Playing as a female character usually annoys me.

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ScorpioT

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MetalMagpie said:
Watching femshep headbutt Rex is at best bizarre and at worst very off-putting. It certainly breaks immersion, and does nothing to help me accept this character as someone I can relate to as a woman.
But Wrex's species is a 7-foot 400lbs alien with a head like a shark. No human could headbutt that thing without the butt seeming weak.



I think "Jane" Shepard handles it as well as "Jack" Shepard. Both realistically poorly.

See with BOTH genders it is supposed to appear feeble and ineffectual because Shepard is a measly human trying to head-butt the equivalent of a bipedal elephant. What this does show is fortitude of spirit in application of alien customs.

The bias here is when the man attacks weakly the assumption is: "well he bit off more than he can chew, at least he tried"

But if a woman shows weakness in attack: "grrr, women can't do anything! She should never have even tried"
Except Shepard is not headbutting him with intention to knock that Krogan out. More like inviting him for a duel and challenging said krogans claims. Just saying.
 

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So honestly, you use the game Mass Effect as your example for a game that contains jarring breaks of realism. A game based off of a story where giant sentient spaceships are hell-bent of destroying our galaxy's life. And of all things, you provide the example of a female soldier being able to rifle-smash a Krogan over. Do you honestly think any human would have a chance against a Krogan, assuming they were real? The things look to be almost 7 feet tall, and probably weigh at least 400 pounds. They also spend their life fighting each other, it's their goddamn culture.

Also, the combat in Mass Effect isn't designed for realism, if that's what you want, I have some good games I can recommend for you (such as Operation Flashpoint, ARMA2, or Red Orchestra). Speaking of combat, how does having a vagina hinder a person's ability to fire a gun? The guns in Mass Effect are light-weight, don't have to be reloaded often (in ME1, anyhow), and have little kickback. I know a few girls who can easily outshoot me, or at least compete well with me, in terms of firing fast and accurately.

Finally, are you sure that you're stronger than every woman? http://www.oddee.com/item_97013.aspx

I dunno how you posted this thread and voiced your opinions in such a dickish way, yet didn't expect a huge back-blast from it... So far, you've gotten off very easy.

EDIT: TLDR: Of course the female Shepard should be a bit weaker, but the whole game is so beyond realism, I can't believe this is what is riling your feathers.
 

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Yeah, I'm with you on that one. As a woman, I DO appreciate having female characters in games that I can relate to. But a woman walking through EXACTLY the same motions as a man is NOT creating a character I can relate to.

The statistics are that men are stronger and faster than women. And women are more dexterous and socially-canny than men. (They also have a greater tolerance for pain, but this is rarely a relevant attribute in a video game.) So female characters in games should play on THOSE strengths.

Watching femshep headbutt Rex is at best bizarre and at worst very off-putting. It certainly breaks immersion, and does nothing to help me accept this character as someone I can relate to as a woman.
ohh come on that was HILARIOUS.....(and as I recall it wasnt wrex she was headbutting) for what its worth Id rather femshep being masculine and all rather than not having the option

plus why is it so hard to belive in a sci fi world full of aliens? you know that shepard has been "improved" right? (both through the alliance training and the lazerus project)
 

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What? What the fuck did I just read? You're saying that men are NATURALLY STRONGER than women?
Yes and no. Men are NATURALLY STRONGER than women. That should be obvious. What I think you meant to ask is if I am saying that men are naturally stronger than ALL women. The answer is no. I tend to be stronger and faster than most women (certainly stronger than any woman I've ever met) because I lift a lot (using supplements and taking about 150g of protein isolate a day) and I've been doing distance running since elementary school.

What I've learned is that this physical regimen makes me stronger than 99.9999999% of women, but only stronger than about 97% of men. You can think I'm full of shit if you want, I don't really care. I'm just discussing my own experiences.
 

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wow

i have seen threads WAY less sexist [most were NOT sexist] then this and on those threads the OP gets flamed. THIS one however barely gets a any flames

no offence to the op thou BUT
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yeahhh i read your post, OP and i find it to be quite misogynistic.
 

