Girls and gaming

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high_castle

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Gaming has long been a male-dominated pursuit in the same way as my sport/profession out in the real world is a female-dominated one (check the avatar for anyone puzzled by what it might be). Whatever the reason, games in general are definitely geared towards a male audience. I remind myself of this whenever I have to sit through a male fan-service cutscene or tilt my head at the physics-defying improbability of the outfits on some female characters. Or their crazy proportions. So if you're the type of girl who can get through this without it bugging you to an immense degree, odds are you're also the kind of girl who can deal with the machismo of some male gamers. And by that I mean mostly FPS types. For some reason girls have always been allowed in the clubhouse when it comes to RPGs. But give us a gun and a POV camera, and suddenly it's no girls allowed. But I digress. I think there's a large portion of girls out there who are (A) aware of the stereotypes and sexism and either can suffer through them because at the end of the day they still have fun gaming, (B) play single player games in the privacy of their own home so no one can berate them for their choices, or (C) actively seeks to crush men in online combat to prove the superiority of the double X chromosome. I say this all in good humor, of course. ;)
 

Captain_Ne-San

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I play a couple of FPS mostly just against my boyfriend and his friends. My laptop can't handle using Vista and playing Left 4 Dead or I'd be playing that online. The times I do play online no one really noticed the female in their midst. I've never really received any heckling for being a female gamer in games. I used to get quite a lot in real life.

I was with a male friend and we spent a bit of time digging through a clearance bin of old PC games. There was another guy there digging with us and he kept just being an asshole. Very purposely throwing Barbie and Disney games into my pile or where I was looking. I've had quite a few people do things like this. Had men ask very snidely if I'm buying a game for my boyfriend and another call me a lesbian.
 

nataziel

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I don't often come up against female gamers in online games like fps/rts which I mostly play, but I find there's a lot of them at arcades and stuff playing racing games and DDR, and all of the girls that play DDR that I know are better than I am. I don't feel bad when I get beaten at the arcade but I dunno, it does feel different getting beaten by a girl than a guy at fps/rts, mostly because I only associate those games with male gamers. Girl gamers to me are very meh, I couldn't really care who my opponent is, I'm gonna play just the same.

Also, power to girls who use their gender to their advantage, I know I would if I could get away with it, it's just something else when they get in your face with the whole "OMG YOU GUYS I'M A GIRL GIMME FREE STUFFS"
 

Simalacrum

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aaah i wish more girls would play games... i like socialising with girls, not being flirtatious or sexist or anything, i just get along better with them :)
 

Gorrister

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My sister kicks ass at Civilisation. Not just as in compared to the rest of us who are crap, but she's godly at it. Also she pretty much live on the Wii. Super Paper Mario and Mario Party 8 are her faves.

To me theres nothing hotter than a girl who can kick my ass on Tekken. I've yet to meet a girl who enjoys playing videogames as a couples past time. Forever hopeful though :)
 

DYin01

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My girlfriend's a gamer. We play WoW together a lot. She's a huge RPG fan. She has all sorts of weird JRPGs for her PS2 and she bought a 360 recently. It's awesome.
 

Evertw

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I'm getting annoyed by the idiots saying first, don't discriminate girl gamers, and then they say that girl gamers and girls in general are more mature and intelligent than guys, wait so its ok to discriminate guys?

Sounds like some people are bending backwards for girls.
 

Mockingjay

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Pennyy9 said:
I like girls, and most males would agree with me. Girls are a fundamental part of life for a guy, else life would be one loooooong football locker room. I get mistaken for a girl all the time, because of (I presume my gamertag is the reason!!) is Pennyy9. Pennyy is my nickname. And so it begins. I cant play because I'm a girl, don't let me have the sniper because I'm a girl. Hey look, she has a BR, you could kill her easy because... you know. This is only when I don't use my mic, but the small times I don't use it bring on a plethora of sexist instances. Half the girls I know are awesome at games, and one of them has one of the top scores in the world at Tetris. Tetris is beast, and so I give a collosal bow to all gamer girls because you make... the gaming world go round? I don't know. Good job.
I like you.
 

Major_Sam

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I've seen quite a few girls online. Being one, I probably look out for them more so than others. But yeah, usally I don't flaunt my girliness cause I don't think its important. I'm just playing to have fun! Like you are supposed to. But when I'm sure there is another girl who is on the other team who is getting a better score...I might...get a tad jealous. I have no idea why.

But it is nice to be recognized as a female gamer in a FPS and being told that you're awesome/"wow a girl!". But unfortunatly, you do get the odd arse hole who thinks you should go off and play puppy and fashion games which does hurt. Look, he walked in front of me as I threw a stun grenade and I just happen to hit him! He wasn't difficult to miss with that huge head anyway.
 

chrisjn0

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Lots of girls in mmo's but when I play female characters, I get more unsolicited free stuff from other players.
 

Iron Mal

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Evertw said:
I'm getting annoyed by the idiots saying first, don't discriminate girl gamers, and then they say that girl gamers and girls in general are more mature and intelligent than guys, wait so its ok to discriminate guys?

Sounds like some people are bending backwards for girls.
This is a good point to be honest, when it comes to debates and arguements about equality we often see the 'crusaders' push too hard to make a point (not only are they just as good as everyone else, they're better!), this results in these debates no longer being about equality as they are about supremicy (screw leveling the playing field, we want to turn it around completely).
 

NotAPie

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:p I just treat everyone the same.
Sadly, the games that I play, there are immature assholes that love cracking lame jokes about woman.
 

Arkhangelsk

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One funny thing you can do is pretend that you actually are a girl, thus attracting the sexist gamers, or vice versa, thus sticking it to their faces or using the advantage. I was mistaken for a girl in FFXI, and people in groups started to treat me nicer and shit, so I used it for my advantage. And if you play a game that dudes expect dudes to play, then you, a girl, can pretend to be a guy, then whoop their asses at the game, and then voice chat them, and totally humiliate them.

But in all seriousness, I don't see why guys would be better at games than girls. I know a couple of girls who are super good at it, and kick most people's ass at it. Hell, they're better than me at some games, and I've only played my whole life? Although one of them is older than me, thus having played longer, but still, grade A playing.