Can we talk about the "friend zone" and "nice guys" for a moment?

[Onjenae]

The friend zone does not exist usually guys that get put in the friendzone are either losers or very unattractive no offense.

BTW i notice that nice guys seem to think they are entitled to women alot of you so called nice guys really creep me out

you act as if women belong to you and seem to be mad at the world because you rejected and noboyd wants to sleep with you.

Being nice does not make you an interesting person, a good person, does not mean you are attractive and I've notice unlike men , us ladies usually do not tell men we find unttractive that they are unattractive.

I wish more women were like me I do not hang around or associate with males that call themselves nice guys which is ually code for pushover , cornball,creep,or just very unattractive socially awkard male

trhe reason nice guys get the friend zone is not because of them being nice its because they are usually ugly as hell.

Wow, your post is just so extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental. I am really glad for those men you deem "ugly as hell" that you don't want to associate with them, and if you ever see me I hope you think I'm ugly as hell too so you'll stay the fuck away from me.

lmaooo you must be one of the lsoers who stay getting friendzone by the ladies lmaoooo keep up with the good luck young man

Nice spelling you got there. Obvious troll is obvious.

aww nice guy got his feelings hurt dont get mad at me because you dont get laid

Well, TheVioletBandit's post summed up my opinion of you quite well. Also, from you not using proper grammar, I can also come up with the conclusion that you're either trolling, lazy, stupid or just not giving a damn.
So, just to remind you, you are

extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental.

look little boy i dont give a damn what you think honestly lol and im typing on my phone do not have time to do a gramamr check. I could see if i was writing a school papaer but then again who are you a ncie guy who doesnt get laid lol

losers like you think woman owe you something and you despise the bad boys becasue they actually get girls and dont spend their time on the net pondering why women date attractive men

 

[ElPatron]

And again the Escapist sank in an argument about entitlement.

I thought most "friendzone" posts were supposed to be about girls who repeatedly commit the mistake of dating jerks.

I am talking about people stupid enough to start dating just because a guy paid her a beer while the proverbial "nice guy" is doing her laundry or something.

It has nothing to do with entitlement. It has to do with people too stupid to take a hint.

Sorry for the little rant, I've just seen too many "friend zone" related memes and rage comics recently. 0___0

I have the perfect solution. Stay away from 9GAG or any social bookmarking site. Those places aren't even funny 90% of the time.

 

[Onjenae]

The friend zone does not exist usually guys that get put in the friendzone are either losers or very unattractive no offense.

BTW i notice that nice guys seem to think they are entitled to women alot of you so called nice guys really creep me out

you act as if women belong to you and seem to be mad at the world because you rejected and noboyd wants to sleep with you.

Being nice does not make you an interesting person, a good person, does not mean you are attractive and I've notice unlike men , us ladies usually do not tell men we find unttractive that they are unattractive.

I wish more women were like me I do not hang around or associate with males that call themselves nice guys which is ually code for pushover , cornball,creep,or just very unattractive socially awkard male

trhe reason nice guys get the friend zone is not because of them being nice its because they are usually ugly as hell.

Yikes harsh! So nice=ugly? Act as if women belong to them? Losers? You don't have nice guys that get left in the "friend zone," you have creepers. Just saying.

Anyway seriously, half my friends have gotten into the friend zone situation, and no-homo they aren't bad looking, pushovers, creeps, or socially awkward (though I will admit me and my friends can be goofy, as seen by my tower of hats). And to ensure you know I'm not biased due to them being my friends some weren't even my friends at the time it happened, and I've seen it happen with people I don't even know too well.