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First of all, yes, men are going to be stronger than women, while woman are going to be more flexible - Garrus taught us that. From reading these posts though, I'm led to believe that outside this discussion the OP has a sexist view anyway, as he seems to think he is oh-so-superior to women based on his limited experience; not to flame the OP at that, merely an observation, and probably reasoning behind the view.

One, women can be intimidating, I don't care if you haven't been intimidated by your mother since you were 6, that doesn't automatically make women unable to be intimidating. You don't need muscles to do it now, you certainly don't need it in 200 years. The person with the biggest firepower is going to be the most intimidating; 'good, bad, the guy with the gun makes the rules'.

Two, I can't vouch for every female character in every game here, but I can for Mass Effect. That armour you're wearing isn't there to look pretty; it has other effects other than, well, armour. In Mass Effect 2 you can get a piece of armour to increase your physically damage; in Mass Effect you can get an armour upgrade to the same effect; so it seems logical that your armour increases physical strength. So if male Shep can do that because of the armour, so can Fem Shep. If the armour doesn't add strength and Shepard can knock over a creature who weighs over a ton when wearing armour with the butt of his assault rifle, that is going to break immersion just as much if Male Shep does it, because that is BS. If you want to complain about female characters in, say, Oblivion however, I'll just step out of way because they have no excuse.

Also, as a side note: would you have a problem if I complained about Ezio? since as a man he CLEARLY shouldn't be flexible enough to do all those acrobatic stuff, as women are better at that then men utterly, and he should grow some muscles and be a Brute or something.
 

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Treblaine said:
You literally spelled our your double-standard, that you will tolerate all sorts of unrealistic impossibilities except for the suggestion that a women roundhouse kicking a man in the face would hurt.
Yes, yes I did, and with good reason. The point is that I am willing to accept unrealistic things if they make the fantasy universe more enjoyable in some way. But being told to suspend my disbelief "just because," is annoying, and artists in any medium should try to avoid it. A story is always more compelling when it is as realistic as possible while still permitting a free imagination. It's the same reason that "deus ex machina" is a bad storytelling technique. A realistic solution is always far more impressive and enjoyable.
But females kicking ass does make the universe more enjoyable.

"as realistic as possible while still permitting a free imagination."

I guess by your standards "free-imagination" can only go so far, certainly can't go as far as women taking any active combat role. That is not deus-ex-machina, that is a contrived-resolution to a story, you are coming up wit contrivances that EVERY man is better than EVERY woman in EVERY way all at the SAME TIME.

As a red blooded man I don't want my games to be a freaking sausage-fest. The LAST THING I want is the only female presence in games to be some nagging dispatch/radio woman, the "cortana syndrome".

See that's why I think your views should be dismissed as bigoted sexism, because regardless of actualities you just don't like the idea of women kicking ass regardless of how real or unreal the justification is.
 

GLo Jones

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I really prefer playing as FemShep, as I much prefer the voice acting of Hale to that of the bollocks coming from Meer's mouth. The male Shepard just sounds like an emotionless robot to me.

Also, do you have any idea how many aspects of the mass effect series aren't physically possible? So many scientific and logical impossibilities, and you're getting hung up on the sex of Shepard?! Really?

The game is a science fiction game. The physicality's can be overlooked in favour of equality. It all comes down to personal preference.

Just keep playing your male Shepard, and don't worry about what others are doing.
 

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I prefer playing with female characters. I figure if I'm going to be kicking ass I may as well look at one too.
 

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Step 1) Why physical strength does not matter for F-Shep



Step 2) there is no step 2

But also, she's a battle hardened marine with armor, genetic modifications and what...10 years of training? At some point, physical strength does not matter. It does not MATTER if a girl can lift more or less weight than you. What DOES matter is if she can fuck you up.

And the answer is...yes. Most women in the same situation can fuck you up.
 

