Open Relationships, what do you think?

[Jaranja]

I, personally, don't associate sex with love. So, I think being with the one you love and fucking around is perfectly acceptable. Of course, I'm not in it to deceive my partner, they would know and be free to do the same.

The reason why there's this whole "One girl for one guy" thing in relationships is, in my opinion, because people are just so jealous.

Let's hear your views. I'll try and reply to some posts when I get back to my computer.

 

[Sleekgiant]

Well I believe sexual intercourse is one of the strongest displays of emotion, therefore just screwing around with anyone you want is rather deceitful to me.

So monogamy for me

 

[Eliam_Dar]

I disagree, I do believe that sex has a lot to do with a relationship, is a way to develop intimacy, and connect with each other. To do otherwise, seems to me, like a way to show no commitment to a relationship.

 

[Davey Woo]

My chances of a relationship at all are pretty slim, so I don't think about it at all.
I don't have any issues with casual relationships though, as long as everyone's happy.

 

[Nickolai77]

I don't think it matters, so long as all persons concerned consent to an open relationship then that's fine with me.

 

[DividedUnity]

An open relationship can never be sustained. Anyone who says it can is lying or watches too much TV. At one point or another one of the two people in the open relationship will start to feel jealous. If its the friends with benifits type of thing then eventually feelings will start to emerge. I dont see why anyone would have an open relationship. If your girlfriend isnt doing it for you find a new bloody one and stop being a manwhore

 

[Blueruler182]

I liked that episode of House too. Did not expect that ending.

Sex is personal to me, I don't like how it's turned so... social. Though that may just be where I am (I'm the only one without a "special friend").

 

[Johnmw]

An open relationship happens when someone pussy's out of dumping someone properly. I don't want sloppy seconds so... yeah... monogamy for me.

 

[Anachronism]

Well I believe sexual intercourse is one of the strongest displays of emotion

Pretty much this. Sex is one of the most amazing things a couple can experience. Good sex should always be more than just physical; it has the potential to be a phenomenal emotional and spiritual connection. As such, it should be reserved for someone you actually care about rather than someone you just met.

 

[manythings]

Please don't try to make it sound like anything more than you want to fuck. I don't care about your relationship choices so long as you and your partner are on the same page but trying the "monogamy isn't natural" thing is retarded and if you are going to play that card you better leave your house, live in a tree naked and eat all your meals raw. Almost nothing we do as a species is natural anymore, and I challenge anyone to name one thing they did today that they would've done in the wild in the exact same way.

 

[Slaanax]

Way to dangerous, that's how disease spread.

 

[DarkHourPrince]

Personally, I couldn't do it. I would feel like I'm decieving my fiance but I suppose if the two people in question are okay with it then that's their thing. To me it sounds like they don't really have that strong of a bond and that sex should be reserved to the one person to adore but I suppose to each their own.

 

[Treefingers]

They are silly. I don't like sharing.

 

[rokkolpo]

it's our strongest still thriving instinct.

why not listen to it?

 

[Zwilorg]

Absolutely not on my part! if my gf asked how i would feel about it and that she wanted to do it, i would leave her...

but she doesnt so every1 is happy ^^


has someone always says only 1 key to a (dunno the word) (hole in the door, to insert the key mencioned before ).

 

[Phenakist]

Surely if there is nothing special saved for just your married partner (just to be old fashioned in my views) what is the point in being married? Or even having someone considered even a "girl friend" if they aren't physically anymore special than any other female on the planet?

Emotional attachments sure that counts but that's only 1 half of the story isn't it?

 

[Erja_Perttu]

Well, I'm sticking with my man. Why would I be interested in others when I've got someone to satisfy my needs here?

 

[katsabas]

Not my cup of tea. I kinda like being committed to another person I like.

 

[Lord Beautiful]

The reason why there's this whole "One girl for one guy" thing in relationships is, in my opinion, because people are just so jealous.

My thoughts are as quoted above.