I finally have a girlfriend! I am so happy I'm posting it-Wait, she's also with my best friend?
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RUN AWAY!
If there's a window near you when you read this, I would suggest immediately jumping through it, it adds dramatic effect.
If there's a window near you when you read this, I would suggest immediately jumping through it, it adds dramatic effect.
Get the hell out of there. It's a bad situation. That girl is trouble.
You need to ask yourself this:
"What's stopping her from doing the same thing to me?"
I've been in a similar situation (Except replace "dating my best friend" with "married to some other guy, and didn't find out about it until I overheard her talking to him - whew! Glad I didn't sleep with her. GOT THE FUCK OUT OF THERE."). 'Can't even call the woman a "*****" because that would be an insult to the loyalty of dogs.
You need to ask yourself this:
"What's stopping her from doing the same thing to me?"
I've been in a similar situation (Except replace "dating my best friend" with "married to some other guy, and didn't find out about it until I overheard her talking to him - whew! Glad I didn't sleep with her. GOT THE FUCK OUT OF THERE."). 'Can't even call the woman a "*****" because that would be an insult to the loyalty of dogs.
Preferrably in slow motion, while activating the C4 that you planted in the basement to be ready for dramatic moments like these.rabidmidget said:
Dude, you're only supposed to go out of your way to do that if it's the cool kind... or if you're bi.Pimppeter2 said:
Sounds..... different. I would recommend leaving it for the moment, otherwise I can see no good outcome to this. The best of the worst is that your mate gets pissed off and refuses to talk to you, the worst being that you get the shit beaten out of you and he bears a grudge for the rest of your life.
*poor irish accent* But it is the devils threesome!Pimppeter2 said:
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OT: Dude, You cant go on like that, because sooner or later one of you (either you or your friend) are going to go further than kissing, etc.
You're probably going to have to make her choose, Just dont be an arse when you say that, As she may choose the other guy.
I know I[/I] wouldnt be comfortable if my girlfriend was with my best mate as well.
I'm not in a relationship, and never have been, so take my advice with a grain of salt.
The way I see it, you're all stuck in a relationship, controlled by one girl. That is never a good thing, and this is especially worrying because she's creating tension between you and your best friend. Controlling partners are a no-no.
I don't see this ending well unless you step up to the plate and do something. Nobody likes it, except for the girl, so harsh feelings will keep building between you and your friend. In a situation where two out of three people are very uneasy about the current state of affairs, something will happen. And I find it hard to see you coming out on top, even if you did get the girl. Your friend would hate you.
What is it worth to you to keep this guy as a friend? And what is it worth to you to keep this girlfriend? If you can't answer those questions, then you're asking the wrong people. If you want to keep your friend, bail out. If you want the girl that badly, confront your friend. Has to end somehow, and the way I see it, there will be more tears if you wait longer.
And, CloggedDonkey? If you take the majority of this thread's advice and flee, please remember that in our own strange, internety way, we're here for you. Not like an avatar over a computer could replace a real human face, but remember it anyway. [sub]I care, dammit![/sub]
The way I see it, you're all stuck in a relationship, controlled by one girl. That is never a good thing, and this is especially worrying because she's creating tension between you and your best friend. Controlling partners are a no-no.
I don't see this ending well unless you step up to the plate and do something. Nobody likes it, except for the girl, so harsh feelings will keep building between you and your friend. In a situation where two out of three people are very uneasy about the current state of affairs, something will happen. And I find it hard to see you coming out on top, even if you did get the girl. Your friend would hate you.
What is it worth to you to keep this guy as a friend? And what is it worth to you to keep this girlfriend? If you can't answer those questions, then you're asking the wrong people. If you want to keep your friend, bail out. If you want the girl that badly, confront your friend. Has to end somehow, and the way I see it, there will be more tears if you wait longer.
And, CloggedDonkey? If you take the majority of this thread's advice and flee, please remember that in our own strange, internety way, we're here for you. Not like an avatar over a computer could replace a real human face, but remember it anyway. [sub]I care, dammit![/sub]
You're playing a game where you cannot win.
If you get the girl, your friendship will suffer.
If your friend gets the girl, you and your friendship will suffer.
In neither of you gets the girl, both of you will suffer.
If both of you gets the girl, then... Well, I guess there is a way to win, I suppose.
If you get the girl, your friendship will suffer.
If your friend gets the girl, you and your friendship will suffer.
In neither of you gets the girl, both of you will suffer.
If both of you gets the girl, then... Well, I guess there is a way to win, I suppose.
Okay Dude. I've been in a situation not too unlike yours... I dated a girl who recently broke up with one of my oldest friends.. Needless to say things fucked up and we broke up. We then tried to get together again but my douchebag of a "friend" wanted her back aswell and, listen well for here comes the point I'm trying to make, when two people go after the same girl things fuck up!
I lost my friend because that and you'll do the same if you don't bail out.
From what I can gather your girlfriend is even a bigger ***** than mine was, seeing as she's openly dating your friend while still being your "girlfriend". Dump that *****, show the world you are not controlled by some attention-seeking whore and get a girlfriend who wants to be with you, who cares for you and who isn't playing with your feelings.
And if you're going to stay with her, remember then that you're friendship with that guy can go quite awry and that you shouldn't let her control you. Because a relationship where someone is controlling the other isn't something you want to be in. It will harm you and scar you for quite some time.
There's my advice, do of it as you please.
I lost my friend because that and you'll do the same if you don't bail out.
From what I can gather your girlfriend is even a bigger ***** than mine was, seeing as she's openly dating your friend while still being your "girlfriend". Dump that *****, show the world you are not controlled by some attention-seeking whore and get a girlfriend who wants to be with you, who cares for you and who isn't playing with your feelings.
And if you're going to stay with her, remember then that you're friendship with that guy can go quite awry and that you shouldn't let her control you. Because a relationship where someone is controlling the other isn't something you want to be in. It will harm you and scar you for quite some time.
There's my advice, do of it as you please.
In all seriousness, ask her what she wants. Maybe not force her to choose, but ask where she sees this is a few months or so. Maybe have the three of you talk it out. I mean, I'm not in context here, but she could very well be using the awkwardness between the three of you to get away with doing both of you.
If you like her and you reckon she actually likes you, talk it out. If not, monkey wrench.
If you like her and you reckon she actually likes you, talk it out. If not, monkey wrench.
I don't see that relationship working out very well. Poly amorous relationships are difficult for all parties involved. Either you or you friend is going to have to break it off with the girl (or you know, both of you break it off and stay mates instead of fighting over a gal).
This is wrong on so many levels, you can't call her your girlfriend if she's with someone else, secondly, sounds like they're both dicks, ditch em both, you do not want this, it is bad for you.
I hate to say it but this is the most retarded OP I have ever read, she has another boyfriend and you're okay with that? Obviously you don't know how a real relationship works, and this is understandable considering apparently girlfriends for you are few and far between.
I know having the attention of any girl is awesome, but you need that attention all to yourself, not shared. Be a man and tell her to choose. Ugh, seriously, this is just messed up.
I know having the attention of any girl is awesome, but you need that attention all to yourself, not shared. Be a man and tell her to choose. Ugh, seriously, this is just messed up.