PaulH said:
Olas said:
What do you mean?
Losing one's job is a serious, life altering affair.
How is that then any fault barring his own?
Yes, because he didn't know the comment would get him fired, the comment SHOULDN'T have gotten him fired, and wouldn't have in most normal circumstances. Saying it's his fault for doing the initial thing that triggered their overreaction sounds like victim blaming to me.
PaulH said:
Olas said:
Yes I did miss that facet because I never assumed the only objection people could have to this was based solely on their gut reaction to it. Certainly there's an emotional reaction when unusually harsh punishments are used against people for petty bullshit, but there's reasonable utilitarian arguments against it as well. Does the momentary satisfaction that the public felt knowing this man was unemployed outway the harm done to him and his dependents? Maybe, but the point is that there's plenty of arguments against this. Could a society function if a person's political correctness was seen as a more valuable job skill than... you know... skill?
Playing nice and following the rules are more important than 'skill'
That definitely depends on the importance of the rules were talking about. If the rules are pointless or arbitrarily then I don't see how following them could possibly be important. What exactly is the "rule" he broke here anyway? Don't ever say anything negative about women? Is that a rule we all have to follow now? Because if so a lot of comedians are screwed, especially female ones.
PaulH said:
(he was actually a shitty teacher according to many, and he's not doing anything 'skillful' from the place that he was discharged from).
Maybe he was a shit employee also, in which case his termination was fair, but then that has nothing to do with the comment he was fired immediately after. Anyway, you just said playing by the rules is more important than skill, so why do you keep defending his dismissal by arguing that he lacked skill?
PaulH said:
Also, as a former employer of people, I'd rather hire people who are capable of leaving their garbage at home. If you can't, then you're a migraine waiting to happen
What "garbage"? You make it sound like he was making a personal attack against specific people. Maybe we're reading the comment differently, but to me it reads like mild observational humor. If it was him going on about his ex-wife or something that would be worse, still not deserving of termination, but definitely more inappropriate.
PaulH said:
Olas said:
I don't believe that, and even if it were true that wouldn't make it right.
Feel free not to believe it ... your opinion means very little to me. Stick your foot in your mouth, go on a sexist/racist/etc diatribe, prepare to be fired for it. He's not the first, he won't be the last.
Lol. I've said worse things than he did while at work. I'm pretty sure my bosses have as well. As have we all at some point. If you work in some sugarplum palace where people always act like complete saints 100% percent of the time then so be it. But that doesn't mean those are the standards everywhere, and frankly I'd be nervous working at a place that uptight and unforgiving.
PaulH said:
Olas said:
The dinosaurs didn't fail to evolve. They were wiped out in a massive meteorite impact. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt though and assume that's truly all you meant.
That's the definition ...
dinosaur
See definition in Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary
Line breaks: dino|saur
Pronunciation: /ˈdʌɪnəsɔː/
Definition of dinosaur in English:
noun
Image of dinosaur
1A fossil reptile of the Mesozoic era, often reaching an enormous size.
EXAMPLE SENTENCES
The dinosaurs are placed, according to their hip structure, in two distantly related orders (see ornithischian and saurischian). Some of them may have been warm-blooded, and their closest living relatives are the birds. Dinosaurs were all extinct by the end of the Cretaceous period (65 million years ago), possibly as a result of a catastrophic asteroid impact in the Gulf of Mexico
2A person or thing that is outdated or has become obsolete because of failure to adapt to changing circumstances.
(Source: Oxford dictionary)
(Edit) Also, might I add ...? That's the definition in every other dictionary I've thought to look up.
Fine, victory is yours. I'd just never heard the term used in a manner where it wasn't intended as a derogatory word for old people.
PaulH said:
Olas said:
You sure know this guy awfully well. I couldn't possibly make a judgement about his overall character based on what little I know about him. Perhaps he was a complete jerk all the time. But if so then THIS comment shouldn't have what got him fired.
Even though anybody else saying such with his non-pology would have been fired? How 'bout ... he got fired like anybody else for being a fuckwit?
You said he wasn't good at image. That goes beyond one single comment. The fact that you don't mind ruining someone's life over a single almost completely innocuous comment aside, you claim to have knowledge of his general character as if you know him personally.
Also, he shouldn't have to fucking apologize for this, and forcing someone to make an apology over an issue this trivial is asking for a "non-pology" as you like to call it.
PaulH said:
I've been fired from a job for what I said .... boo-fucking-hoo. I learnt my lesson, didn't repeat the same mistake.
Then I feel sorry for you, and sorry for the fact that you accept that kind of thing. I can't believe how lightly you talk about being fired. As if it isn't the kind of thing that can ruin a person's life and career. As if finding a job is super fucking easy. If I lost my job, my reaction wouldn't be "boo-fucking-hoo" and I don't even have a good one.
PaulH said:
Olas said:
It sucks to be in a one-strike-and-you're-out institution. I'd like to think most people can learn from their mistakes, but I guess we're better off not taking that chance.
He had a chance to apologize and smooth the edges, and maybe try to get his job back. Only to re-examine his piss-poor attitude in the non-pology and reiterate that maybe he should be seen as a dinosaur. Also, losing your job is a chance to learn from your mistakes. It's not like he was
executed for losing his job. He's still alive.
You're right, they didn't execute him. I guess we should happy that saying women cry isn't a capital offense on the level of mass murder. :/ Do you even read your own comments before you post them? Losing your job isn't a chance to learn from your mistakes, by then it's TOO LATE!!! The way you learn from your mistakes is by having you're boss point out your mistakes to you, and telling you not to repeat them. I've made mistakes on the job before. REAL MISTAKES. As in things that actually impacted the work I was doing. Did my boss chew me out a bit? Ya, sure. But I became a better employee because I learned from it. But you can't learn and improve as an employee if you've been fired.