Cheating on People

[dietpeachsnapple]

I hold the opinion that cheating is a malicious deception of rather grand proportions.

If you claim that you are in a mutually exclusive relationship with someone, you must betray your word to 'cheat' on them. This may seem a lesser of charges, however, I consider my word to be of great value and worth more than a whimsical and capricious night of pleasure.

Thereafter, the act defames yourself. You severe an entire series of social connections in the act.

*sigh*

Finally, it is unkind to hurt someone in that manner. It is selfish and callous.

Perhaps my perspectives are childish, naive, and outdated, but I cannot condone the act. I have comforted one too many friends weathering that storm, and experienced it myself.

 

[G-Dragon]

i find that cheating is absolutely deplorable. i have such a hard time getting a date, and when i do, i am grateful and wouldnt want to hurt the other person, so it really pisses me off when i see other guys cheating on their girlfriends.

 

[jboking]

Cheating seems extremely evil to me. However, I knew someone back in high school who was dating five girls at the same time all of which were from five drastically different social groups. It took them a while to figure it all out. However, before they did he had gotten laid on a semi regular basis by all but one of them. All he wanted was some tail, and I figure if a guy actually WANTS to cheat, that is why.

p.s. This guy was pretty much an Adonis and one manipulative ************. I think both of those are pretty much required for you to pull off what he did.

Spoiler: for some reason, the last five years seems a little enlightening on the subject from a married mans perspective.

Everyone tells you that the minute you get married
Every other woman in the world
Suddenly finds you attractive
Well, that's not true
It only affects the kind of women
You always wanted to sleeep with
But they wouldn't give you the time of day before
And now they're banging down your door
And falling to their knees
At least that's what it feels like because you
Can
Not
Touch
Them
In fact, you can't even look at them
Close your eyes, close your eyes, close your eyes
Except you're sitting there
Eating your corned beef sandwich
And all of a sudden, this pair of breasts walks by
And smiles at you
And you're like "That's not fair!"

 

[HSIAMetalKing]

Deceiving your partner in a relationship is a mean thing to do, for sure. But too many people confuse the act of having sex with a partner outside of the relationship with the intent of betrayal, when it is really nothing more than the fulfillment of a biological desire.

It is less of a big deal than most people make it out to be.

 

[bcponpcp27]

I wouldn't care if my girlfriend cheated on me. It's her sex life, why should I have control over it?

 

[Dogstile]

At the moment it would be a mircle if I had the balls to ask this one girl out, let alone get two at the same time.

I believe two girls at one time is a different thread. That also usually requires more alcohol to be involved than bravery.

You sir, have never asked one girl out, got a yes, then turned to her friend and said "what about you?"

completely sober too. also got two yes's, to bad i was joking

 

[ThreeWords]

I'm happy as I am, with just the one girl. I don't feel the need to cheat, and also don't think it's right to be seeing another girl in secret.

There might also be the element of wanting to avoid the wrath of certain females...

You sir, have never asked one girl out, got a yes, then turned to her friend and said "what about you?"

completely sober too. also got two yes's, to bad i was joking

You, sir, win my respect

 

[KiLl_RoY]

I think that if you cheat on someone there are 2 options:

1-you cheated on him/her because you are a stupid horny ***** and you are mentally fucked.
2-You aren`t in love anymore.

 

[Kair]

No, I'm not saying polygamy is ok. Insincts should be overlooked and overcome in most cases.

Why? Not saying I don't agree, just curious as to why it should be the right thing to do to go against the way we are "programmed".

You just pissed off every intellectual on earth.

 

[DazZ.]

No, I'm not saying polygamy is ok. Insincts should be overlooked and overcome in most cases.

Why? Not saying I don't agree, just curious as to why it should be the right thing to do to go against the way we are "programmed".

You just pissed off every intellectual on earth.

I can see why there are loads of reasons, just wondering which approach he would take to why we shouldn't give in to just being animals.

We've gone against instinct too long and we'd die out very quickly on them alone now anyway. Wondering who decided hair should be cut and poop smelt bad first. (/Majorly off topic)

 

[DemonicVixen]

*sigh* I always worry my boyfriend will cheat on me... Only because i have low self confidence and do not think i am good enough for him. It does not help having a parent saying he will lol.
I would never cheat on him because i love him too much. He is the best one i have ever found. If he finds someone else better then me he knows he can just admit it and i shall let him go.

 

[Sevre]

Also, if true love exists, why is it always with someone you find physically attractive?

Because who wants to spend the rest of their life with someone ugly?

Quoted because its true.

Although I would never cheat and don't condone of anything of the sort, I can see the appeal, of course I can also see the head-wrecking guilt and the soul-losing part.

 

[Joey245]

It's wrong. /thread.

 

[Spekter068]

No, I'm not saying polygamy is ok. Insincts should be overlooked and overcome in most cases.

Why? Not saying I don't agree, just curious as to why it should be the right thing to do to go against the way we are "programmed".

You know what? That's a really good point.

 

[ProfessorLayton]

I can't stand it. I absolutely hate liars and cheating is lying. It makes me sick to my stomach...

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

I would not cheat. If you are going to be in a relationship your are only supposed to look at them. If you want to cheat, then get the hell out of the relationship.

 

[Rigs83]

Men cheats because they can or think they can. Look at politicians and other famous people who get caught cheating on spouses and girlfriends. Nothing is more stupid than a man who thinks he is above reproach. Woman cheat because they want an upgrade. That's why they are so good at it.

 

[King of the N00bs]

sorry I cant comprehend it since no girl digs me at all, not even the weird ones.

but I can tell you this...I personally would NEVER EVEREVEREVEREVERVEREVREVREVR.....EVER DO THAT!!

Of course then practically every other boy in my grade has zero insight...and somehow they always get the girl they like...its like I must be burdened with the weight of loneliness

AW SHIT Im throwing a fucking pity party for myself AGAIN. DAMMIT!!!


EDIT: sorry i totally didnt mean to blow up on myself but I just cant stand social stupidity it makes me sick and reminds me too much of myself...sorry is it ok? =/

 

[RyQ_TMC]

Cheating is simply wrong. If you commit yourself to a relationship, take responsibility for your actions. Be a bloody adult, in other words.

It should be noted here that I don't believe in the "one true love" concept - so I consider the excuse of "that other guy was made for me!" to be really weak.

If it's a situation where you've lost control... Well, you shouldn't place yourself in such a situation in the first place, but if you did, don't hide it or try continuing it behind your boy/girl's back, just tell them. Yes, it's gonna hurt you both, but not as much as it does when it's found out by them.

I might be a bit harsh about cheaters, since my first two girlfriends both broke up with me via cheating...

 

[NotAPie]

Honestly?
I hate anyone that does it without the slightest bit of guilt.
I know thats kinda mean of me but if you've ever really loved someone and then they go and fuck/get fucked then you'll know why.
I'd say more but that will be a wall of text and god knows I have a very bad way with words.