Friend dating sister

[darkless]

She's a big girl she can make her own decisions on who she dates calm down and leaver her alone and your friend is his own person and he to can decide who he dates so i guess leave him alone too.

 

[Souplex]

Just do what I do when I meet any of my friends boyfriends for the first time. Say "You break her heart, I break your thumbs."

 

[Icehearted]

If a friend was dating your sister, that would be one thing, this guys sounds like a d-bag from what you've described.

As a rule, whatever goes on between others is between them. That's my advice.

 

[anthony87]

Is this something you support?

The reason i am asking, is because I just today found out that my friend had been dating my sister... for 2 months. The way I found out, was when my "friend" came up to me and said: "Hey, I'm dating your sister and we've been together for 2 months" and then he left immediatly afterwards.
But I can't say I'm surprised. They've been spending more and more time together the last couple of months.
The worst part is that me AND my friends have confronted him with his closeness with my sis, but he would just deny that he felt ANYTHING for her. My friends have also told him that he's on thin ice and could lose a friend permanently, but that was np for him apparently. He's just a filthy, filthy liar -.-
Guess there's no need to tell that I'm full of rage and I want to kick his ass atm, but that'll not solve anything...
Oh and even worse! In the last 2 months I've seen him drunk at parties making out with a girl in my class. Which make me wanna kick his ass even more!

So, long story short: He went behind my back and started going out with my sister, without talking to me about.
So am i in my right mind to be mad at him, or am i overeacting?

Btw, he is 17 (like me) and my sister is 19

(Sorry if my writing is a little messed up, I'm really pissed and wrote this very quick)

1)You say you saw him making out with another girl; talk to him about what you saw?

2)While you're just being concerned it's important to note that your sister is older than you so maybe it's best to let her decide these things for herself.

3)Of course he' gonna deny liking her if you're getting this pissed off about it Which is proabably why he left so suddenly after telling you.

4)Could you elaborate on how he "went behind your back"? In a situation like this saying that someone went behind your back is like saying they stole a girl they knew you were into. Not trying to insult you by the way, just trying to get a better understanding of the situation.

Personally I think you may be overeacting just a tad, especially with the whole "losing a friend permanently" thing.

Speaking to you from experience I think you just may not be too thrilled about the idea of a guy being intimate with your sister. When my sister started going out with her boyfriend I hated the guy but that was just because I couldn't stand the thoughts of them...doing stuff, y'know? But I came to accept him with time....kinda. Give it a chance and you might find that your friend and sister being together isn't as bad as you think.

 

[anthony87]

It sounds like you're a bit of an overprotective cockbend, so he was probably trying to avoid telling you that he was boning your sister so he wouldn't get his ass kicked.
Honestly, it's okay if he's doing your sister. Be okay with it.
Yeah, he kissed some girl, we all make mistakes.
Also, the "Bro Code" does not apply to sisters. It applies to potential sex that your mate steals from under your nose. THAT is an ass-kick-worthy situation, not this.
Leave them to it, it's not really your place to poke and probe. Your sis is old enough to know what she's doing.

Shit....ninja'd.

 

[Guitarmasterx7]

I don't have a sister and hate the emphasis society places on the family as a whole, so maybe that's why I'm missing the reason you should give a shit.

 

[A Random Reader]

Tell your sister about the party after talking to him about it, if he is a jerk about it, tell your sister. Also it is reasonable to be mad at him; he was dating your sister without telling you.

 

[EchetusXe]

He is cheating on your sister and yet you are mad because he lied to you about going out with her in the first place. That is truly amazing.

 

[Dr. Gorgenflex]

I don't think thats weird at all, its no different then you becoming a friend with your sisters boyfriend, just a little backwards.

 

[Chaos Bringer]

Kick his ass. But talk first.

 

[Phoenix Arrow]

It's none of your business.
Ninja edit. Post and read the topic later.
Anyway, what can you do? Complain to your sister and she'll tell you where to stick it. Complain to your friend and have him tell you where to stick it. It's none of your business.

 

[Snowalker]

Your kinda childish, seriously? Other than him cheating on your sister, theres no reason why you should be mad at him, you might think his taste in girls is bad, thats logical, but being mad at im is just silly.

 

[Altorin]

If he's good to her, then there's nothing wrong with it.

My best friend dated my sister for about 3 years, and he was the best boyfriend to her that she'd ever had, so I completely supported it.

 

[Shapsters]

What?

So it was like

[http://s793.photobucket.com/albums/yy211/thoriscoolio/?action=view&current=lol-1.jpg]

Haha, did you whip that up just for this thread? You have too much time on your hands my friend. Nice job nonetheless!

I dunno about you but I am protective over my sister, she is older than me but I don't want some jerk fucking around with her. Just keep an eye on the guy and tell your sister if you don't trust him, maybe she will listen to you.

 

[PlainTwo]

I don't really see the problem here. If your sister and your friend like each other, thats their business, not yours. I don't see why he would have to talk to you about it first.

 

[recoverytwo]

Well... is she hot ?

JK i would think nothing of it.

I dont see the difference between her going out with a stranger or a friend other than you uknow the guy.

 

[ButanicXpandA]

He should have asked you first, and yeah him going behind your back is a good reason to be angry.
And personally I would have kicked his arse on the spot when he confronted you with it.

 

[ButanicXpandA]

He should have asked you first, and yeah him going behind your back is a good reason to be angry.