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The_Vigilant said:
Despite her being taller, stronger, and faster than most girls and certainly better at basketball than me, she still would have lost.
The underlying message is "despite the fact that she was more skilled than I was, and she was more physically apt than other females, I still would have won because I'm a male." And that doesn't sound the slightest bit sexist to you at all? If your answer is no, then your quest to not sound sexist has failed dramatically. Perhaps the reason your are unable to not sound sexist is because you are legitimately sexist.

Just putting it out there.
 

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Treblaine said:
See that's why I think your views should be dismissed as bigoted sexism, because regardless of actualities you just don't like the idea of women kicking ass regardless of how real or unreal the justification is.
This opinion is clearly wrong when to held to reckoning against a number of other posts I have made throughout this thread. I already said I loved Samus Aran and Linda Hamilton in T2. I even went on to say that I would accept a woman filling a man's role in an unaltered way if she at least LOOKED like a woman strong enough to do it. My problem is not with women kicking ass, it's with skinny supermodels kicking ass and talking trash in the same way a man would do it.
 

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MercurySteam said:
The_Vigilant said:
Despite her being taller, stronger, and faster than most girls and certainly better at basketball than me, she still would have lost.
The underlying message is "despite the fact that she was more skilled than I was, and she was more physically apt than other females, I still would have won because I'm a male." And that doesn't sound the slightest bit sexist to you at all? If your answer is no, then your quest to not sound sexist has failed dramatically. Perhaps the reason your are unable to not sound sexist is because you are legitimately sexist.

Just putting it out there.
One of the reasons I chose this example is that SHE said it. Not me. I didn't disagree with her because she was right. I'm taller than her, faster than her, stronger than her, bigger than her (which matters when playing in the paint), and I can jump higher. Her reasoning was pretty good and objective when it comes to the game of basketball. It was just surprising to hear a modern, educated woman put it down to gender so plainly. And she of all people should know. She's an athlete.
 

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Hm, what's this? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_women_in_early_modern_warfare

While OP has a couple of valid points, most are pretty silly.
 

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The_Vigilant said:
Let's see...how can I say this without sounding like a troll or a sexist douche? Hmm...

I can't.
Just because you acknowlede this fact, it doesn't make it ok to say the rest of the stuff
 

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I usually play female characters because meh, I prefer to. The "why" of it probably has a lot of factors. I find it very interesting to see what the developers have put into making you a female, if anything, or if it's merely a model/voice change with nothing added or subtracted.

You almost, but not quite, have a good point going. The spectrum of female strength and speed does not go as high as a male. The average male will in most cases, with similar amounts of training and exercise, be stronger and faster. The difference is noticeable in high-performance sports; there's a reason women compete against women and men compete against men in the 100m sprint, for instance. So yes, at peak unaltered condition, you have a fair point.

But being a hero, protagonist, or even PERSON, is more than your maximum weightlifting potential, and how many people are at peak physical condition? And WHEN? You can't be at peak condition all the time. Athletes know this, that's why they try to top up their form just before important events. Most people aren't NEAR peak condition at any point in their lives. I'm six foot four inches, overweight but quite strong. I don't know ANY women who are as big as me (luckily for them), and none as strong either. I know several who can kick my ass. If I trained as much at martial arts as them, or even a little less, and got in better shape I might turn that around, in fact it's likely, but I don't.

Then there's force multipliers. Put a gun in a woman's hand, and she's effectively just as deadly as a man. The only applicable factors now are that she's strong enough to hold the gun, which is NOT too high a bar. Then her ability to aim, her eyesight and her reaction time; women do just fine with that, and her bullets will kill you JUST as dead as a man's.

Women not being able to be as threatening as a man is lazy writing and stereotypes, and that's all. That a threat of violence from a woman is less threatening to you than one from a man is because YOU find it less likely that she can and will carry out the threat, based on your experiences. Those are societal behavioural norms. Let's say I'm a criminal trying to run from the police. A police officer tells me to freeze, and levels a gun at me. How do I decide? Well. Are there innocents in the way? If so, the officer is less likely to take the shot. Is there cover nearby that I can use? At no point does it concern me if the officer is male or female.

