Bashfluff said:
I love this. No, when MEN do it, it's different. It's just trash talk. Of course it is. Keep on shining, you crazy diamond!
It's all trash talk, and either all of it is okay, or none of it is.
That's just it, why is everyone so uptight about a bit of trash talk? If I'm pissed at someone because I missed a shot or they got a rocket launcher, why can't I cures him/her out? Why should I just let The Man tell me I'm not allowed to be angry because I might hurt someone's feelings who's probably too young to be on that game anyway?
erttheking said:
That is ridiculous. If someone is getting pushed around on XBL because of their gender than it isn't "their problem" and I really don't see why we should harbor and protect that kind of stuff. It's a major problem considering how many women on this thread are actually saying that they might actually consider playing XBL again. And according to what you said, the report system doesn't really do anything, which is exactly why we NEED an overhauled report system. Also man, why exactly shouldn't we strive to better ourselves? Why should we just be content with allowing a bunch of assholes running around making the games less fun for everyone else? Why? Why should we defend that? I can't remember the last time I met a girl on XBL, and I have a pretty good idea why. Now then, I am tired and I am going to bed.
Because YOU have the option not hear those racial slurs or sexist remarks. YOU can just mute anyone you like. If you don't mute or block someone and you know they are harassing you, then you're choosing to listen to it. It shouldn't be 343's job to make sure you can handle online interaction. It's not pretty, but most people seem to deal with it just fine.
And banning anyone that says anything dirty or trashy just shows how how thin skinned we are. You will hear a lot of things you don't like from everywhere, but there's nothing we can do about it. Just learn to tolerate it. This entire thread shows just how much we much want other people to manage our feelings for us because we are either too afraid to or simply don't care.