Do all women like jerks? No (a rant)
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"Except that since everyone on this forum is just a sexist, overgrown man-child I guess that's that's never going to happen (note: this was a joke)."
Yeah... making a joke that completely contradicts your point and also having to point out that it is a joke probably wasn't the smartest thing to do...
Yeah... making a joke that completely contradicts your point and also having to point out that it is a joke probably wasn't the smartest thing to do...
The thing that gets to me is that most people who complain about the fact they don't have a relationship, only want a relationship so they can say "Look at me! I have a relationship".
Yeah me too, who cares about what chicks actually want, as long as I can get 'em into bed.RhombusHatesYou said:
Oh wait. *Looks at chest* Yeah, never mind.
[sub]I was genuinely amused by your comment. You are a good person.
Also, I happen to be a guy, I was making an unfunny joke.[/sub]
OT: I must admit, I agree entirely with the OP, and most other things said since in this thread, and I'm finding it hard to add anything valuable to the discussion...
Well I already knew this, and it's kind of depressing that not everyone did beforehand; not from personal experience of course since I've never even made an attempt.
Threads like these need to occur every couple of months, as it seems like this sad line of thinking often afflicts guys of a certain age. Usually it's just a phase, but sometimes it can persist. I realised about a month back that a 21-year-old very good friend of mine thought this way, and luckily for me, a mutual friend was with us at the time, so we teamed up and went about beating the stupid out of him. In a verbal discussion of course. I think it worked. He still has some troubling views on women.
Ha. I haven't had this talk yet. I think my mother worries about me being promiscuous (she would disapprove), rather than being sexually exploited by jerks.Dags90 said:
No women don't like jerks, humans don't like being mistreated. However, like a brainwashed simpleton they simply cannot help themselves by going out with ass-holes... then reproduce with them. Then make more ass-hole children. Natural selection at it's best.
Ladies, if a guy is being nice to you; grow a fucking brain for once and appreciate it rather then dumping him and going for a biker who hits you. Oh and yes I can speak from experience. I'm sick of being a nice guy and not getting anywhere.
On my most recent date I sat in my car with the fairly drunk girl in her driveway before dropping her off. Then she said offhandedly "you're the first guy who hasn't tried to take advantage of me". Yes you heard that right, she has gone out with so many ass-holes that the very notion of me not taking advantage of a drunk girl seemed to shock her.
Ladies, if a guy is being nice to you; grow a fucking brain for once and appreciate it rather then dumping him and going for a biker who hits you. Oh and yes I can speak from experience. I'm sick of being a nice guy and not getting anywhere.
On my most recent date I sat in my car with the fairly drunk girl in her driveway before dropping her off. Then she said offhandedly "you're the first guy who hasn't tried to take advantage of me". Yes you heard that right, she has gone out with so many ass-holes that the very notion of me not taking advantage of a drunk girl seemed to shock her.
Yeap I read it. But who says my post is directly addressing OP?SeanTheSheep said:
Everyone stops at Vagenda.SeanTheSheep said:
They should make a giant fibreglass tourist trap for it - The Big Vagenda. Probably on the NSW north coast.
What amuses me is the blokes who think being nice to some bird automatically gives the bird some sort of obligation to him. That's not being nice that's being a calculating, manipulative shitheel.
Wow this is like the fourth thread I've seen today dealing with the human relationship dynamic,
I like your style lady Hiraeth, this honesty is cool and I think that's what guys want sometimes
Don't sugar coat stuff for us, don't like us? Tell us straight out, we'll be fine, we may hate you for a while, but we'll get over it
I think the opposite side of the coin here is that you women think that all men are childish and have less emotional stability than a coconut, when that is just as bad as a generalization as do all girls like jerks
that's why you have to treat us more than just dudes who are immature...
Sure we'll laugh at people getting groin hit once in a while, but we're not totally incapable of being mature here too.
In general, there are tow sides to every story, and the relationship dynamic is no different, there are stereotypes for both
also, these articles are presented in a humorous way, but they are true to the dot, read em up if you want a little more insight.
Just a Supplement I found in line with the topic
http://www.cracked.com/article_18804_the-6-wrong-questions-men-love-to-ask-about-women.html
Just something to think about for both sides yeah?
I like your style lady Hiraeth, this honesty is cool and I think that's what guys want sometimes
Don't sugar coat stuff for us, don't like us? Tell us straight out, we'll be fine, we may hate you for a while, but we'll get over it
I think the opposite side of the coin here is that you women think that all men are childish and have less emotional stability than a coconut, when that is just as bad as a generalization as do all girls like jerks
that's why you have to treat us more than just dudes who are immature...
Sure we'll laugh at people getting groin hit once in a while, but we're not totally incapable of being mature here too.
In general, there are tow sides to every story, and the relationship dynamic is no different, there are stereotypes for both
also, these articles are presented in a humorous way, but they are true to the dot, read em up if you want a little more insight.
Just a Supplement I found in line with the topic
http://www.cracked.com/article_18804_the-6-wrong-questions-men-love-to-ask-about-women.html
Just something to think about for both sides yeah?
Best. Slogan. Ever.RhombusHatesYou said:
OT: Yeah, the OP really said it all.
I actually can't think of anything else to add to that. I'm lost for words.
So in return for a comment adding much to the conversation, enjoy this picture of a panda eating bamboo.
Goddamn. At the risk of sounding cliche, right on sister.Hiraeth said:
I, too, am female, and I get so tired of the stereotype that women love to date men that treat them like dirt. It paints women as masochistic (pardon the irony of my username), subservient nutjobs who love pain and hate being treated like human beings, which is far from the case.
No sane, well-adjusted, happy woman I've met has ever been in a relationship where she was treated like crap, or even like a "princess" for that matter. The only women I've known that have dated terrible men are women that from unfortunate roots of their own. Personally, (not that personal anecdotes count as any sort of "proof") I've been in a happy relationship for two and a half years with a guy that treats me only as an equal. Two and a half years is a huge portion of your life when you're 19. I would never have wasted that much time with someone who didn't treat me with properly.
In my few 19 years of life I've found that sweeping generalizations are only good for cracking the occasional distasteful joke. When actually applied to real life, they fall apart fairly quickly and only serve to promote hatred towards certain groups of people.
I'm sure it's different in different areasHiraeth said:
but I do find it funny that here it's completely true
...and if the guy's not a jerk (like a nerd) he becomes one ("look what I've got!")
now I'm not saying that's true everywhere, that would be a massive assumption
I do find it funny that it's true here though... then again I do live in Humboldt... *cough*
Wow. You really didn't read the OP, or you are just trolling.Jewrean said:
I hope you're intelligent enough to be trolling.
As RaphaelsRedemption stated, I do hope you're a troll and just not an incredibly stupid person. I hope you realize that "your most recent date" doesn't represent all women, and the fact that that one girl doesn't have good relationships with men doesn't mean we all don't.Jewrean said:
As women we didn't collectively join together and say, "It is decided; this drunk girl in Jewrean's car shall be our ambassador. She will help bridge the gender gap, making men understand how we think by explaining how we all get drunk and taken advantage of in cars on a regular basis."
Herp a derp derp.
RhombusHatesYou said:
Somebody copyright the word "Vagenda" and all related words and brands, I'll get started on merchandise.Hiraeth said: