I gave you my answers. The format was obviously good enough for you to get them. Reply was good enough.
There isn't much left to say. You didn't bother to consult a rape prevention hotline/center, and I am not one.
Even now there are still people arguing your statistics. Whose are right, whose are wrong?
The military invested heavily in the Patriot Anti-Missile system. You can watch it with CNN in operation over Israel. Hundreds were launched to prevent SCUD missile attacks, they all failed. Epic fail, on television, with a reporter too ignorant of what all the flashing in the sky meant to realize each launch was a failure. The military regularly buys faulty equipment. Then of course there was the atrocity of the US U-Boat fleet in WW2's first year down in the Pacific. Torpedo guidance systems weren't working, but to cover it the US Navy announced any U-Boat captain whose vessel did not sink a Japanese ship in the first year of combat would be relived of command and discharged. 1 ship was sank in all that time, one Captain retained his command. But yea there isn't a long and checkered history of US weapons appropriations. Nah.
As for the US, it's a disaster. It's a quilt of inequality. Jesus, look at this headline I woke up to: http://www.cbc.ca/news/world/dallas-police-in-standoff-after-shootout-attempted-bombing-of-headquarters-1.3112320
My statement wasn't about things like that, so much as massive economic inequality that is visceral and its effects in local educational funding and outcome. Noam Chompsky once suggest that imposing the US education system on a foreign state would been seen as an act of aggression. But hey, warp it how you like, you obviously will. Seems to me that kind of 'education' can have a lasting impact on the people subjected to it though, especially the majority living in the US from a poor back ground. But fuck that! Economic inequality and educational inequality and health care inequality have nothing to do with peoples outlook on things... The poor are notably open to new ideas, especially around sex or religion, right?
All this stuff your statistics claim are prevalent I don't tend to see in Canada. I really don't. I don't see a lot of slut shaming.
As to "my daddy taught me..." So you didn't discuss things like that with your friends? You don't tease and egg one another on? Fascinating. So born mature and uninterested. Okay then...
Your putting up statistics that are arguable. That is all. The sources are all questionable and the findings in many cases are considered to have been equally arguable. I can't fight with or against those numbers. I can't take them seriously. Sorry but there's too much bullshit around statistical evidence in the area of rape and sexual assault.
Among my group of friends and the actions I've seen in my country and city's media and the statements from people in the street, slut shaming isn't a big thing. Maybe it still is in the US, but not really in Canada.
We do have serious problems... Like recently having an outgoing Armed Forces commander issue orders that a series of anticipated recommendations from a study on sexual assault in those Armed Forces, be rejected. The study was released six months latter or so, three months after that officer was replaced with a new one, who did not repeal those orders. This included ensuring regardless of the merit of the idea of a third party organization to manage sexual assault claims, it would never be deemed appropriate by any military examination and there for would never be implemented. This was an order. AN ORDER! But why focus on where we know there are problems, where there is a systemic culture of sexism and rape, when we can broadly paint the world as 'rape culture'? I see a problem there and its in the press, its in print. I don't see any of the usual suspects on here who push this idea of rape culture touching that issue with a ten foot cattle prod.
Then of course there's that sort of rape you dismiss out of hand. Have you ever heard of the Highway of Tears? Here's another one; what isn't the government of Canada interested in holding a public inquiry into? That would be all the thousands of native American women disappearing in assumed sex crimes leading to murder. We haven't even found most of the bodies they vanish so regularly. But no need to look into that, just ask my government! 'Its not on our radar.' And I quote. But hey! This is obvious stuff that just obviously isn't being managed, we should talk about different stuff that we don't have any immediate solutions to instead of doing what we can.
So regardless of your statistics on where the rapes happen, these are the ones I hear about... EVERY DAMN DAY. Every day man. Most of the response that doesn't demand action isn't prejudice in favor of rapists or anything like that. No, if those were white women we'd do something, better believe. It's racism, near as I can tell. Racism that permits that to go on and permits the government to keep winning seats even though it's letting thousands of women's deaths, the deaths of our citizens, go completely unanswered and uninvestigated. Again, that isn't even touching on the state of the military, which is disgraceful.
I make it a policy to deal with what I can see and manage. I can't manage a government inquest on my own but I can see its necessary. I can't change the culture or standing orders of the military, but I can see its necessary.
I don't know when the next woman or girl will be taken advantage of by a friend or family member. I don't. I can't prevent that, this isn't Minority Report and screaming about it isn't helping. Why don't you make noise about issues that can be managed? Places we can make a difference, clear and present and now. Surely the US has it's own hot beds of such issues? And frankly those football teams are a great place to start! They are, don't get me wrong. But this rape culture notion isn't helping.