Gay guy may be attracted to me!
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Souldemon8 said:Easy mix a gay thing with a badass thing to scare him off.......hire a Chinese S.W.A.T team on Segways to chase him down.
the segways are the gay thing right?
He's just a gay guy with a crush, there's no need to freak out. Just tell him you're not gay and you can both move on.
Edit: And to those who say to kick him in the balls/hit him/beat him up/whatever - it's homophobic enough that this thread was made. You don't have to go all-out asshole.
Edit: And to those who say to kick him in the balls/hit him/beat him up/whatever - it's homophobic enough that this thread was made. You don't have to go all-out asshole.
Drop a few hints that you aren't interested. If he doesn't clue in, politely inform him that you aren't. If he persists, outright rejection may be the only course of action. Whatever you do, do not be pressured into a relationship with him just for his sake; as I once read in an analysis of Twilight: "If you have to beg for love, it isn't love."
Turn him down the same way you'd decline the advances of any female.
...and stop being weirded out by it and learn to take a compliment. I'd be flattered, if I were you.
...and stop being weirded out by it and learn to take a compliment. I'd be flattered, if I were you.
If he's friends with your girlfriend then he's probably fucking around with you. Especially if it's making you obviously uncomfortable.
Also, I can't believe in 2010 we're still having "gay panic" threads.
Also, I can't believe in 2010 we're still having "gay panic" threads.
Well let me ask you this: Do just want the attention to stop, or do you want him to never talk to you again?
Shrug it off. It's not going to kill you unless he goes all homicidal creepy stalker on you.
He might just be messing with you to see how far he can push before you wig out.
He might just be messing with you to see how far he can push before you wig out.
THISMarter said:
It may sound cruel, but it would be a lot more cruel to let him continue to pursue you with false hope
first of all, pretty much all advice that maybe placed in this thread may be useless partly because we do not know anything else other than the fact he is an homosexual and it would be very unwise just label him as one.
the best decision would come from you as you can take in the other personality traits into account however the most common way to deal with situations like this is to be Straight (this is not a sexuality reference) with him if he is a mature person otherwise intimidation sometimes works with immature people
you can just ignore it like some other people have suggested unless it starts to become a problem
the actions to take will vary person to person however ultimately depends on what type of person you are and the type of person you are dealing with, imo do what you feel is the best unless of course you are a really concious about your social status in which case you are in the wrong forum.
the best decision would come from you as you can take in the other personality traits into account however the most common way to deal with situations like this is to be Straight (this is not a sexuality reference) with him if he is a mature person otherwise intimidation sometimes works with immature people
you can just ignore it like some other people have suggested unless it starts to become a problem
the actions to take will vary person to person however ultimately depends on what type of person you are and the type of person you are dealing with, imo do what you feel is the best unless of course you are a really concious about your social status in which case you are in the wrong forum.