Poll: Bondage and Master and Submissive

[Mcupobob]

You can do what you want, but I wouldn't try it. I wouldn't call you sick or anything you can do what you want in the privacy with who ever.

So can I have a option of I'm fine with the idea but don't wish to try it myself?

 

[Joshroom]

Never really tried anything too seriously S&M and probably never will. The whole idea of being too extremely commanding or fully bound and gagged has never really appealed to me.

Love to comment but I'm a bit tied up at the moment...

Quodos on this line though.

 

[Dr. Whiggs]

I'm just trying to get a feel for how people feel about these fetishes. Just curious.

I want to know how YOU feel.

For research purposes.

Boner research purposes.

My boner.

 

[child of lileth]

I like real bondage. But American "bondage" is just pointless to me.

 

[Sacman]

I'm up for anything really, but if I wanted to be called a "***** ass mother fucker" and get Teabagged I would play Xbox live thank you very much... besides I don't really know what my GF will think abut it...

 

[neuromantic]

I'm a bondage nut, prefer to be the one getting tied but I have a real problem with trusting people enough to get into that situation with someone so it's a bit of a tricky one.

 

[thylasos]

Not a fan, really.

 

[gallaetha_matt]

Tried it. Both sides. Loved it.

I think for me it was being with a great girl, the trust is hugely important and can really bring you closer to your partner. As long as you both accept each others boundaries and trust one another it can be an extremely fulfilling experience for both parties. One of the most loving relationships I've been in was with a woman who was into BDSM.

The mantra is, keep it safe, sane and consensual. That seems to work on the whole.

 

[Beffudled Sheep]

Its my Saturday night! And Sunday, and tuesday and every other thursday. I love my girl

 

[neuromantic]

I like real bondage. But American "bondage" is just pointless to me.

OK now I'm curious. What exactly would you class as "real" bondage?
And what type of 'American' Bondage is it that doesn't appeal to you?

I think I know what you're refering to but I'd like to be sure.

 

[dalek sec]

Alot of it has to do with trust and everything so no, there's no way I'd trust anyone enough to completely surrender control to them. Also I try my best to avoid pain so yeah, this just isn't good for me.

 

[neuromantic]

Anyone else humming master and Servant by Depeche Mode in their head while reading this thread

Yep, you caught me. Great song!

 

[child of lileth]

I like real bondage. But American "bondage" is just pointless to me.

OK now I'm curious. What exactly would you class as "real" bondage?
And what type of 'American' Bondage is it that doesn't appeal to you?

I think I know what you're refering to but I'd like to be sure.

I mainly just hate how so many people say things like, "I love bondage", when they have dressing up as Rob Halford in mind. That =/= bondage. That's just the American misconception of it. I just don't like how so many people have the complete wrong idea of what it is, yet they say they love it. It's a bit annoying to people like me that like the real thing.

 

[Blindswordmaster]

I'm just trying to get a feel for how people feel about these fetishes. Just curious.

I want to know how YOU feel.

For research purposes.

Boner research purposes.

My boner.

Look at page one.

 

[Jaranja]

S&M, hell yeah. Already got some of that planned with the girlfriend.

Bondage... ehhhhh.

 

[theevilsanta]

Ask me about this a couple months ago I would have said no way. But then one night after watching 9 1/2 Weeks and a few gin and tonics and it kind of just ... happened. Have only really dabbled with dom/sub stuff but I have a feeling some bondage gear is on the way. Not at all into pain or leather though.

 

[Blindswordmaster]

I like real bondage. But American "bondage" is just pointless to me.

OK now I'm curious. What exactly would you class as "real" bondage?
And what type of 'American' Bondage is it that doesn't appeal to you?

I think I know what you're refering to but I'd like to be sure.

I mainly just hate how so many people say things like, "I love bondage", when they have dressing up as Rob Halford in mind. That =/= bondage. That's just the American misconception of it. I just don't like how so many people have the complete wrong idea of what it is, yet they say they love it. It's a bit annoying to people like me that like the real thing.

Mind filling the class in about 'real' bondage then?

 

[shinigamisparda]

You know what, I'm going to keep my mind clear of what this is really referring to, as I'm not exactly sure.

Don't tell me.

Well, we're going to tell you!

It's about small fluffy kittens. In mech suits. Fighting bears.

It's pretty awesome.

Nice!

Anyway, I've never participated in bondage or BDSM but I've had an interest for over a decade now. I've only told one of my few girlfriends about it and she was actually sort of interested in trying. Unfortunately we broke up before it ever got that far due to other reasons.

I'm definitely the kind of guy that wants to be the one in power, but I don't believe in abusing that power. I'm not the type that actually likes to abuse the sub. I get enough thrill out of teasing them while they have no say in the matter.

And to the (currently) 14.8% of you who look at me like I'm some sort of demonic freak from the bottom of scum of society I respond with this: "Good sir/madam, YOU'RE ON THE INTERNET! YOU SHOULD SEE THE FUCKED UP SHIT THAT GOES ON HERE!"