How long ago was your last date?

[hurfdurp]

Can't remember, I'm sure it was awful though. The thing that is stopping me is lack of boything.

 

[Marter]

Uh...2 years ago, and it was only barely a date. I'm counting it though, so I don't seem more pathetic than I am. :/

 

[smithy_2045]

And if you've never been on a date in your life, what's stopping you?

A combination of shyness and paranoia that they'll somehow be offended by me being attracted to them.

I hate myself sometimes...

 

[Bobipine]

well, never.
The result of this? Me thinking about stuff like "what is love?", "What is a girlfriend?", "If love is something relative to each others standards, do you need to be on the same "level" of love?", "Do you need interest or a degree of love to start a relationship?" for the 4 last years, just as I started university.. yeah my grades are having a hard time.

What's stopping me?
Part of the answer are said questions, most of people I have interest in are already taken. I over analyze everything, so if I think she's sending some messages part of my brain will take that as interest (the part of my brain I dislike a lot) and the other part will look at the circumstances and find a non interested reason for it.
What I believe are my standards and moral (if the girl is drunk I can't even consider anything since I might be abusing of the situation).
Or maybe my morals are just excuses I gives myself because I might simply be afraid of change and being annoying (not sure about it though, still analyzing that).
Everything I ever plan always fail.
Oh, and the fact I hate Clubs, but from what I've witness of a room-mate dating a club girl, I'm not missing much since she would be bound to get badly on my nerves.
Or maybe I'm never sure if she's already in a relationship, and being afraid to come of rude by asking? Great, I start to think too much again...

is that a satisfying answer?

 

[Vault101]

Broke up a while ago, I probably let it go on a little longer than I should have, I had to meet the parents too and we'd only been going out like...3 weeks?

I felt really bad about it, he was probebly looking for somthing long...long term, I realised that Im just too heartless for a relationship and going to the movies is much easyer on your own, I certianly don;t feel like going on any dates anytime soon

and I still haven't given back his Ps2

You cold hearted *****, you still have his ps2? Way to ruin his life.
Just kidding, I bet you had your reasons.
OT: My last date was a couple weeks ago, nothing came of it.

He can have it back as soon as I find a copy of Shadow of the colussus

and when I finish god of war 1 and 2

 

[V1C3M4N]

Thursday actually, not to gloat, going out tonight again... zing!

 

[Grayjack]

17 years ago. Or never. Whichever works for you.

 

[hyperhammy]

Broke up a while ago, I probably let it go on a little longer than I should have, I had to meet the parents too and we'd only been going out like...3 weeks?

I felt really bad about it, he was probebly looking for somthing long...long term, I realised that Im just too heartless for a relationship and going to the movies is much easyer on your own, I certianly don;t feel like going on any dates anytime soon

and I still haven't given back his Ps2

You cold hearted *****, you still have his ps2? Way to ruin his life.
Just kidding, I bet you had your reasons.
OT: My last date was a couple weeks ago, nothing came of it.

He can have it back as soon as I find a copy of Shadow of the colussus

and when I finish god of war 1 and 2

Good luck! The ps2 has too many awesome games to count...
If this is your first ps2 then you will be busy for a long time.

 

[Mr Pantomime]

Four years ago. I didnt become attracted to girls until a few months ago (seriously, I can remember the moment I realised),so all dates had to be instigated by the girl.

Whats stopping me now? I did say today that I would go out and ask some girls out, like, at bars and such. Then I realised its Sunday. Going out to town today would be weird. So I have to wait till at least Thursday. Plus, theres the fact that im about 4-6 years behind in terms of experiance; I live a fair while out of town, so if I drink I need to find a place to crash. Also im very confused as to what to do, and what to do for a date. Not complaining, just appealing for help with these. Im a bit out of my depth

 

[Daniel Laeben-Rosen]

Uhm... Thinking about it real hard I'd have to say about... 2½-3 years.
Yeah...

Mostly my own fault, I have massive trust-issues backed with being a complete chicken.

 

[bak00777]

well im not great at reading "vibes" or "messages" girls send out, but if im correct then it was a few weeks ago. If im wrong then it was back at the end of May. Same girl though.

 

[kannibus]

Married.

So it's either last week my wife and I went out, if you want to call that a "date". Or somewhere like seven six years ago.

 

[Bigsmith]

about two weeks ago, me and my girlfriend we went to the theater.

 

[StarStruckStrumpets]

My first and last date was several months ago now. I don't intend on having one for a very long time. As you can probably tell, it didn't go well at all.

I would also like to add that my all-around twatishness and opinionated nature makes me almost impossible to get along with.

 

[Ham_authority95]

Bleh. I can barely remember.....2 years ago now?

Yeah. My first relationship was so shitty that I can't remember it now...

 

[Arachon]

I don't think I've ever been on a date per-se... The girlfriends I've had has just seemed to fall into my lap.

Not that it was a very common occurrence mind you (has been single for 2 years).

 

[VanityGirl]

Married.

So it's either last week my wife and I went out, if you want to call that a "date". Or somewhere like seven six years ago.

Just cause you're married, you can still go on dates with your wife.


My boyfriend and I went on a date last Friday. We saw the Guardians of Ga'Hoole.

 

[ethaninja]

About 5 months ago =(

 

[_Cake_]

The end of August 2009 or 2008 I can't remember if it was 2 years ago or 3. Ugh it was bad, I remember after the date was over I kept hearing a tune playing in my head. Eventually I realized it was George Michael - Freedom.

Now my mom is trying to get me to use e-harmony V_V Kill me now.

 

[SulfuricDonut]

Never.
What's stopping me from getting a date? Nothing.
However there is also nothing encouraging me to either, so I will simply continue to exist as I am now.