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Spamcar

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Is this something you support?

The reason i am asking, is because I just today found out that my friend had been dating my sister... for 2 months. The way I found out, was when my "friend" came up to me and said: "Hey, I'm dating your sister and we've been together for 2 months" and then he left immediatly afterwards.
But I can't say I'm surprised. They've been spending more and more time together the last couple of months.
The worst part is that me AND my friends have confronted him with his closeness with my sis, but he would just deny that he felt ANYTHING for her. My friends have also told him that he's on thin ice and could lose a friend permanently, but that was np for him apparently. He's just a filthy, filthy liar -.-
Guess there's no need to tell that I'm full of rage and I want to kick his ass atm, but that'll not solve anything...
Oh and even worse! In the last 2 months I've seen him drunk at parties making out with a girl in my class. Which make me wanna kick his ass even more!

So, long story short: He went behind my back and started going out with my sister, without talking to me about.
So am i in my right mind to be mad at him, or am i overeacting?

Btw, he is 17 (like me) and my sister is 19

(Sorry if my writing is a little messed up, I'm really pissed and wrote this very quick)
 

anthony87

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.....so your friend likes your sister.
What's the big deal?

EDIT: Wait I missed the part about him making out with a girl in your class. Sorry about that.
 

NotAPie

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I can see why you'd be angry, this guy sounds like a jerk.
Still though, its not any of your business even though she's your sister, personally I'd tell her what I saw and expose him for the cock he is, this could lead to problems though and it is her choice so...Yeah.
 

DazZ.

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Being mad because of making out with other people whilst being with your sister is perfectly fine.
Not because they are together. Depending on how well you get on with your sister that could be awesome, not as if you wanted her (?) and as long as he's with her he can't take people from the pickings you have your eye on.
 

JRCB

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Yeah, I would talk to him about the party thing. And if he's an asshole about it, it might be best to tell your sister.

And from what I've heard, he doesn't sound like a very good friend.
 

Kodlak

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Ok maybe he didn't tell you was because he didn't know how you'd react *dons mirror*. But ok the whole making out with someone else is no good best have a talk with him about that.

And maybe see how your sister feels about him... if she's happy, then might be best to leave alone.
 

lazy_bum

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The going out part, big deal, for a start she isnt your older sister. of course he would lie, he probably guessed you would be pissed.

on the making out part, kick his arse and black mail him. works like a charm every time.
 

Mrsoupcup

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Spamcar said:
Dude you should kick his ass, If he really is cheating on your sister. Just check with your sister first if he is still dating her, and also make sure he actually cheated. Then if he did, here is a song to get pumped: (Listen to the whole thing and you shall be ready) If he wasn't cheating tell your sister and let her handle him. Edit: Also, HE BROKE THE BRO CODE.
 

Slayer_2

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Wow, what an idiot. He is dating your sister and then makes out with another girl when he (probably) knew you'd see. If I were you, I'd have a very serious talk with him about this.
 

-Orgasmatron-

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Pics of sister? Only then can we decide whether or not we support it, right guys?

Patrick_and_the_ricks said:
Spamcar said:
Dude you should kick his ass, If he really is cheating on your sister. Just check with your sister first if he is still dating her, and also make sure he actually cheated. Then if he did, here is a song to get pumped: (Listen to the whole thing and you shall be ready) If he wasn't cheating tell your sister and let her handle him. Edit: Also, HE BROKE THE BRO CODE.
So that's who did the original Hair of The Dog. I'm a fan of the Guns N' Roses version myself.

 

Brad Shepard

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it the dude is nice then fine, if the dude is a dick, you might just have to let your sister make her own mistake, you cant watch out for her forever
 

Spadly

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It sounds like you're a bit of an overprotective cockbend, so he was probably trying to avoid telling you that he was boning your sister so he wouldn't get his ass kicked.
Honestly, it's okay if he's doing your sister. Be okay with it.
Yeah, he kissed some girl, we all make mistakes.
Also, the "Bro Code" does not apply to sisters. It applies to potential sex that your mate steals from under your nose. THAT is an ass-kick-worthy situation, not this.
Leave them to it, it's not really your place to poke and probe. Your sis is old enough to know what she's doing.