Gay guy may be attracted to me!

[Kimarous]

If he's friends with your girlfriend then he's probably fucking around with you. Especially if it's making you obviously uncomfortable.

Also, I can't believe in 2010 we're still having "gay panic" threads.

And why is that? Do you believe that we are all so liberal in this day and age that having someone you definately aren't interested in coming on to you shouldn't bother us?

 

[Nemu]

A gay guy at my school is following me around and is being really affectionate. all of my friends say that he fancies me. Also i'm not gay and happen to be in a healty relationship.

also he gave me a valentines card about cuddling for my birthday.

What the hell should i do??

Turn him down the same way you'd decline the advances of any female.

...and stop being weirded out by it and learn to take a compliment. I'd be flattered, if I were you.

This.


I have guys following me around, too, but I don't make threads about it. Just tell him yer not interested. It's no different than a girl you have no interest in flirting with you.

 

[Divine Miss Bee]

treat him as you would a girl you weren't interested it. he probably does like you, but there's no need to be a jerk in any way-just let him down gently.

 

[andriod]

take him to a secluded part of the school, hold his arms and stare affectionatly at him. Then say in you best heavy weapons guy voice "Kiss me", trust me he will run

 

[AgDr_ODST]

From one straight dude to another. Be flattered by the fact that he fancies you but at the same time remind him that your straight and in a relationship

 

[Eldarion]

I have a male friend thats like that. Thing is we are close friends, it must be harder for you cause its a stranger.

 

[Caligulove]

Tell him that basically, you're not gay.

Doesn't have to be an overt "..not that I'm saying anything about being gay or anything!..." kind of spiel.

But if you lay down the fact that, 'hey, I'm just not into guys.' then he can accept that.

 

[LadyRhian]

Be honest. Tell him, "Look, I'm flattered by your interest in me, but I'm not gay and not interested. And to be honest, you are creeping me out with the way you are acting and refusal to accept my non-interest. Stop it."

 

[Deltron]

I shudder to think about you do when you have a real problem

 

[Nouw]

Seriously though, just tell him you're not interested. If all else fails

Spoiler: This beauty doesn't

And once again being serious, tell your GirlFriend to tell him to stop.

 

[RN7]

Being a douchebag normally gets people to leave you alone. Tampering with their minds through your words works better on "tougher" people.

Or you could always, and this is a real stretch, tell him you're not gay.

 

[NoblePhilistineFox]

A gay guy at my school is following me around and is being really affectionate. all of my friends say that he fancies me. Also i'm not gay and happen to be in a healty relationship.

also he gave me a valentines card about cuddling for my birthday.

What the hell should i do??

this happened between me and a gay friend of mine.
he thinks I would be popular in the gay crowd.
all I could say is "as long as you dont try to stick it up my butt, im cool with it"
and thats the story of why I like girls...

OT:
just be blunt with him, tell him that youre not interested in breaking up with your girlfriend to be with someone who is of the opposite sexual preferance.

 

[Paksenarrion]

[a href="http://www.theonion.com/articles/why-do-all-these-homosexuals-keep-sucking-my-cock,10861/"]This article may be useful to you, then.[/a]

 

[The Hairminator]

Get him in a Three-Way relationship with you and your girlfriend.

 

[Brain_Cleanser]

Maybe he just likes you as a person and is more affectionate with his friends than you're used to? I mean really, he's friends with your girlfriend, at the very least he knows you're already taken.

He'll get over it, I know, I'm speaking form experience (On the gay side). Just weather the storm.

If I could never be emotionally attracted to straight guys again I would so do it.

I hear ya.

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Get your girl to ***** slap him.

Falcon Punch is NOT a ***** Slap! How many times am I going to have to tell people that before it sinks in!?

 

[Kpt._Rob]

The exact same thing you'd do if there was a girl who was interested in you who you weren't interested in. So, if you were me that would involve, not doing anything, but if he approaches you just say "well, I'm flattered, but I'm afraid I don't feel that way about you." Easy as that.

 

[lSHaDoW-FoXl]

Be honest. Who knows, you might become friends anyway.

 

[e2density]

You should do it too.