How do you reason with religious people?

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The Random One

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Toriver said:
Firstly, this should be in Religion and Politics.

Secondly, would the Escapist PLEASE, for the love of all that is good, stop lumping all religious people in with their radical fanatics? Over 90% of America is religious, and within that group, a good three-quarters of them just live their lives like any other regular person in the country. You live with them, you go to work and/or school with them, you play games with them. The great majority of us are completely reasonable people, and you know it. If your friend is a WBC supporter, that's just your friend's opinion. The WBC is its own extremist entity within Christianity that has no influence over any other Christian church.

On a related note, within religious "grouping", if you will, why are so many people so quick to separate moderate Islam from its extremist elements, yet so happy to judge Christianity by its extremist elements without batting an eye? I'm not usually this confrontational about it, but I've gotta say, hypocritical much?
I was skimming the first page of this thread and loved this post. I like how he complains that one guy has grouped his idiot friend with all religious people by grouping one gramatically-challenged poster with all of the Escapist.
 

Nigh Invulnerable

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I try to tell them, that I do not believe, but I know. IE: I trust evidence, and if they can come with hard evidence that what they believe is true, then I can change my views, however, religious people hardly want to find evidence, since that would make them knowers and not believers... so yea... I can't reason with them, only tell them what I think.
Some of us religious folks see scientific pursuit of knowledge as a way to better understand how God works, and thus we fully embrace questioning and experimentation. The universe is infinite and expanding, so who are we to say something does or doesn't exist based on our own infinitesimally small experience and observations? I just try to stay open to whatever possibilities the universe presents me.
 

The Lunatic

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I generally respect other's religions.

I respect their choice to live devoutly by their faith.


This refers only to those who aren't brainwashed idiots, however.

I've yet to meet one of those in the UK.
 

CATB320

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You don't really reason with religious people. Religion is based on faith, which goes against logic.

Don't get me wrong, this isn't to say that everyone who follows a religion is totally batshit insane. But the point is to believe in something greater than you -- not necessarily by deducing facts, but by having faith that it's there.
 

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YukoValis said:
Disclaimer: I know these types of posts are frowned upon, but this is made not to troll, and I don't want a flame war. This is an honest question asking for help, and I ask to PLEASE keep it clean.:

It started when I told my religious friend about the whole WBC vs Anon thing.. to my shock he seemed to take the side of WBC, simply because they share the same type of religion (though I don't think he understands what they do different...) suddenly I'm in a 2 hour debate as if I attacked him.. No matter what I said he would yell and start attacking me personally, even on things that had nothing to do with what we were talking about. He just went nuts.

Finally I asked him a simple question.. "Do you think the WBC are part of the same religion as you, yes or no?" I never got an answer, in 20 posts of IM, I got cursing, insulting, straying off topic, but not a single yes or no.

So.. I guess for a lack of better word, Subject "How do you reason with religious people?" and simple (non-stupid) answers?
Your question is in itself inflammatory, as your "friend's" issue isn't that he is religious, but that he is a huge douche. His religion merely gave a point of disagreement for him to blow out of proportion like any of the millions of spoiled children in adult bodies we have these days.

My advice is to let the subject go, give him some time to cool down and then get back into contact while trying your damnedest to not mention your argument at all.
 

Tdc2182

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Simply I just don't talk about religious subjects with them.

And in all honesty, I have never had an edgy religious encounter with any of my friends. Like, not even close. People tend to extremely over exaggerate encounters with religious people.

And if you do have a friend who doesn't see what is wrong with WBC, then quite simply
Woodsey said:
fucking disown him.
 

CATB320

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lacktheknack said:
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Kadir said:
The argument SHOULD be:

The bible says "Don't judge people. Leave it to God."
The WBC judges people and doesn't leave it to God.
Therefore, the WBC is wrong.
That makes sense until you realize that the WBC is not the only group that judges people. Almost every single person in the world judges people (with the exception of very few, if at all) including you and me. Does that mean that we are all "wrong"?
If I said "yes", how would you respond?
I think I love you.
 

Life_Is_A_Mess

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El Poncho said:
Everyone I know who is religous accepts the views of others so I've never had to reason with any.

However I like to have this quote in my mind most of the time, doubt it would work but I like it:)

"Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able?
Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing?
Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able, and willing?
Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither able nor willing?
Then why call him God."
- Epicurus, 33 A.D
You sir, ninja'd every single word I was about to say. This is very well said and can be used to reason with any racional cristian in a debate.
I don't have those many religious debates since whenever people have them, the religious ones are always changing topics and not letting the science ones explain themselves...
 

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I have a degree in Religions, so I am actually certified to tell you that over 80% of the world defines as religious in some way. People of faith are as varied as atheists. As an atheist, I understand the awkwardness of interfaith debate from this side of the fence, but the most important things to remember when speaking with someone you disagree with on a fundamental world view are: One religious person is not like another (i.e. don't generalize from one encounter), and that sometimes you and the other person will never be able to see eye to eye on some subjects. When someone seems to be spouting nonsense, trying to yell louder is not the answer, because you probably sound as senseless to them as they do to you. I doubt the world population will ever really agree on some ideas, but I think the important thing is to work with what we *do* agree on.
 

