cobra_ky said:
riottrio said:
uurrrm... i don't quite understand your question... but i hope this answers it
I don't think people's sexuality is written in their genes or anything.
For your consideration:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation
riottrio said:
i guess this opinion formed when one of my friends was telling me about how her cousin is definitely gay, but that he couldn't help it, all about how he tried really hard to be straight but couldn't do it. I met him and it was a pile of crap, he'd only tried like, 2 girls, carefully making sure to pick the biggest bitches he could. He went in half-heartedly, trying to hate the experience as much as possible.
and i guess i don't like it when people pretend to give things a go but don't try at all... unless they are forced to do so... urgh, i'm such a contradictory person xD
i don't understand why you have to "try" at all. I certainly didn't need to try dating men to know I wasn't attracted to them.
i really like how you quoted me... your first post was all like "i'm just interested, not bothered by your opinion at all", and after i give what i personally think, you immediatly refer me to a wikipedia article in attempt to disprove my opinion ¬_¬ i want to say why weren't you straight forward about it, but to be fair, you kinda were, so i can't say that.
and i'm not saying that you have to have tried to get an opinion. i just was expressing my hate for people who claim to have tried but evidently happen. and thats good for you, that you've never thought "oh, that guy seemed quite nice" and suddenly found yourself pining for them. its a weird experience when you were very certain you were straight, i'm glad you've not had to under go it.
I stick by what i believe, its your own thoughts followed up by actions at the end of the day that decides it for you. and whilst thoughts can be influenced by genes/human nature/whatever you want to call it, i think actions are more to do with the individuals environment. which includes whether there are hormones, depressants and/or stimulants running through their veins, as well as their current emotions, attitude and how they've been brought up.
its not like it matters though what i think at the end of the day. self-proclaimed bi-sexuals will still blow their own trumpets, particular people will still shake their heads at me when i say state my opinion as if i'm some poor deluded monkey for not believing everything i read and hear about as absolute fact when they themselves would ignore sources contrary to their opinion in another situation.
anyway, Scott Pilgrim, when's it get released on DVD?