My ex-wife just married my brother
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That site is downright epic...Avykins said:
Anyways, I think your situation calls for one of these:
My solution to problems like these have always been the same. Run. Run for your dear life. Run to a place far far away from this epic drama stewpot. Call me a weakling. Call me anything you want. But this is not a problem for you to deal with head-on.
In 5 years, you will gain the perspective you need to handle this problem.
Maybe fit some time in with your baby girl every month. Brokenly smile when you have to look at your ex. But eat everything and just run. No point in thinking about things that hurt, right? Just move on with your life.
In 5 years, you will gain the perspective you need to handle this problem.
Maybe fit some time in with your baby girl every month. Brokenly smile when you have to look at your ex. But eat everything and just run. No point in thinking about things that hurt, right? Just move on with your life.
Blood and water are both equally important for the human body. Just putting that out there.Booze Zombie said:
My first reaction is you got pwned. But my second and more sensible reaction is...
Let your brother put up with her. There's a reason you divorced her, take it as a blessing.
I don't know how to help you in this situation, so please don't take this as an offense.
Let your brother put up with her. There's a reason you divorced her, take it as a blessing.
I don't know how to help you in this situation, so please don't take this as an offense.
You must murder her, without leaving evidence.
She seems like Baal, except baal is my dad's exgirlfriend who's had 5 (probably 8 now) ex husbands with kids from each to get alimony.
That is truly a strange predicament. I think talking it through while skydiving should help.
She seems like Baal, except baal is my dad's exgirlfriend who's had 5 (probably 8 now) ex husbands with kids from each to get alimony.
That is truly a strange predicament. I think talking it through while skydiving should help.
That....just sucks dick dude.Someone, or a few people have probably said this already, but go find a counselor and talk to them about it. At this point I would no longer consider them your family, except your daughter of course, and to go find a friend's house and stay with them until you can get back on your feet.
That is some cold shit right there. Having had some troubles myself a while back, all I can say is cut yourself off from everyone involved ASAP. Time heals best and just try not to let it get you down, even though it does. If you have some close friends, meet up with them more often to keep from getting lonely. Keep you mind off it as much as possible until you feel strong enough to take the problem head on.
When I had some issues all I did was exist and I am talking, on the basic level. I slept, ate, and breathed. With maybe one or two other things put in there.for about a week. It gave me plenty to get my head on straight and tackle the problem.
When I had some issues all I did was exist and I am talking, on the basic level. I slept, ate, and breathed. With maybe one or two other things put in there.for about a week. It gave me plenty to get my head on straight and tackle the problem.
- So you married here after 3 weeks of dating? Not a smart move.
So she's the anti-christ of women? Why wouldn't you know that after knowing her after 4 years?
So your brother is married to her? If she's as bad as you say he will realize this soon enough.
So you think we're here to help your relational troubles? We are giving the wrong impression then.
So you need to know what to do? Figure it out yourself.
Yeah, Greek Tragedy sounds about right.captain awesome 12 said:
My advice would be to just walk away from the entire situation. In my life, there is a line, and if people cross it, I see no problem with disowning your entire family, as much as it sucks to do so, I wouldn't allow someone to betray me in such a way and not have them be dead to me.
When your daughter is old enough to make her own choices, she'll probably understand what a completely fucked up thing was done to you and you'll be able to see her then.
But yeah, this is something so awful that you have to feel a bit removed from it. I mean, all you can really do is tell people about your life as a cautionary tale, I suppose.
Also, I'm guessing they'd take you on Jerry Springer. Just a hunch...
Ok, for a start, don't worry about your brother, 99% chance they will divorce too. Then you can decide how you feel towards him (I told you so/I know what you're going through). As for your parents, ask them WHY she got to stay there in the first place!
I would try for an appeal about your daughter, especially if your ex went through some shit to end up living with your family, thats basis for an appeal right there.
And finally, either go on holiday with your new family or friends for a while. Spend some cash on yourself. You just need to get away for a little while then start sorting things when you get back.
I would try for an appeal about your daughter, especially if your ex went through some shit to end up living with your family, thats basis for an appeal right there.
And finally, either go on holiday with your new family or friends for a while. Spend some cash on yourself. You just need to get away for a little while then start sorting things when you get back.
I agree with this guy, except for the part about 'becoming an athiest', which won't solve your problem at all(nor I doubt it would help you or make you happier)..unless you ACTUALLY think that God hates you, which is pretty stupid >.>Uncompetative said:
Like another guy said, everything happens for a reason.
What a gargantuan *****. Seriously, I would be punching things.
My input? God I don't know... I had a girlfriend who sounded like a mild version of this a few years ago. She was manipulative and withholding and so on, and when I finally broke up with her for being so evil and crap to me (after 7 or so months), she went ahead and seduced my best friend - who, I'll be honest wouldn't have taken much seducing - and started dating him, ruining our friendship, because I sure as hell didn't want to see her all over my friend, or him being used by her. In any case, we stopped being friends and a little while later they broke up.
Of course, that's a much smaller scale, but the same sort of feelings were there. All you can do is just go be somewhere else, with other people, and know that eventually it will work itself out. If you figured out how cruel this woman is, no doubt your family will eventually and start missing you. Nothing for it but to wait and get on with a new life really, because trying to do anything about a situation like this will only make you frustrated and bitter, and/or homicidal
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My input? God I don't know... I had a girlfriend who sounded like a mild version of this a few years ago. She was manipulative and withholding and so on, and when I finally broke up with her for being so evil and crap to me (after 7 or so months), she went ahead and seduced my best friend - who, I'll be honest wouldn't have taken much seducing - and started dating him, ruining our friendship, because I sure as hell didn't want to see her all over my friend, or him being used by her. In any case, we stopped being friends and a little while later they broke up.
Of course, that's a much smaller scale, but the same sort of feelings were there. All you can do is just go be somewhere else, with other people, and know that eventually it will work itself out. If you figured out how cruel this woman is, no doubt your family will eventually and start missing you. Nothing for it but to wait and get on with a new life really, because trying to do anything about a situation like this will only make you frustrated and bitter, and/or homicidal
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this is injustice that demands some sort of moral higher power that actually steps in, unfortunately no such entity exsists.
if it did it should be called "The anti-dick move thesis."
if it did it should be called "The anti-dick move thesis."