Has anyone completely destroyed your trust?
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Dude, if she cheated on you when you were only gone for a few days, I really don't think it's the best idea to become close company with her again. But, this is just the opinion of some guy on the internet, so hopefully it goes well.Suicidejim said:
On topic, I don't think so. My parents didn't listen to me when I asked for a chance to see a social worker, which led to a suspension and two weeks in the mental ward. Still not a fan of my mother.
Two times
A: Girlfriend cheated on me TWICE (This is a good example of: Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me) Needless to say I've been afraid of relationships since this.
B: My "friend" helped an enemy of mine find a way to really get to me
Is it just me or do teens have chronic backstabbing disorder?
A: Girlfriend cheated on me TWICE (This is a good example of: Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me) Needless to say I've been afraid of relationships since this.
B: My "friend" helped an enemy of mine find a way to really get to me
Is it just me or do teens have chronic backstabbing disorder?
humanity has. Every day i hear friends lying to friends, friends lying to enemies random people lying through there everyday lives, it seems that 90% of anyone I come across has an easier time lying then they do telling the truth , especially my some of my so called friends, and no one seems to have a problem with it
Not to the extent of the other posters, but a tad bit. My girlfriend of the time didn't cheat on me (that I know of), but was extremely dishonest, and lied more to cover it up. This caused me to get in a long disagreement with a good friend of mine. He eventually showed me I was wrong, but we aren't friends anymore. I still feel bad.
Well, since about 1000+ people read my thread about heartbrake, some of you know that yes, someone has broken my trust, and she didn't do it in such a nice way.
I had one friend who absolutely betrayed my trust by essentially telling me "Screw you, you're boring, i'm gonna go hang out with the people who are you're sworn enemies now..ciao!". The guy was a completely apathetic bastard who simply wanted everything without having to work for it, although he had been a good friend to me in the time i'd known him he didn't start showing his true colors until after he shunned me and basically acted passive-aggressive towards me whenever we were in the same room together.
Even to this day i still don't really know why the fuck he did that too me, and since that time i've started to be way WAAY more strict in who i come to regard as a friend.
Even to this day i still don't really know why the fuck he did that too me, and since that time i've started to be way WAAY more strict in who i come to regard as a friend.
The worst I've had was when I boyfriend sorta cheated on me but it wasn't so bad that it destroyed my trust. After a little while I became able to trust him again. I guess I don't get hurt much because it usually takes a long time before I trust people.
I guess what recently happened with my best friend could sort of count. I'd been friends with her for over 7 years when towards the end of last year she just stopped inviting me out anywhere. When I tried to talk to her about it she just didn't answer me. We had a big fight that ended us talking for a while I decided to give her another go. Turned out that during those few months she had been sleeping with every guy that looked at her and was treating her new best friend like dirt. I've given up trying to be her friend now so I guess you could say I don't trust her to be a good friend anymore.
I guess what recently happened with my best friend could sort of count. I'd been friends with her for over 7 years when towards the end of last year she just stopped inviting me out anywhere. When I tried to talk to her about it she just didn't answer me. We had a big fight that ended us talking for a while I decided to give her another go. Turned out that during those few months she had been sleeping with every guy that looked at her and was treating her new best friend like dirt. I've given up trying to be her friend now so I guess you could say I don't trust her to be a good friend anymore.
Quite a few people to tell the truth. Most recent and prominent is an ex and a friend.
The first was an ex-girlfriend who pretty lied to me constantly (justified it by saying she was 'omitting', not lying), cheated on me, carried on multiple 'emotional affairs' with other guys, and stole a few grand from me, then thought that after all this and breaking up with me (twice, but taking her back was my bad), things were just going to be fine...after she hooked up with an ex the day after she dumps me and then gets a new bf about a week later.
Second was a mutual friend who was friends with my ex and I (and a friend of my current girlfriend), I was pretty close and confided in her about a lot of things mostly the problems in my relationship and my attempts to try and get a handle on things with my ex (it was before things got bad), and she took everything I confided in her and got my ex to do it (causing the cheating, emotional affairs and lying), then blamed me for everything, claiming it was my mistakes that caused my ex to do it. Tried to pull the same stuff with my current girlfriend, thankfully my girlfriend has a brain and a soul and hasn't fallen for it.
Pretty much cut off the ex without a word and look at everything that the other girl says to me or my girlfriend through the same lens; "How is she trying to screw with me now?"
The first was an ex-girlfriend who pretty lied to me constantly (justified it by saying she was 'omitting', not lying), cheated on me, carried on multiple 'emotional affairs' with other guys, and stole a few grand from me, then thought that after all this and breaking up with me (twice, but taking her back was my bad), things were just going to be fine...after she hooked up with an ex the day after she dumps me and then gets a new bf about a week later.
Second was a mutual friend who was friends with my ex and I (and a friend of my current girlfriend), I was pretty close and confided in her about a lot of things mostly the problems in my relationship and my attempts to try and get a handle on things with my ex (it was before things got bad), and she took everything I confided in her and got my ex to do it (causing the cheating, emotional affairs and lying), then blamed me for everything, claiming it was my mistakes that caused my ex to do it. Tried to pull the same stuff with my current girlfriend, thankfully my girlfriend has a brain and a soul and hasn't fallen for it.
Pretty much cut off the ex without a word and look at everything that the other girl says to me or my girlfriend through the same lens; "How is she trying to screw with me now?"
I had a brief relationship with a guy, with crap sex, only to discover he was already in a relationship with somebody else.
Yeh.
And I discovered this by messaging the guy, and the Boyfriend picked up... ..not a pleasant conversation, but we were both as civil as you can be when you have both just been stabbed in the back.
Yeh.
And I discovered this by messaging the guy, and the Boyfriend picked up... ..not a pleasant conversation, but we were both as civil as you can be when you have both just been stabbed in the back.
Yep, two friends were much over my house often and one was doing work for my brothers studio (which my brother and I built, rented and set up and provided equipment for).
Literally in 1 day everything fell apart, they both started talking behind his back and one claimed my brother was not helping promote the studio while everything was handed to this guy. Said friend also tried advertizing using his own personal myspace...where his profile pic was him talking to a banana like a phone.
The other friend? Decided to tell his parents my brother was some kind of pimp and that they need to keep his sister safe. Which is funny because the sister was after my brother and my brother was very much not after her (as in she had plans for a relationship he was very much avoiding) and had a girlfriend. The sister called up confused one day and we found out they were doing a lot of talking behind his back.
Funny enough we don't see them at their old haunts anymore, or the local tacobell which they always went too...
Seriously, I know it sounds one sided but this is how it happened and I'm STILL confused why they did it. The mother of one even helped me get some surgery done on my back, still very thankful to her. :\....
Literally in 1 day everything fell apart, they both started talking behind his back and one claimed my brother was not helping promote the studio while everything was handed to this guy. Said friend also tried advertizing using his own personal myspace...where his profile pic was him talking to a banana like a phone.
The other friend? Decided to tell his parents my brother was some kind of pimp and that they need to keep his sister safe. Which is funny because the sister was after my brother and my brother was very much not after her (as in she had plans for a relationship he was very much avoiding) and had a girlfriend. The sister called up confused one day and we found out they were doing a lot of talking behind his back.
Funny enough we don't see them at their old haunts anymore, or the local tacobell which they always went too...
Seriously, I know it sounds one sided but this is how it happened and I'm STILL confused why they did it. The mother of one even helped me get some surgery done on my back, still very thankful to her. :\....
I've never really been trusting anyway. There are only three people in the world that I trust. Even then, I don't share my thoughts or secrets with anyone. It's just not in my nature.