Marriage without sex?
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This would honestly be perfect for me. 1st off, this doesn't preclude any sexual foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc...and to me that type of thing is much more romantic than sex. I don't really see how penetration is necessary in the entire intimate scheme of things. I would give anything for a companion that I know would be loyal to me no matter what. One who would honestly be fine just being held in my arms and expressing our love on a deeper emotional level that transcends anything physical.
But hell what do I know, I'm 19. I'm supposed to be wanting to fuck anything that moves on 2 legs currently and yet I feel little to no sexual desire at all. (Honestly beginning to think that I may be asexual, but w/e)
But hell what do I know, I'm 19. I'm supposed to be wanting to fuck anything that moves on 2 legs currently and yet I feel little to no sexual desire at all. (Honestly beginning to think that I may be asexual, but w/e)
Oneirius said:
Pick One. Sex is an integral part of most relationships. I probably wouldn't marry a woman if we could never have sex.Oneirius said:
So, after you get "married" to this person, you can't have sex ever again.
How is this different from a normal marriage?
How is this different from a normal marriage?
I think the problem wasn't a lack of sex, but more you just were not that interested in eachother. If she was pawning you off onto other girls, then imo:darkknight9 said:
A. She didn't have that love/jealousy connection with you.
B. She has little care for intimacy in general.
Yes i would marry a girl who would be like that... Or i wouldnt even go close to a woman like that! Not because of the sexual incapability(dont get me wrong thats not what im saying)
I just think a woman like that would deserve someone far better than me! T.T
I just think a woman like that would deserve someone far better than me! T.T
Ha ha ha... no.bl4ckh4wk64 said:
Once again (sigh, getting tired of repeating this) I'm seven years married. My spouse and I have a great sex life - we generally have sex every day. And we're not talking 'wam-bam-thank-you-maam' quickies either. Last night we were having sex for an hour and half, and that's if you don't count the foreplay beforehand. That's a little longer than normal for us, but our typical evening is one hour long.
A gentleman above mentioned that he and his spouse are equally active after ten years of marriage.
So please, the joke is old and inaccurate.
If you're not going to be having sex with them you might as well just be very good friends with them.. after all a lover is just a good friend that shares their physicality with you..
No point in all that complex relationship stuff if all you need to be is friends..
Although to appease the OP i'd probably go with marriage and no sex if she was so perfect but it wouldn't last long before the cheating comes into play.. I'm only a primitive and generally hormonal being after all..
No point in all that complex relationship stuff if all you need to be is friends..
Although to appease the OP i'd probably go with marriage and no sex if she was so perfect but it wouldn't last long before the cheating comes into play.. I'm only a primitive and generally hormonal being after all..
If my lover was perfect, she wouldn't presume to make the demand that her inability to have sex meant that I would have to live a sexless life.
I think the society I live in often emphasizes sex and sexuality in all the wrong ways while simultaneously wrongly downplaying other important aspects. But honestly, sexuality really is an important part of most fully lived human existences.
I think the society I live in often emphasizes sex and sexuality in all the wrong ways while simultaneously wrongly downplaying other important aspects. But honestly, sexuality really is an important part of most fully lived human existences.
If she's so nice, why does she want me to live the rest of my life without sex?
If you can give me a satisfactory answer to that question, then my answer is "yes."
I would marry that person and forego sex.
Actually, furthermore, WHY can't we have sex? Or more to the point of what I'm curious about: Can we BOTH have sex with other people, but not with each other?
If so, an open relationship would actually be the perfect solution to that problem.
I think your hypothetical "perfect" woman is kindof a *****. Just sayin'.
If you can give me a satisfactory answer to that question, then my answer is "yes."
I would marry that person and forego sex.
Actually, furthermore, WHY can't we have sex? Or more to the point of what I'm curious about: Can we BOTH have sex with other people, but not with each other?
If so, an open relationship would actually be the perfect solution to that problem.
I think your hypothetical "perfect" woman is kindof a *****. Just sayin'.
sex is key imo. it is needed and maybe each and every one of us has a differing drive, but it is something that we are inherently designed and programmed to do and want to do. why deny yourself that happiness? i had dated one girl for two years without sex, and it was very stressful for me esp. when following heavy foreplay, there was nothing else but a very irritated hard on.
my point is though, everyone should at least have some fulfillment of their sexual needs because i would much rather have people be happy together with a healthy sex life than people be pseudo-roomates with no intimacy.
my point is though, everyone should at least have some fulfillment of their sexual needs because i would much rather have people be happy together with a healthy sex life than people be pseudo-roomates with no intimacy.