Poll: Am I a bad brother?

[Captain Pancake]

Its not that she is too young, its that she doesn't see a boyfriend as someone you like/love, she treats them more like a lap dog. She has tried (and done) to get her boyfriends to spread rumors about me, some of which make me feel extremely terrible about myself.

ah, i know the type. people that see every relation as more of a tactical advantage rather than a moral and spiritual binding... sadly that appears to be the norm, and is often mistaken for the latter.

On another note, who is she to say is the bad sibling if she's the one spreading lies and deceit? You could do a lot worse, and she could do a lot better.

 

[NotAPie]

I am a little sister and you are a great brother I wish mine was as nice as you, mine steals stuff out of my rooms and pawns it off for drugs and then asks me when I'm bust to watch him to make sure he doesn't OD. That is a bad brother.

Ugh...Your brother reminds me of my girlfriends brother...

Sounds like you just want people to disagree so you can feel better about yourself, old chum.

From your explanation, no.
Of course, there may be different points of view on this.

Honestly, she shouldn't even have a boyfriend yet.

How old is she?

She is 14.

Wow. Your not ignorant or anything.

Sorry, that was harsh. I've run out of Dr Pepper though so I'm naturally grumpy.

I have Dr.Pepper.
However its hot and I won't give you any.
I will have it in this steel box.

 

[Arkhangelsk]

Get a lock to your room, break into hers, blackmail her back, spread rumors about her, and then see how she likes it!

If you're a bad brother? No, in the sense that you're not doing anything bad. And yes, in that you let her step all over you. You should be the dominant one (not in that you should treat her bad, but vengeance is plausible). Get a hold of your pair before she steals them.

 

[Aesir23]

No, you're not a bad brother, she needs to learn that you're not her slave. Hell, the fact that you're willing to do some of that stuff makes you a rather good brother in my eyes. (even if she does blackmail you)

 

[MortisLegio]

whipped dude your officially whipped

 

[12345cyclone]

She is 14.

She fit? : D

Why man, you wan't her number or something?

I was thinking more along the lines of her virginity but sure let's roll with that : D

Point taken, and I wasn't being serious, btw.

 

[Spacelord]

If you're being bullied around by a little girl enough to make a thread about it on an internet forum expressing your concern, then yes, you are a bad big brother.

 

[Supreme Unleaded]

the simple explanatin is your sister is a complete ***** who deserves no respect, give her the silent treatment, that will drive her nuts. the silent treatment will not hurt her in any way it will only show her how to make her life.

Just dont answer her calls and when she complains just dontlisten and then go, "what?" when she's done.

Dont drive her anywhere and just dont listen to her little needs, be strong and be cold, it will work, just dont give her any sighns of emotion, just remeber, she can smell your fear.

 

[Basse]

Its not that she is too young, its that she doesn't see a boyfriend as someone you like/love, she treats them more like a lap dog. She has tried (and done) to get her boyfriends to spread rumors about me, some of which make me feel extremely terrible about myself.

Your sister sounds like a spoiled ***** tbh. If she's going to spread rumours about you and demand that you take her places I'd just ignore her. And in a way youre being a bad brother letting her do this to you she should be thought to respect her family by her family.

 

[T3h Camp3r T3rr0r1st]

call her a skank and say you'll never take her anywhere again

 

[KarumaK]

No just a bit of a pussy. But some people are like that when it comes to family. Now me, I'm a horrible brother. My sister got an allergic reaction from some food at her prom and I've made up about three nicknames to call her by referring to that food so she never forgets it. I also mock her love for some guy she knows. And by knows I mean stalks.

So no, your just a guy who cares about his family.

 

[Zildjin81]

Its not that she is too young, its that she doesn't see a boyfriend as someone you like/love, she treats them more like a lap dog. She has tried (and done) to get her boyfriends to spread rumors about me, some of which make me feel extremely terrible about myself.

Shit man..... she sounds evil. I would tell her either stop being so mean or make her pay for gas.

 

[billybobby]

i doubt your being a bad brother, people can get pissed, it is natural, but please dont go to her "im not a bad brother the internet said so!" =p

 

[Zand88]

I guess I'm supposed to vote No. Your perspective is clearly that you aren't a bad brother, and that affects your side of the story. Just like anyone else looking for reassurance here, you paint yourself as the sympathetic person. What this amounts to is the forum equivalent of a hugbox. You don't want a real consensus of your actions, you just want to see the vast majority of people here by your side on this issue, without being given an unbiased take on the story.

Plausible to Yes, I'd say. She's probably too young to really move around freely, and likes the freedom you give her. If that's an issue, the only thing good that you can do is to not be defensive, but actually sit down with her and get a compromise between the both of you.

 

[tim_the_tam]

she needs a boyfriend...

 

[Cavouku]

My sister will inevitably do such things when I'm old enough to drive. If it gets to the point, I'll end up smacking her.

 

[KiLl_RoY]

wow.... if i ask my brother if he could take me somewhere he would probably tell me to go fuck myself
you are the best brother ever.. you can tell her your escapist friends said that