The .50 Caliber Cow said:
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O.O
Honestly, I'm disgusted with how obsessed parents are with kid safety these days. This isn't the only place I've heard of where parents are limiting kids from having fun. On the radio the other day I heard a dad who was describing a school that sent out a letter to all parents because two kids were arm wrestling. Not violent fighting or anything, just who can wrestle their opponent's arm down. I also heard about a summer camp for kids where they've banned ball tag.
Ugh.
So, do you people have opinions on how kids are overprotected these days? Oh sure, supervision is important depending on how long you leave kids out to play but they need to learn to fend for themselves.
Your thoughts Escapist?
I've talked about this before, albiet in connection to other issues. This isn't an isolated incident, we've already had kids prevented from going outside to play through the majority of the country, albiet it's usually done in a far more indirect fashion.
Typically I bring this kind of thing up as a counterpoint to the anti-video game lobby where there are people screaming that kids are obsese because they sit inside playing video games all day as opposed to going outside to play, when the point that the kids can't do that is almost entirely overlooked. Probably because it's a piecemeal thing, as opposed to any kind of federal regulation. It's developed slowly, community by community.
Safety is one of the issues oftentimes brought to the forefront, as are private property rights. Simply put a lot of adults don't want kids cutting through their yards, or making a scene in front of their houses. The whole thing being the quintessential "you young whipper snappers get off my lawn" except instead of an old man yelling and waving a cane, it's an old man talking on the phone with a lawyer and going after the parents for the kid's tresspassing. Given that if a kid injures themself playing, there are liability issues, either for the property owner, or for the town if this happens on public property, there are also some very material concerns. One requirement in a lot of places is simply that kids have to be escorted by an adult to play, even when visiting playgrounds and similar areas, which for practical purposes means they *CAN'T* go to the playground and play if their parents are busy, and in today's world where both parents typically have to work situations where they can be escorted are increasingly uncommon. This is why you see so many empty playgrounds and such.
There are no easy solutions to these problems. You can't even get on people's cases for ridiculous liability claims, because if a kid is injured the parents are going to do whatever is nessicary to get them treated, if they can't afford it, they are going to sue. The alternative of simply not letting the kids out for fear of injury they can't handle on their part goes to the same place. In cases where there is insurance involved, the insurance companies might be the ones who will go after the town or property owner to mitigate their own costs, perhaps without the injured party/parents ever knowing about it. Basically if Jr. breaks his leg at the local playground, Dad's medical insurance might cover it, but when they find out it was an injury at the playground the insurance will themselves go after the town to try and recoup what it spent on the medical bills.
It's a mess, but in short the days of yore with carefree children running happily through neighborhoods, having all kinds of little adventures are gone, and actually have been for a while now, but few people noticed. It's also not an easily correcible problem, because there really isn't anyone being truely unreasonable on any side of this equasion. Even the businessman who doesn't want a bunch of kids hanging out in his parking lot being rowdy has a legitimate position here.
It's messed up in of itself, but even more messed up when you look at the positions people build up without realizing it. Right now I think the guys defending the game industry are a bunch of morons (which is why I have my doubts about the Supreme Court case at times, even if it's unrelated to this, but they are dumb on otherlevels) because when confronted by people talking about health risks and such, they rarely use the most obvious and effective methods of defense... instead focusing on trying to refute studies tying sedimentary lifestyles (and video games are by and large a sedimentary activity) to health problems, they should be pointing out that it's not video games causing these lifestyles, but rather it's a form of entertainment that has become popular largely because of people being forced into living those kinds of lifestyles. Want to address the issue? Then address the giant mess of issues preventing kids from playing outside, not the video games that are there for them when they are inside. Of course video games are a boogie man because it's easier to target them than to deal with the big issues... win or lose, society will just move on to another one when this one's time is passed, because nobody wants to deal with the big stuff that's actually hard. It's better to make excuses.
I'm getting further and further afield of the issue, but the bottom line is that this is not a new thing. This paticular incident might be getting a little more press, especially seeing as the guys doing it seem to be trying to ban children playing directly, as opposed to putting strict supervision requirements on it and such and then fining people, or having a few parents brought up on tresspassing charges, and then just letting those warnings snowball into compliance.