Now, in Mass Effect I agree on female Shepard being... less enjoyable. Even I, who usually play female characters, couldn't in that game. That was mostly because I found the female supporting cast and potential love interests hugely more interesting than the male ones. I don't get why you'd have a problem with a sci-fi supersoldier being female rather than male, really. Your example illustrates my point perfectly. Female Shepard knocks a Krogan down with gun butt, you disbelieve. Sure, I'll accept that. Male Shepard knocks a Krogan down with gun butt, I disbelieve. Krogans are unstoppable monstrosities, more hardass than any other common species, and a HUMAN knocks one out? You'd have trouble slowing one DOWN with less than two mags! Now, in a world with cybernetic implants, powered exo-suits, collapsible high-powered weaponry, and goddamn magic (Mass Effect Fields are essentially that), you're concerned because the raw, unaltered character might bench press slightly less than if she had been male? No. I don't get it.

As for flames, yes you are and will be getting them, which I don't see any reason for. While clumsily put, your question is valid, and merits discussion, if nothing else then so we can reach a greater understanding and come together as one brotherhood of man and... then there'll be cake. Probably.
 

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The basic thrust of what the OP said is true; the male body is definitely built stronger than the female body. Fact is, the female body is built the way it is - wide, high hips, proportionally longer legs, generally weaker upper body - because they're built for childbearing. (To anyone who wants to take offense at that statement, I say this: men don't have fucking wombs! I'm not saying childbirth is the defining point of a woman's existence - she can choose not to have children; I'm saying it's a defining point of her genetic build.)

The main reason this is, is because of the way humans have evolved within our society over the last several millenia; simply put, men have always been the worker/warrior class and as such have evolved to be bigger and stronger because they're expected to defend and provide for their family group.

It's not saying that women are in any way inferior to men. How can they be? They're built in a completely fucking different way, which is superior to the male build at what it's evolved to do >>

The main problem here is that the OP was completely obnoxious in how he stated his opinion, and came across as sexist even if he isn't. The sentence saying 'most women can't even get the lid off a jar of pickles without a rubber grip' for example. All these 'hard women' he knows obviously don't eat pickles >>

TL;DR
Men and women are built differently on a genetic level and OP needs to learn to be more eloquent
 

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Let's see...how can I say this without sounding
There - I expressed myself. I'll turtle up until VoD.
Can you name more than two genuinely popular computer games in the entire history of gaming that realistically deal with men (let alone women) utilizing ridiculously heavy armour and weaponry from the medieval period?

Does your blood also boil & seethe when the platemail-wearing RPG character you've sent hiking through the wilderness for days, actually manages to successfully defend himself from attack when by all rights they should immediately collapse from the torturous physical exertion you've put them through?

Or does your suspension of disbelief only break down when natural law gets violated by someone who appears to have both a set of breasts and a vagina?
 

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Now, I can understand the presence of these heroines. More ladies join our ranks every day, and they should be given a character option with which they can identify. But even female gamers must detect the nagging sense of impossibility that the utterly unchanged application of a female hero to a male role creates. So why is it that so many men choose to play as a chick? You and I both know there's no way a female is going to be humanity's first SPECTRE when women can't even make the Navy SEALs, and every time FemShep knocks a Krogan down with the butt of her Assault Rife it breaks immersion. So why do you do it?
There aren't any female SEALS because of an army policy forbidding them from trying out, something that is in the process of being fixed, this section of the argument is invalid due to your research failure.
And do you realise that a woman will never be considered equal to a male navy seal, even if she is able to complete the training? (which I highly doubt any woman is able to complete) Why you ask? Because the male body is better suited for fighting and the entire menstrual cycle thing isn't exactly ideal for the missions those special forces guys preform.

There's a reason why society looks down on a man fighting/hitting a woman you know. It's because the female body is weaker and more fragile than the male body. It's not sexist, it's fact.