I finally have a girlfriend! I am so happy I'm posting it-Wait, she's also with my best friend?

[Shycte]

The girl really isn't cheating on me or him, as we (me and the best friend) know about each other with her, I just feel a little uncomfortable with having another guy with my girlfriend and want some extra input from a third party.

Maybe that is what she wants?

 

[Cody211282]

This cannot end good. Be the one to leave with honor (and spread some rumors of her being a slut).

At this point they aren't rumors anymore.

 

[Master_Corruptor]

Clearly you ''best'' friend isn't much of a friend if he dates your girlfriend and threaten to knock the shit out of you.

Also... your girlfriend isn't much of a girlfriend if she runs around playing huggs and kisses with your ''best'' friend. Especially not after saying to you that she is in a relationship with you.

Dump them both and find someone new to hang with !

 

[Evil the White]

Don't walk, run, out of that relationship. Also, tell your best friend that she's dating both of you. That way, if he's not a prat, he'll dump her as well, and she'll be known as a cheating slut.

 

[Tallim]

You should get out, it can only end badly. Also because I don't think there will ever be another opportunity to post this short song yet relevant song.

 

[eastinfecter]

1.

Threesome

2.

I Recommend murdering all involved.

3.

Spoiler: ????

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.205148-Where-would-you-hide-a-body#6910357

4.Profit!

 

[Aenir]

Threesome

Duh.

But it's a Devil's threesome!

 

[Eternalsun]

so the question is i finally have a girlfreind but hes cheating on me.

 

[noeggsforyou]

Get out as soon as is humanly possible, this thing will blow-up in someone's face. Make sure it's not yours.

 

[Exocet]

Bros before hos.
Don't be her mistress,she's up to no good.Any sane man,woman or child outside the relationship can see that.You might also want ti tell the friend to dial it down,but never,ever tell him you went out with his girl,even if you follow by saying you felt bad and cancelled the thing.
He,like me or many,many men,would sucker punch you in the face,possibly followed by some curb stomping.

 

[HalfLife205]

It's a trap, fall back!

Seriously though, I'd get out of there. If she is willing to date two guys at once, it's not a relationship you want to bother with. Especially so if the other guy is your best friend.

This, this, and this a million times.

 

[someonehairy-ish]

Um... learn a martial art, buff up and prepare for a fight over a woman's courtship?
I don't think someone who actually likes you punches you in the stomach, by the way.

You should probably ditch the both of them and get on with a new life, now that I think about it.

Ditch them both, learn guitar and become a rockstar. And then laugh at them along with your dozen groupies.
OT:
On an actual properly serious note, talk to her and find out if she even knows she's causing this much stress. She probably hasn't realised you feel like this. Tell her you feel uncomfortable with her being with your friend too, then figure things out from there.

If you do have to just get out, preferably do it with your friend saying: NO, YOU GO ON WITHOUT ME, SAVE YOURSELF!

 

[Jaywebbs]

I've been in a similar situation before, being with a girl who didn't want to just be with one person. The only solution that doesn't end up with some one emotionally hurt is to drop out now. Explain to her your uncomfortable with the situation and that when it changes you may rethink your relationship with her.

 

[hyperdrachen]

Either way, GET THE FUCK OUT NOW MAN!!

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Agreed.

Yeah you don't have a girlfriend now, you know a girl that has two boyfriends and one of them is you. Back away from this situation and free yourself up for one of mutual respect. You have to respect yourself enough to walk away from this, in order to be appealing to a girl worth sharing your time with.

 

[Winter Rat]

Goddamn, why do people post the most ridiculous inane bullshit on this site?

 

[Pingupower]

Add that special something to your relationship that will make her dump him.

Or beat him with a club.

 

[Folio]

I think it's her choise: Date you or date him. If she has chosen, the other one will just have to live with it. Tough luck! It's not like this is Twilight or something... (is it? O_O)

Wait, what if he thinks you deserve better? That would change the picture...

 

[RIOgreatescapist]

boink her and go play videogames with your best friend.

 

[BiscuitTrouser]

EH!?! O.O

EH?! She has you eating out of the palm of her hand. Dont let your desire to have a girlfriend cloud your jugdement of character. Please. Read your post. Read it again. She is cheating on you. There is another guy. She is in love with. Cheating. Textbook. End. How could you possibly be OK with this, the idea is mindbogling. I find this concept so horribly unimaginably unthinkable i cant even begin to comprehend how you could be HAPPY in this situation. If my girlfriend had another boyfriend it would be over, end of. Shes also very protective and i can guarentee it would be the same the other way around. Ask her WHY?! Wasnt that thefirst thing you did?! Ask her why does she need two boyfriends, which one does she prefere. Why are you not enough? Make her choose. Talk to your friend, I doubt he could be that happy iether. Give her an ultimatum or else you both leave. This will never end well. To be honest im stunned, thus the short scentences. It looks a bit schitzo because i in all honesty have so many things to say here im not sure which ones should come first.

Talk to her about this. This is wrong. She CANNOT do this. To you or your friend. Are you honestly happy knowing every special moment you share is shared by a third person also? That every kiss is a shared kiss with the other boyfriend? I wouldnt be.