Who cares what she said?chadachada123 said:snip
Boudica said:]Coming from someone that has fucking been a victim you have no idea what you're talking about. The emotion pain and the upset isn't even something you can comprehend without going through it.
Just stop.
She is absolutely not saying anything of the sort, she's just calling you out on your bullshit about how you don't have anything to back up what you're saying and you're purely theorizing on how you would react.Boudica said:And, like I said, you have no idea what you're talking about. You're just pulling this out of the air when you admittedly have zero experience with them.
I'm pretty aware of how annoyingly white knighty I'm sounding right now, I do think the situation in the OP was pretty funny though. Woman should have just smacked him in the dick and been done with it, but hey not everyone can handle shit I guess.Zaik said:Then again, I expect nothing less from you Escapist. Keep white knighting it up.
Oh don't worry I'm done with this. It's just insulting that because of one person's experience with sexual assault and how traumatized they were we're all supposed to feel that way. Oh you've experienced it? That's nice well I don't need to give you any dirty details about what I've been through just because I have anonymity on the fucking interwebz /endrant.Shanicus said:Oh lord, this thread devolved quickly...
Don't try it. Nothing can shake her from the mighty high horse she rides.DugMachine said:Your experience is not universal, get over yourself.Boudica said:He's presuming to know what something is like when he has no way of even fathoming it. How he thinks he feels has no bearing on reality. You can think and imagine all you want, but if you don't have the experience, your words are hollow and empty.runic knight said:Kinda like how you have no authority on saying that he does or does not know what he is talking about and describing himself and not other people?Boudica said:You may as well be commenting on the flavour of the moon, for all the authority you have on the subject.chadachada123 said:You're ignoring what I said. You are an insult to other victims with your presumption that I would suffer like you would, or that all emotional pain is equal.Boudica said:And, like I said, you have no idea what you're talking about. You're just pulling this out of the air when you admittedly have zero experience with them.chadachada123 said:I think you don't understand one simple concept: I'm not you.Boudica said:Coming from someone that has fucking been a victim you have no idea what you're talking about. The emotion pain and the upset isn't even something you can comprehend without going through it.
Just stop.
For sexual assault, I would not give a shit in the vast majority of situations, and I know that for a fact.
For rape, I said that I HONESTLY DON'T SEE MYSELF being traumatized in most non-painful situations. Maybe I'd be wrong. There's only one way to know for sure. What I do know is that some victims of rape walk away emotionally pretty much fine, while others like you think that it is unable to comprehend, with everything in between.
Maybe YOU personally suffer extreme emotional pain, but to say I would suffer the same is insulting, and to say that the pain is incomprehensible is unfounded (and insulting to other victims that weren't harmed emotionally to your extent). I've been through a lot of nasty shit, and I see little that could compare emotionally for myself. As in, for me. Not you. Not him. Not them. Me.
I'll repeat this: I don't hold much stock in my sexual organs. I already clarified that I see no real distinction outside of society's forced distinction between being forced to grab a creepy dude's arm and my hand being forced into creepy dude's crotch, so what makes you think that I'd be bothered by being forced to penetrate someone, even if it was unwilling, so long as it was painless?
Not to sound like an ass here, but stop a moment, take a deep breath and reread his last posts. Sounds like you are getting riled up due to how the topic touches close to home, which is understandable and all, but in doing so, you are ignoring their post.
the guy's a low post counter with a stereotypical pic and Facebook as a badge i wouldn't take anything he says seriously and hopefully he wont last longlacktheknack said:Why do I bother entering sexual assault threads when I know I'm going to be greeted with classy gentlemen such as this guy?
Aw cmon, World. Cmon Escapist. Every time you show me a nice woman (no men so far) it turns out they've been sexually assaulted in some way. It's really depressing me now.Boudica said:Coming from someone that has fucking been a victim you have no idea what you're talking about. The emotion pain and the upset isn't even something you can comprehend without going through it.
Woah no no no no. It just depresses me. Bad things happen to nice people.Boudica said:For a second I honestly thought you were suggesting something like "Damn, she was nice, but looks like she's been damaged." I just about hit the fucking roof XD