Bros Before Hos?

[Floppertje]

friends, because my friends understand if I want to spend time with my girlfriend. If she wants me to spend more time with her than I have available without seriously cutting back on friend-time, she's shit out of luck. I will not neglect my friends just because my girlfriend wants me to.

 

[Dyp100]

Listen to House. He knows what he's talking about.

But really, since all my friends were girls, I can't really say that

Yeah, but are any of them yo hoe? If not, even a vagina doesn't stop them being a bro.

I like rhyming. 8D

 

[Julianking93]

I like rhyming. 8D

I noticed.

And no, you're right, the existence of a vagina does not equal "ho"

 

[BlindMessiah94]

Choosing extremes is dumb.

Going bros over hos or hos over bros is equally as asinine.

Hopefully you are in a relationship with someone who understands the importance of spending time with your friends, and hopefully your friends understand that they can't always be chosen over your significant other.

Anyone who makes you choose is not someone you want to be friends with or dating.

 

[Olikunmissile]

Bros before hos. Article 1 of the Bro code.

It is simply law.

 

[Exius Xavarus]

I don't hold any one person more important than another. Not even a romantic interest. The way I see it, whomever you make plans with first, is whom you execute your plans with. That's unfair to your friend to ditch him to be with a lover, and it's unfair to ditch your lover to hang out with your friends. I will usually try to see if we can put plans together to see if everyone can hang out, but I will not ditch my original plans for another person.

 

[gibboss28]

Never really like the saying Bros before hos...I prefer Thrash before Gash to be honest, it sounds more amusing.

 

[Tharwen]

Just like any other situation, it's your fault if you manage to force a decision between the two. Anyway, it depends on the situation.

 

[Sjakie]

If the Ho is the one Ho you want to spend your life with...i would say Hohoho, as long as she doesnt want you to drop your Bro's that is!
If she's not, then Bro!

 

[afroforce69]

I always try to combine them, it works pretty well

 

[Kurokami]

Friends first, or romantic interests first?
The degree with which you like your romantic interest is up to you. If you are madly in love with them, would you ditch your friends for them? What if your friends had gotten tickets to that concert you had been DYING to go see, but it is your partner's birthday? Feel free to add your own past experiances/ original situations.

Discuss.

Meh, if you consider your hoe a friend (/bro) then you've got yourself a loophole, as you said it comes down to what your relationship is. (and the context/situation)

Don't have a romantic partner, pretty sure bros'll come first though.

 

[AngryMongoose]

Friends first, though a romantic partner can (and should) also count as a friend.

 

[rokkolpo]

friends first.

that's why i'm in a struggle right now.
the ex of a friend of mine got dumped recently and now she's hitting on me.

and she's a friend aswell!
FFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU...

 

[Soxafloppin]

Well your Partner should come first, if its just some random girl then deffo Bros before Hoes.

 

[tzimize]

Depends, are we talking a girl friend vs a boy friend (as in they are both friends?)

In that case: the bro.
If not, depends if the relationship is serious. If it is: The ho.

But in all seriousness both a good bro and a good ho would understand when to step down and let the other one shine.

 

[magicmonkeybars]

Wouldn't a romantic relationship always be under a greater pressure to succeed then a platonic one ?
Wouldn't putting your "Bro's" first dimminish your chances with the "Ho's".
Bro's before Ho's sounds GAY like you'd rather be watching monday night football with your beer buddys then spending time with your partner.

 

[MelziGurl]

I always disliked "Bros before Hoes". If I was trying to make a relationship work I would place my partner first and my friends, if they were true friends, they would have understand that they were second. The only people I don't come absolute first to are my fiancees family, there's equal footing there and vice versa. SOME friends might be forever, but they are also going to be the ones who understand.

EDIT: This is going by situation by the way. He's also first priority in my life.