Also what do you mean "unlike men us ladies usually do not tell men we find unattractive that they are unattractive?" Are you implying men are just assholes who say "Yeah sorry but you're fugly?" Look it sounds like you've just had a poor experience all-round, and need to make sure to not let it make you into a shallow *****, because that's how you're coming across. Or a troll.

no what im saying is when men find a girl unattractive they usually let her know more or less

am i not a troll i giving my honest opinion as a woman im tired of hearing so called nice guys ***** and complain msot of you so called nice guys jsut want to get laid


you notice that when msot nice guys complain they are always complaining about how they treat the ladies so good yet we still wont sleep with them being nice to me does not guarantee i will ahve sex with you or find you attractive

which alot of ncie guys do not seem to understand

You ever heard of "generalizing" ?

I doubt you have, look it up. All you're doing it making yourself look like a fool.

actually i have and have had enough experience with self proclaimed nice guys to know most of them are full of shit.

 

[Queen Michael]

I knew a girl. I told her I was in love with her, because she asked. She told me she wasn't in love with me. I said I knew, because I did. We're still really good friends. In my case, "frind zone" means you get to have a friend. Not too shabby, actually.

 

[Onjenae]

And again the Escapist sank in an argument about entitlement.

I thought most "friendzone" posts were supposed to be about girls who repeatedly commit the mistake of dating jerks.

I am talking about people stupid enough to start dating just because a guy paid her a beer while the proverbial "nice guy" is doing her laundry or something.

It has nothing to do with entitlement. It has to do with people too stupid to take a hint.

Sorry for the little rant, I've just seen too many "friend zone" related memes and rage comics recently. 0___0

I have the perfect solution. Stay away from 9GAG or any social bookmarking site. Those places aren't even funny 90% of the time.

i hate the whole nice guy vs jerk


really it should be fake guy who pretends to be a certain way to get pussy vs real guy who gets pussy being the way he is

nice guys bend over backwards trying to please a girl who doesnt give two shits about them thats pathetic


one i find sexcually attractive the other i let him do my laundry then laugh at him thinking how lame this dude is thinkinhg im gonig to sleep with him just for being nice to me.

 

[Xangba]

And again the Escapist sank in an argument about entitlement.

I thought most "friendzone" posts were supposed to be about girls who repeatedly commit the mistake of dating jerks.

I am talking about people stupid enough to start dating just because a guy paid her a beer while the proverbial "nice guy" is doing her laundry or something.

It has nothing to do with entitlement. It has to do with people too stupid to take a hint.

That was what I thought, didn't realize so many viewed it as the guys problem instead of the standard "She dates ass, gets fucked over, complains about no nice guys" thing.

But hey message out to you guys and gals in the "friend zone," your time will come around, and because you're the kind to be friends first you'll have some of the best relationships. Just can't let a few bumps trip you up.

 

[VeryOddGamer]

The friend zone does not exist usually guys that get put in the friendzone are either losers or very unattractive no offense.

BTW i notice that nice guys seem to think they are entitled to women alot of you so called nice guys really creep me out

you act as if women belong to you and seem to be mad at the world because you rejected and noboyd wants to sleep with you.

Being nice does not make you an interesting person, a good person, does not mean you are attractive and I've notice unlike men , us ladies usually do not tell men we find unttractive that they are unattractive.

I wish more women were like me I do not hang around or associate with males that call themselves nice guys which is ually code for pushover , cornball,creep,or just very unattractive socially awkard male

trhe reason nice guys get the friend zone is not because of them being nice its because they are usually ugly as hell.

Wow, your post is just so extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental. I am really glad for those men you deem "ugly as hell" that you don't want to associate with them, and if you ever see me I hope you think I'm ugly as hell too so you'll stay the fuck away from me.

lmaooo you must be one of the lsoers who stay getting friendzone by the ladies lmaoooo keep up with the good luck young man

Nice spelling you got there. Obvious troll is obvious.

aww nice guy got his feelings hurt dont get mad at me because you dont get laid

Well, TheVioletBandit's post summed up my opinion of you quite well. Also, from you not using proper grammar, I can also come up with the conclusion that you're either trolling, lazy, stupid or just not giving a damn.
So, just to remind you, you are

extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental.

look little boy i dont give a damn what you think honestly lol and im typing on my phone do not have time to do a gramamr check. I could see if i was writing a school papaer but then again who are you a ncie guy who doesnt get laid lol

losers like you think woman owe you something and you despise the bad boys becasue they actually get girls and dont spend their time on the net pondering why women date attractive men

At this point I might remind you that so far, the only thing I've said here is calling you

extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental.

