Poll: Bondage and Master and Submissive

[DarkDain]

Wow >_> in 20 years this will be discussed in grade schools around the world because it will so tame compared to what they'll do then. People will be so fetishized they wont be able to get off without lasers robots radiation explosions and 3 kinds of animals.

 

[Dendred]

Neither. I'm referring to M/s (Master/slave) or total power exchange relationships. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I've never been one for leather-fetish stereotypes or the use of riding crops or any of that stereotypical S&M stuff, but defining the roles in a relationship such that I am the master and the girl is, by her own consent and intention, completely and utterly subservient to me is VERY thrilling and tends to lead to much greater intimacy between me and the girl.

If your only concept of BDSM is what you see in the popular media, then I strongly recommend reading the thread from post 1 to post 160. Apparently there are some quite kinky folks on here, and we're friendly and patient in explaining the lifestyle to outsiders.

Thanks for the info, but let me state that I did not over look the master/slave relationship. I just found a common pattern in the styles and tecniques that are used in s and m and bondage activites. Which look as though they don't take as much professional skill as pipe fitting dose. I will also say that bdsm was not on my mind at the time of my first post. For I only have a veg understanding of what would fall under that category.

Now Im going to take your suggestion and read the other posts. For the communities to these genres are a mystry to me and I'd like to fix that.

 

[Snork Maiden]

Got the ball gag and strap-on in. Happy for anyone to make me their *****, although I wouldn't describe it as a kink as such - can get by just fine without going all sub on you.

If your only concept of BDSM is what you see in the popular media, then I strongly recommend reading the thread from post 1 to post 160. Apparently there are some quite kinky folks on here, and we're friendly and patient in explaining the lifestyle to outsiders.

I find that (generally) the bigger someones fetish, the more interesting they are to talk about sex to. If they're comfortable bringing into the open, then I find that they enjoy talking about it, and are happy to answer questions and give pointers. Not to mention that they'll almost certainly be totally accepting of whatever your sex level is. Stark contrast to "Dude, you've tried your own semen? Gross!" which you can expect from the average student.

Like, I have great demonstration illustration scans from a book I got from Akibahara

Out of curiosity, did you visit the epic 6 storied sex shop in Akihabara? It's not the classiest sex shop in the world, but I'm sure it stocks 90% of the stuff needed to get in to any fetish you ever wanted.

 

[Socius]

Light bondage, yes please.
anything containging pain or suffering: nay!
S&M, sometimes.

 

[Aesthetical Quietus]

I'm willing to try most things once, BDSM is no different.

 

[Nieroshai]

Not my thing, but I can see why people get a thrill out of it. Then again, a lot of people think I'm brain-dead because oral creeps me out.

 

[Ben Legend]

Its amazing. Try it, Enough said!

 

[^=ash=^]

I'm willing to try anything once, and the girlfriend seems to like the idea of being tied up. I haven't done it yet, but sure I'll give it a go. xxx.

 

[SnipErlite]

I'd try some bondage.

Especially with a certain someone who I know has an interest in it

Why not? Can only broaden my experience.

Soon as she walks out with a strapon though I'm outa there.

Never underestimate a mans ability to break steel when threatened with sodomy.

I gotta say, that made me laugh out loud. Thanks for that =]

 

[Cowabungaa]

I'm not one for gimp suits and all that jazz, but some light bondage and a bitof master/subservient (slave sounds so...wrong) role-playing might tickle my fancy. Blindfolks, silk scarves, that sort of thing.


No whips and gags though, no thank you, but I reckon a bit of play and experimentation keeps things fresh.

[sub]Coming from a virgin...[/sub]

 

[the rye]

It probaly is my kind of thing, i'm already rather submissive and masochistic and i do like dominating people.

 

[Celtic_Kerr]

I've been into bondage for 5-6 years (and for those checking my age, yes i can do the math). I've never had a need to control someone else, and it's very important to always rememeber that the other person has a life away from what you might be doing. Dominance and Submission might be great fun, but there's a line to draw somewhere. Bondage is also INCREDIBLY fun

 

[rockyoumonkeys]

Interesting in concept, but not as much in practice.

 

[Trivun]

it's not to everyones taste I'll admit, but I find the concept of having power over another immensely appealing.

Weirdly enough, that's my exact thought too. Not something I'd do all the time, but on occasion I'd be up for trying S&M, just for the experience and for that feeling of having power over someone. I think really, everyone has that same feeling at some point in their lives. It's all just a part of being human...

 

[theevilsanta]

also wtf is up with food fetishes? i mean, i'm not exactly getting a huge turn on from spilling mustard all over myself eating a hot dog (in fact I hate it, mustard stains are the worst)

heh, jk, people can do what they want, but food stuff really confuses me.

 

[dorkette1990]

Aw, there wasn't an option for us subs....

There's always an option for subs.

Actually, around here, it's surprisingly hard to find a dom... I hate the point when THEY want to be tied up, because they're neutral to bondage and tired of trying to be dominant.
Then again, I'm EXTREME sub (it just makes my day being told what to do )