Dear Escapists,

[Jon Etheridge]

Ask her out. Make sure to state that it's nothing too serious, just hanging out, then see where it goes from there.

For once I agree with O'l Scammy on something. Ask her to meet you in a public place one afternoon, say for coffee or a light dinner. Just don't let it get weird. Keep the conversation simple, and talk about things you both know at first. Maybe something school related. Either way just be yourself. That's the most important thing to do! If she's going to be into you it will be because you're you and not some persona you try to put on.

 

[DarkRyter]

Believe in the me that believes in you, and just go for it.

 

[Fairee]

I'd suggest going for it, tell her how you feel. However, a word of warning. As the one asking, if she says no then you'll feel totally crushed and humiliated and you'll find it awkward trying to talk to her. It depends whether you think she'll actually say yes and if you really wanna risk the friendship...

If she says no just say can we just get over this a be freinds

It depends how you feel. You might be able to, you might not.

I've got past it before, mainly because I couldn't stand to lose the guy as a mate. However I have also felt that I couldn't get past it, and I've lost mates because I've told them how I feel...

what lady freinds or man freinds?

Guy friends. I haven't yet asked a girl out...

 

[mrpenguinismyhomeboy]

Go for it.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

For once I agree with O'l Scammy on something.

Wooho, slow down there buddy. We got some kind of feud going on here?

Just kidding.

 

[Spartan Bannana]

Don't say you love her, don't even outright say that you're interested in her, that can ruin things. Ask her out, if she says yes and things go great, that's good. If she says no or things go badly, it's not the end of the world.

 

[bluepilot]

Just take it slow. Hang out, have fun, get to know her a little better

There is no sense in rushing these things.

 

[Sightless Wisdom]

Not trying to offend here, but usually asking people on the internet that you may or may not know about love isn't the greatest idea.

Anyway, that's really up to you, I mean your the one in the situation so without knowing every single detail about both of you, I would have no idea what you should do. Just don't do anything out of knowhere, take some time to tell whether or not you really like her/she really likes you.

 

[Lono Shrugged]

Ask her out, worse case scenario she just wants to be friends and hey you have a new friend. If this is your first time out with a girl just take it easy and treat her like any other friend. When you walk her home etc. Give her a kiss on the cheek if your not sure. If you really like this girl aim for friendship rather than love. in your own mind too.
Love comes from a mutual respect and has to be earned. Falling in love is a two way street and it's a lot of work.
Just take it easy with her, Have a good time and if something develops then good.

All my friends fall head over heels until their inner stalker comes out. I just want a girl who I can respect as an equal not some abstract emotion.

 

[skcseth]

You're not in love. Don't tell her that. FOR THE LOVE OF THE GODS OF MICROSOFT DON'T TELL HER THAT.
But I digress, just take some time to get to know her before you start throwing around the "L" word. Ask her out (as a friend, make sure you're very clear about this line the first few 'dates') to a movie light lunch or for coffee. Feel her out for a while. Then, once you two have become a little more acquainted, let her know you like her (not love her).

 

[UtopiaV1]

Don't ask her out. She will reject you. Your heart will be utterly crushed. You will die fat, old and alone in your parents basement with anime porn on the TV and LonelyHearts.com on the computer screen...

Just like me...

There's no hot-girl salvation for us gamers, we'll push away anyone who dares to love us with 4chan speak and geekery, whilst munching on Cheetos by the truckload and wasting our pitiful, meaningless existence on WoW pushing towards that all-important level 70 mark (or whatever level it is now). That is all that awaits us, my friends, a cold, barren, empty existence filled with sorrow and regret on crushes loved and lost, and then the inevitable void of terror as death consumes our withering bodies into nothingness.

So yeah, stay the hell away from THAT *****!

 

[Robert632]

Don't ask her out. She will reject you. Your heart will be utterly crushed. You will die fat, old and alone in your parents basement with anime porn on the TV and LonelyHearts.com on the computer screen...

Just like me...

There's no hot-girl salvation for us gamers, we'll push away anyone who dares to love us with 4chan speak and geekery, whilst munching on Cheetos by the truckload and wasting our pitiful, meaningless existence on WoW pushing towards that all-important level 70 mark (or whatever level it is now). That is all that awaits us, my friends, a cold, barren, empty existence filled with sorrow and regret on crushes loved and lost, and then the inevitable void of terror as death consumes our withering bodies into nothingness.

So yeah, stay the hell away from THAT *****!

you know, i'm not sure if this is a joke or not, though i think it is.

 

[Diablini]

In class, all quiet like.. Take out your penis and hold it in your hand. Then say psssst... and smile...

Pahahaha! xD LOL!

 

[Kajt]

Talk to her, and tell her how you feel about her.

Listen to Vader. He might be evil, but I agree with him. Tell her how you feel.

 

[Apathetic Flamingo]

There is a girl in my class.

She sits beside me, and is quite pretty: slim figure, very well proportioned, a nice smile that kinda makes your heart flutter when she directs it in your direction, and that "hot librarian" look most guys would DIE for.

She talks to me quite a bit, which is odd, considering most people keep me at arm's length: I'm quiet, laconic and tend to be blunt with people. She has somehow managed to look beyond that, and will regularly make an effort to strike up a conversation with me, the quiet loner. She sometimes touches my hand, and there's a certain look in her eye that I've never seen her give anyone else.

I think, my friends, I might be in love.

Unfortunately, being of a rather thick nature, I can't tell if she's just overly friendly, or if she's really flirting with me and waiting for me to make that first move.

I'm also afraid that, since she looks very much like a friend of mine, I might be using her as a proxy for said friend, who I had a crush on many years ago.

Fellow Escapists, what should I do?

Isn't rocket science. ASK HER OUT.

 

[Supraliminal]

Be yourself. See what happens.
Acting something/one else will get you into trouble in the longrun.

 

[UtopiaV1]

Don't ask her out. She will reject you. Your heart will be utterly crushed. You will die fat, old and alone in your parents basement with anime porn on the TV and LonelyHearts.com on the computer screen...

Just like me...

There's no hot-girl salvation for us gamers, we'll push away anyone who dares to love us with 4chan speak and geekery, whilst munching on Cheetos by the truckload and wasting our pitiful, meaningless existence on WoW pushing towards that all-important level 70 mark (or whatever level it is now). That is all that awaits us, my friends, a cold, barren, empty existence filled with sorrow and regret on crushes loved and lost, and then the inevitable void of terror as death consumes our withering bodies into nothingness.

So yeah, stay the hell away from THAT *****!

you know, i'm not sure if this is a joke or not, though i think it is.

Yeah, sorry that was a joke, should have qualified that...

Hey, chicks love jokes, try opening with that!!!