Not exactly true. In Euripides' play about Medea, she kills her children, but the play wa baed around the legend, and in that they are killed by vengeful local soldiers after she escapes.Thespian said:However! Here is my answer; Medea.
Medea is the greek play about the woman who killed her children in order to get revenge on her disloyal husband. I would use a spoiler tag but it is literally millennia old so I think it's okay. And most people know the story. I digress.
Euripides' play just happens to be the most famous depiction of the legend.
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Otherwise, yeah, what evilthecat said.
Erm...not sure how not being in favour of juvenile ideas of being powerful is post-feminist, nor holding to things held as traditional female virtues.Liviola said:I'll agree "power" is not exactly a right word, but I do have an image of my 'ultimate form of self'. Firstly, I'm sort of what you could call post-feminist -- I'm totally not interested in tropes in media of ball-breaking, manly-strength, violently predatory chicks who are at the same time oversexualised and young. It seems pathetically overcompensatory in a distinctly juvenile male way.
I am, however, proud of my feminine qualities such as charity, care for others, resilience and wisdom. I guess I'm getting to the age where I'm actually discovering "mom qualities" in myself (I'm totally not a mom and I'm in my early 20s but I'm starting to respect and value these traits).
So, if I picture myself in the ultimate form, I would be someone that many people depend upon for care and wisdom, and also respect and fear (potentially) and trust me, and I'd have some serious skills in things that make everyone look up to me. That's probably how you can describe Femshep or a bunch of other game and movie heroines. But yeah, just highlighting how it's not strength or raw power, per se. It's an aura of respect that you can gain from a number of other traits like knowledge, resilience and beauty.
I think that is one thing that made Ripley's character admirable is her "maternal strength". For those of us who had amazing mothers, you'd know that admiration and respect for a woman who is both sensitive and tough, or even some of you guys know what it's like to have a woman partner who is dependable, dignified, and carries herself with a natural elegance, not necessarily sexual but awe-inspiring.
That is what I'd want to be
Now, I don't have anything against motherhood, only it sometimes seems that people have a hard time thinking of motivations for strong female characters beyond it.
You have Ripley, you have Sarah Connor whose entire purpose was to protect hers, you have Beatrice Kiddo whose entire purpose was to avenge/rescue hers (and the woman in Ultraviolet, if anyone would admit to watching it).
Or, for that matter, Molly Weasley, she spends the first 6 books/movies knitting jumpers and cooking dinner for the other characters, only it turns out she's capable of killing off the Dark Lord's most powerful Death Eater all by herself when her daughter is threatened (had to be daughter and her female friends, cause you couldn't have male wizards fighting a female Death Eater).
Now, not saying that there's anything wrong with motherhood, and yes there's examples of female characters motivated by other things, but it's massively over-represented.