how can i tell?

[The_Chief]

Well escapists, I have a question. How can you tell if a girl likes you? You see, for the past few weeks, a girl in a few of my classes has been, what i think, if flirting with me. But i need help to tell for sure. So how can i know if its just friendliness, or shes crushing on me?

 

[sonidraw]

Kiss her and see what happens next?

Just kidding. I actually have no clue. I have only known of someone crushing on me once, and that time it was pretty obvious... like, stalker-quality obvious. o_o

 

[jim_doki]

the absolute easiest way to tell is to stop being a chicken and ask

 

[pantsoffdanceoff]

I knew this was going to be asked. Ask her out this has two solutions: You get a girlfriend congrats on getting "some". She says "no" but at least you don't stay up at night pulling mental flower petals.

the absolute easiest way to tell is to stop being a chicken and ask

[img/]http://www.demotivateus.com/posters/ninjas-demotivational-posters.jpg[/img]

 

[Nomad]

Kiss her and see what happens next?

Just kidding. I actually have no clue. I have only known of someone crushing on me once, and that time it was pretty obvious... like, stalker-quality obvious. o_o

Hey, worked for me!

As for the stalking thing... Yeah, I had that happen to me once too. She was... scary. Every time I got home from school, the stairwell in our building would be covered in assorted weeds and flowers, and there'd be at least one loveletter in the mailslot.

... So yeah, if she's doing that, then that's how you know. If she isn't, you could always try doing it yourself. If she doesn't call the cops on you, then she likes you.

 

[Nmil-ek]

Well escapists, I have a question. How can you tell if a girl likes you? You see, for the past few weeks, a girl in a few of my classes has been, what i think, if flirting with me. But i need help to tell for sure. So how can i know if its just friendliness, or shes crushing on me?

Can you be more specific?

 

[Fightgarr]

How could I tell as soon as I read the title of this thread that this was about a girl?
It could be that its extremely common.

 

[Curtmiester]

Dude you have to ask. Sorry to any chicks on here but really girl minds are so confusing they put all of Middle Earth to shame.

 

[FredFredburgur]

... So yeah, if she's doing that, then that's how you know. If she isn't, you could always try doing it yourself. If she doesn't call the cops on you, then she likes you.

That is sound reasoning.

 

[Curtmiester]

I knew this was going to be asked. Ask her out this has two solutions: You get a girlfriend congrats on getting "some". She says "no" but at least you don't stay up at night pulling mental flower petals.

the absolute easiest way to tell is to stop being a chicken and ask

[img/]http://www.demotivateus.com/posters/ninjas-demotivational-posters.jpg[/img]

All I got out of that picture was that he was thirsty...and he is a ninja?

 

[Agent Larkin]

Try and ask a freind of hers if you know any to find out for you.

 

[Nomad]

How could I tell as soon as I read the title of this thread that this was about a girl?
It could be that its extremely common.

I was going to write "Experience", until I quoted you and saw what you had written in white.

All I got out of that picture was that he was thirsty...and he is a ninja?

I think being "ninja'd" means someone else already said what you were going to say while you were writing. At least that's what my guess is based on how people seem to use the expression.

 

[The_Chief]

Well escapists, I have a question. How can you tell if a girl likes you? You see, for the past few weeks, a girl in a few of my classes has been, what i think, if flirting with me. But i need help to tell for sure. So how can i know if its just friendliness, or shes crushing on me?

Can you be more specific?

ok well, we talk all the time in school, she always texts me, she always helps me when im sad, she play slaps me all the time, we argue ALL THE TIME, we take each others stuff all the time, and we stick up for each other. her more then me though in the things we both do.

the absolute easiest way to tell is to stop being a chicken and ask

ahh, i have, but its always been forced and never on my own will, so she's always just started giggling, smiling, and going into her nervous pose, and saying "sorry no." but the only reason i don't completely believe that is because she does that alot and does it sometimes when she lying. so its hard to tell. and i think were going out with some friends of ours on saturday to a movie as "helpers in their relationship", as my friend caleigh likes to say.

Try and ask a freind of hers if you know any to find out for you.

ahh, they do, but for themselves. and she just goes in the nervous pose again and says i don't like him, then looks to me, even if im on the other side of the room, to say no offense.

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

i could lose a really good friend, and someone that knows EVERYTHING, or almost EVERYTHING, about me.

 

[Johnnyallstar]

it's all in the eyes to be honest

Edit: actually, maybe you should try starting first in moving that direction. instead of just asking her, I've always just smiled and said "y'know what? I like you." with a big goofy grin that they're never sure just HOW serious i'm being.

 

[ElephantGuts]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

 

[Nmil-ek]

Well escapists, I have a question. How can you tell if a girl likes you? You see, for the past few weeks, a girl in a few of my classes has been, what i think, if flirting with me. But i need help to tell for sure. So how can i know if its just friendliness, or shes crushing on me?

Can you be more specific?

ok well, we talk all the time in school, she always texts me, she always helps me when im sad, she play slaps me all the time, we argue ALL THE TIME, we take each others stuff all the time, and we stick up for each other. her more then me though in the things we both do.

the absolute easiest way to tell is to stop being a chicken and ask

ahh, i have, but its always been forced and never on my own will, so she's always just started giggling, smiling, and going into her nervous pose, and saying "sorry no." but the only reason i don't completely believe that is because she does that alot and does it sometimes when she lying. so its hard to tell. and i think were going out with some friends of ours on saturday to a movie as "helpers in their relationship", as my friend caleigh likes to say.

Basic stuff, so you know her atleast and suffice to say your atleast acquaintances?/maybe friends? There is no magic signal if you share common interests, enjoy the time/communications together that?s all the bloody clear you need to ask or if your really uncomfortable talk to her and get to know her more then try. But really it never gets any better than that don?t wait for some GO sign wont happen.

 

[the protaginist]

Talk with her for a little bit, and then when you or she has to leave, say something along the lines of "Hey, we should..." Leave it hanging questioningly, see how she reacts.

it's all in the eyes to be honest

'Zactly.

 

[The_Chief]

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

thank you Kukul... *slowly backs out the door.*