alerriixx said:
Just out of curiosity but do you not believe it possible for people to not be genetically attracted to a certain gender, such as asexuality, and instead like the person simply based upon personality?
I honestly hope you don't see this is arguing, as I'm just interested in how other people think. xD
uurrrm... i don't quite understand your question... but i hope this answers it
I don't think people's sexuality is written in their genes or anything. infact, i don't think a lot of things people say are due to genes are actually due to them. I always disagree with people who say "i'm gay, i tried women and i can't like them, i have to be gay" or even "i'm straight, i just hate guys". It is all down to personal choice in my head, so accept that at the moment, you like a girl rather than a guy or whatever... i guess this opinion formed when one of my friends was telling me about how her cousin is definitely gay, but that he couldn't help it, all about how he tried really hard to be straight but couldn't do it. I met him and it was a pile of crap, he'd only tried like, 2 girls, carefully making sure to pick the biggest bitches he could. He went in half-heartedly, trying to hate the experience as much as possible.
and i guess i don't like it when people pretend to give things a go but don't try at all... unless they are forced to do so... urgh, i'm such a contradictory person xD
either way, i've liked guys and girls, but never at the same time... so i wouldn't call myself a bi-sexual... but some people would, but i think thats wrong, i was just deciding. I guess at the end of the day though it doesn't matter, humans are weird and act strangely to relationships with other humans, whether ones of attraction or not.
out of interest, whats your view?