I have not mentioned anything about women OR relationships OR douchebags. Also, you have no information about my personal life, making your insults laughable. Also also, can I give you a tip for the future? When arguing with someone, don't immediately jump into insults. They make you look immature and just plain wrong.

 

[Onjenae]

And again the Escapist sank in an argument about entitlement.

I thought most "friendzone" posts were supposed to be about girls who repeatedly commit the mistake of dating jerks.

I am talking about people stupid enough to start dating just because a guy paid her a beer while the proverbial "nice guy" is doing her laundry or something.

It has nothing to do with entitlement. It has to do with people too stupid to take a hint.

That was what I thought, didn't realize so many viewed it as the guys problem instead of the standard "She dates ass, gets fucked over, complains about no nice guys" thing.

But hey message out to you guys and gals in the "friend zone," your time will come around, and because you're the kind to be friends first you'll have some of the best relationships. Just can't let a few bumps trip you up.

thats because your always asking other nice guys lol

i love alpha men because they dont complain about shit like this they take charge and go with the flow .

 

[TehChuckles]

All I hear when I get friend zoned all I hear in my head is "You're just too fat" or "I just want a sparkly young vampire/ fashion model" or she wants to marry prince Harry. either way my logical mind can't comprehend the thought process breaks down and lights up the flee signs after the assault of Illogical logic.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

I don't really think the friendzone exists, the people who get 'friendzoned' probably never had a chance. All the 'Any girl would be lucky to have you' stuff is just to let them down easy. That said, it's never happened to me personally, in fact, I've had a couple of relationships that sort of grew out friendships, so I have pretty much no experience on the matter.

 

[Darth_Murmeltier]

I try to be as nice as I can and I expect nobody to owe me anything for that, to be honest. I can't see why this "friend zone" thing is even an issue. I guess it can hurt to be friend-zoned, but please, stop being so solipsistic, it's not only about your feelings, desires and wishes. That seems to be hard to realise for some people, since this thing is - unfortunately -, still an issue.

 

[Xangba]

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To sum this up, nice guys aren't fake guys trying to get laid, those are creepers and fall under the "asshole she complains about" category. The "nice guy" is the one who was a friend first and treats her well, then develops romantic interest during that. The nice guy is not the one who thinks "If I'm nice to her she'll screw me! Yay!" Clearly you've had a terrible experience, have a clouded view of things, and from the sound of things are the kind who jumps into bed with anyone manly enough to be "real" enough to be an ass. Being "real" isn't being an asshole, that's just what some people are.

Anyway, I'm done talking with someone who clearly only requires that someone have a good body and will jump into bed with them in a heartbeat.

 

[Shadowcreed]

The friend zone does not exist usually guys that get put in the friendzone are either losers or very unattractive no offense.

BTW i notice that nice guys seem to think they are entitled to women alot of you so called nice guys really creep me out

you act as if women belong to you and seem to be mad at the world because you rejected and noboyd wants to sleep with you.

Being nice does not make you an interesting person, a good person, does not mean you are attractive and I've notice unlike men , us ladies usually do not tell men we find unttractive that they are unattractive.

I wish more women were like me I do not hang around or associate with males that call themselves nice guys which is ually code for pushover , cornball,creep,or just very unattractive socially awkard male

trhe reason nice guys get the friend zone is not because of them being nice its because they are usually ugly as hell.

