 

[Thundero13]

A sex drive is just wanting to have sex, if you haven't experienced this and known it then it sounds like you're Asexual, not knowing what sexuality you're interested in also makes it sound like you're Asexual, if you do feel a sex drive though then a good way to figure out your orientation is to imagine yourself married in many years time and you come home, do you imagine a man or a woman waiting for you at home.