I remember how Kane and Lynch got a bit of controversy with all of the profanity. Also, I met a guy at a social group thing at a church a few years back who was against ALL games, movies, music, comics, etc. that depicted killing. He was vehemently opposed to RTSs because "They glorify the mass killings of thousands of people and war".
personally: Red Alert 2: 2,399 in a mission once; Starcraft: around 2,000, I turtled and the guy kept sending marines and firebats; Sins of a Solar Empire: billions of people, If you look at the manual and realize how many people are aboard these ships and then figure that each pop. point is around 1 million people, the toll adds up in hundred planet systems.
Back on topic: what was that OLD game that had live action videos of someone sneaking into a house and you had to set off traps to get him/them?
Off topic: Clockwork Orange game would rule as you have guessed by my icon.