Wow, your post is just so extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental. I am really glad for those men you deem "ugly as hell" that you don't want to associate with them, and if you ever see me I hope you think I'm ugly as hell too so you'll stay the fuck away from me.

lmaooo you must be one of the lsoers who stay getting friendzone by the ladies lmaoooo keep up with the good luck young man

Nice spelling you got there. Obvious troll is obvious.

aww nice guy got his feelings hurt dont get mad at me because you dont get laid

Well, TheVioletBandit's post summed up my opinion of you quite well. Also, from you not using proper grammar, I can also come up with the conclusion that you're either trolling, lazy, stupid or just not giving a damn.
So, just to remind you, you are

extremely shallow, arrogant, hateful, and judgmental.

look little boy i dont give a damn what you think honestly lol and im typing on my phone do not have time to do a gramamr check. I could see if i was writing a school papaer but then again who are you a ncie guy who doesnt get laid lol

losers like you think woman owe you something and you despise the bad boys becasue they actually get girls and dont spend their time on the net pondering why women date attractive men

I feel that most people already pointed out how annoyingly shallow you really are though I'm getting fed up with your judgemental arse talk right about now.
Look girl, I can get that you probably had some experience with a fake 'nice guy' that wants to get into your pants and you rejected him and he went all soggy like getting back to you all day. The thing is - a real nice guy isn't like that. You just had a bad experience and because of it you're blaming all men to be swines looking for a fuck and being manipulative about it to get it. Judging by your choice of words, sentences and grammar, I'd say you're still in high school. You're in the whole social hierarchy of today's world, whereas the assholes are in high standing because hey, being able to push other people over makes you look self confident and being an ass to others gives of this vibe that you're invincible and not a push over yourself, its what girls want when they're in their teenage years. Naturally you go for those kind of guys, and you get laid with them. (just going to point it out - you really seem to think that's the importance of a relationship, probably you're one of those girls that enter a relationship for 3 days, then break up and feel absolutely nothing about it, yeah. That's not a relationship, that's a fuckbuddy at best)

Your view of the 'nice guy' is twisted and torn, all people that treat you nice are socially awkward ugly little nerds that do not deserve my attention. Trust me, once high school is over you'll find that the real world is nothing like what you've experienced your whole life so far.

 

[bojackx]

Well, that certainly makes sense, but quite often I've known girls to really lead on guys and only when the guy actually says he likes her, she slaps him with a big ol' friend zone tag.

Also, from personal experience, after you've said you like them and get friend-zoned, the friendship becomes awkward, and it doesn't feel very nice to see them, y'know because they involuntarily crushed you. And why the hell should I care if she feels I was only her friend to try get in her pants? It wasn't my intention to make her think that way, just like it wasn't her intention to hurt my feelings when she rejects me, the crazy train *****.

 

[ElPatron]

really it should be fake guy who pretends to be a certain way to get pussy vs real guy who gets pussy being the way he is

So a person can't be nice to approach women? There is nothing fake about being nice is a person is truly nice.

And the "jerk" is the kind of guy that the "girl" in this story is going to cry about. i.e. she doesn't really like that guy of guy, but she is too stupid to know better.

I can safely say that at least 10% of the women in this world have the IQ low enough to be considered legally retarded. I don't know the percentage of men with low IQ but in 10 women there is always one who is simply dumb.

And I don't mean "spiders are insects"-dumb.

I mean "Morgan Freeman is my favorite scientist"-dumb.

 

[Relish in Chaos]

I don?t think the ?friend zone? even exists. She either likes you, or she doesn?t. I understand that?s quite a black-and-white outlook, but that?s how it is. You never would?ve had a chance in the first place, so it?d make no difference whether you made a move six weeks ago.

Also, from personal observations, the best way to find a partner is to stop looking. You know, make friends without any ulterior motives, and if you both happen to like each other, then I guess you just?start dating one another.

 

[Eamar]

The friend zone does not exist usually guys that get put in the friendzone are either losers or very unattractive no offense.

Nice. I'm female and have lots of male friends (I guess I can be a bit of a bloke sometimes ). None of them are losers or what I would consider unattractive. Some of them are in relationships. Men and women CAN be friends without there being an element of sexual attraction. I know this from personal experience.