This should probably be in the off-topic section since it isn't about gaming.
But I'll join in.
Okay, these movies you have selected, are they listed as the "top movies of all time" or are they your personal favorites and you like to associate with male leads?
How about these films: Golden Compass, Narnia, Labyrinth, Stardust, Cardcaptor Sakura: The Movie, or even 300? (Note that Gorgo was attempting to rally the city while her husband was out fighting, very important, very believable, and a great part of a husband/wife team).
Mind you, you are tying one hand behind our backs since you are not acknowledging the Warrior/Amazon aspect of women. You won't find many Southern belles acting all feminine and being part of something like Saving Private Ryan. But I don't see men in business suits being the lead there either. You have to look at the genre.
So let's go there: Gone with the Wind-a well known classic, Memoirs of a Geisha, The Grudge, The Ring, Descent, V for Vendetta, X-Men (Storm was still quite feminine in this one), Lady Hawke, Dune with its Benejezeret Witches, The Princess Bride, Pirates of the Caribbean, Mama Mia, Titanic (Not a "tom boy" since she wears dresses and jewelry she is just an adventurous woman see Tank Girl for comparison), Wuthering Heights (another classic), Ghost, The Lady in Red, The Devil Wears Prada, Basic Instinct, Driving Miss Daisy, Fried Green Tomatoes, Akeela and the Bee, The Secret Language of Bees, The Color Purple, Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, Joyluck Club, Australia, Precious.
Don't tell me you haven't seen Precious!
You bring up Shawshank Redemption which is set in a male prison. That's like adding women to Hunt for Red October. I don't expect them to be there nor should they be, the setting doesn't allow for it. But you skipped Schindler's List if the little girl in the red coat didn't move you I will be shocked. And that isn't including the women trying to hide the children in the privies or the maid who was being stalked by the master of the house.
Now, if we accept that women can be aggressive and still be feminine we can add: The Matrix, The Legend of Zorro, Tank Girl, Twelfth Night, Willow, and Long Kiss Goodnight.
Now if you acknowledge even the tomboys as being girls we can add: Tank Girl, Bonnie and Clyde, Thelma and Louise, Hell Boy, Battle Royale, Kill Bill, G.I. Jane, and The General's Daughter.
How about miniseries or television series: Dinotopia, Weeds, TruBlood, Rome, and the upcoming Game of Thrones? (Yes, you can BET on that one!)
So women are out there in good films with female leads. I think the question is: do you watch them?