SovietSecrets

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Simple, I ask you say there is a God correct? If they reply no, then your argument is finished. If they say yes, I ask prove to me that your God exists since you are the one saying he does. Show me something concrete that God has done, if you can't show me this then you have no God to prove to me.
 

GotMalkAvian

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1. By definition, you can't reason with religious people. I'm not saying this to sound like a jerk, but religious belief is illogical and unreasonable. I have my own beliefs, and I'm willing to admit that they're beyond logic.

2. Your friend might be the only Christian outside of the WBC who still sees them as Christians, too.
 

Royta

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You reason with them by understanding them and respecting their opinion. Only if you do that can you reason with them, if not you get hit by a brickwall.
 

RatRace123

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As it's been said, his religious beliefs have nothing to do with being an idiot and taking the side of the WBC.
As for reasoning with idiots, you really can't.
 

Lem0nade Inlay

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I'm religious, Catholic-Christian, in fact.

Your friend is just ignorant, blame his upbringing.

Show him the website godhatesfags.com, and see what he says.

If he still abuses you, he is really not a good friend.
 

Rex Fallout

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Umm, ok I'm considered the 'religous' one out of my friends, and even I find it appaling what the WBC is doing. So yeah, that just means that your friend if very likely an idiot. Oh, and btw I support Anonymous all the way- protect our speech! Oh, and if you aren't to busy, can you try to do something about this BS about how some people think video games need to be regulated by the government? I think that would be right up your alley.
 

Joe Herbert

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You don't reason with religious people.

By definition Faith can not be reasoned with. If you have faith, no one should be able to talk you out of it.

Now you CAN agree to disagree or ignore each other with someone who is religious. This suits most people just fine. But than you have Fanatics and Extremists. These are the people protesting Family Planning clinics, Refusing to fill prescriptions for 'morally questionable patients', trying to 'Cure' gays, going out into the woods and starting 'patriotic militias' who's purpose is to cleanse the country of Jews, Blacks, Mexicans, Gays, Natives, etc... These people will not allow you to ignore them. they will not ignore you if you are different. THESE are the people that there is no real reasoning with and they can be very dangerous. These people take religion and Twist it to suit there own needs. These are the people who justify the murder of an abortion doctor as 'Gods Will'.

as for politics 2 things;
1) You should be disqualified from running for public office if you hold the title Reverend, Father, Sheik, Rabi, etc... That automatically creates a conflict of interest for any government which seeks to separate church and state.

2) You should not elect anyone who places "God" before The People of his/her country. (Same reason as above)

As for the Islam Extremest VS Christian Extremest.
Islam's **most** extreme are highly publicized and criticized. They operate 'terror' groups. They cause fear. They repel people of first and second world society with there extreme measures.

Christianity's most extreme keep there heads down. They operate within political systems. They use money not to buy weapons, but to influence politicians and law makers. They find small groups to deamonize rather than large groups. This allows them to recruit larger portions of population. They too murder, but western society is geared to ignore this as a problem. Of course one or two people get arrested for the lynching of a gay man, or the murder of an abortion doctor, but the institution remains safe. This is terrorism as well. Rather than blowing up a buss full of people, and sending the message "this can happen at any time to anyone". They are assassinations. They send the message. "If you are like them, we will find you! YOU are our target. We are cold, calculated, precise, and untouchable."

Please do not mistake this as a conspiracy theory. We all know exactly who lets this happen. YOU! Yes you. and by you i mean Me too. All of us. If we want to stop religious extremism we CAN NOT focus on Islam, or Hindu, but Christianity, and the religions that are close to home!

I think this is the longest post I've done... See what you did? DO YOU SEE WHAT YOU DID ESCAPIST?!?!
 

LC Wynter

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People have different opinions. Deal with it.
If someone is institutionalised enough in an ideal they won't change it for anyone.
 

Naeo

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You reason with religious people like you reason with anyone else. The vast majority of them are more or less rational people who can engage in discussion and debate about their faith, so long as you're not openly attacking them for it.
 

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To preface: I am not religious, but I do believe in at least one deity. I am also a rationalist.

Religion is, by definition, irrational. It's looking at the world and saying, "There must exist an unobservable, untestable phenomenon beyond what can be absolutely proven." While there is plenty of objectionable dogma in the Bible, it offers an excellent definition of faith: "Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." You can show me your dog, but if I have unshakable faith that it's a chair, then, by god, I'm going to sit on your dog. There will be insurmountable evidence, and even proof, that your dog is not a chair, but I have faith! This is also an excellent example of why I often refuse to discourse with religious people: faced with irrefutable fact that one of their precious beliefs is incorrect, they do not change their beliefs, and instead stubbornly continue believing in their faith. (That is not to say that all beliefs can be scientifically disputed. There is no way to either prove or disprove the existence of a deity.)

The problem is that most religious people refuse to admit that. They refuse to acknowledge their blinders and adamantly adhere to their beliefs even when faced with mountains of counter-evidence. A prime example is many devout Christians' refusal to believe in evolution. Evolution is an observable and testable scientific event, regardless of if it's been occurring for billions of years, or only millenia . . . but that's an argument for another thread.

All of that to reiterate: Religion Is Irrational. When you realize that you are arguing against the faith of a religious person, you must give up refuting their illogic, and exit the debate.