Evil Smurf said:
could someone explain to my why it is fun to wreck peoples game times?
You really could have used to be more specific here. Griefing in what sort of games?
Most MMOs have a griefing system in place, more over they also have PvE servers. I love griefing, I like being griefed; it's fun, unpredictable, chaotic, it's why I play multiplayer games. It's another element to always consider.
I suppose I could elaborate somewhat. I hate arena PvP in games, it bores me. I find it sterile and rigid. I've always favored world PvP. So why grief? Several reason;
- Sometimes I do it so the players I'm griefing will call for assistance from higher level friends.
- Sometimes I'm one of the players that come to the aid of players being griefed, when I chase off the griefers in the area, I'll start griefing to shift the tides.
- I like being ganged on. In most games it's usually possible for several lower levels to kill a higher level. Being mobbed like this actually provides for a fast paced, frenzied battle the likes of which you can't get elsewhere.
- I grief because I was griefed. Wouldn't say I'm bitter about it per sey, I just recognize that's the way the world works.
- I find that being griefed motivates me. There have been games where I was PK'ed over and over, for a matter of hours, and it was unavoidable, that is to say I couldn't go elsewhere, sneak by, etc. This makes the game seem more lively to me.
- I've never cared for story in MMOs, to me the real villain is the other side, everything else exists simply to make me more powerful to fight them.
Outside of MMOs what griefing refers to is tricky, being a person who plays MMOs frequently I consider griefing and trolling two very different things. That being said;
Why do people TK in shooters? Couldn't say, never really gave me any satisfaction. This is pretty clear trolling. I do however have a friend that would panzer suicide in FPSes, destroying himself, his allies, and enemies. Come the end of the game he's usually ranked top on the team, the people getting blown up don't really see he's sacrificing 3 of us for 7 of them.
Why do people "grief" in Minecraft... well, I've never done it myself, but I've had it happen to me several times. Sometimes it's just irritating. Other's I've found it downright hilarious (even when it was my creations being destroyed). Some griefers here are far more creative than others, have to give them their due I suppose.
Now perhaps you could answer a question for me, why do players that know they get upset being griefed play games that allow it? Most MMOs offer a PvE option; unless PvP is at the core of its gameplay (e.g. 2moons), in which case play something else? Practically every shooter that allows friendly-fire also has an option to turn it off, so why join a server that has it enabled? Minecraft... well... yeah, not sure here.
I can't stand people who make a conscious choice between PvE and PvP, and then ***** and moan because they've got killed by another player. They act as if someone is going to show up at their house and wrestle their Man-card from their wallet if they roll on PvE.