Poll: Do people actually like kissing?

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Ashadowpie

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its not that im immature, but i honestly think kissing is disgusting, im 23 and the thought of someone's spit on my face or revolting enough " french kissing " its just appalling to me. it doesnt help that i when i see human saliva i want to vomit, this includes drooling babies. i do have relationship issues so im perfectly happy with this problem.
 

loc978

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Kissing is just a weapon in my foreplay arsenal. Quite an effective one, so I like that about it.
 

Snowbell

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Maybe it's because I've only kissed one exceptionally lazy kisser and one terribly drunk person but I really don't enjoy kissing. Or foreplay...or sex ^_^; I'd rather spend my time doing something I consider fun and productive eg. playing video games together rather than just sticking our tounges down each other's throats. It just seems pointless to me.
 

Canadamus Prime

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Well I like it, but then I'm an old romantic so there ya go. Only done it a sparingly few times in my life too.
 

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Ashadowpie said:
its not that im immature, but i honestly think kissing is disgusting, im 23 and the thought of someone's spit on my face or revolting enough " french kissing " its just appalling to me. it doesnt help that i when i see human saliva i want to vomit, this includes drooling babies. i do have relationship issues so im perfectly happy with this problem.
I'm sorry if you find this offensive, but the thought of you having a gagging reflex when you see a baby I find hilarious.

" So ashadowpie, this is our child, what do you think ? He's beautiful isn't it ?" And then you proceed to vomit xD. The look on their parents face. Hahahaha. Even better if you actually DO vomit on the baby.

Kissing's fun, I'm a dude btw, but yeah, I like kissing. Especially when it's with a new girlfriend or something, when you haven't actually done other stuff :D. Or at a party and you manage to hook up with a girl, that isn't drunk mind you.

If it's with somebody you truely love then it can make you really feel connected with each other, if you know what I mean. Sometimes it's the looking of eachothers eyes after you kiss that makes it that tad more perfect.

Euh, I mean, No Kissing's romantic and us macho-types shouldn't be romantic because that's gay and we're straight and not at all insecure ! (that last line was a joke).
 

liquidsolid

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I love kissing, most girls I know like kissing (at least when I kiss them) but I once dated a girl who didn't like 'making out' cause she thought it was weird. haha
 

Vrach

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BENZOOKA said:
There's this large dose of feel-good hormones pouring in when you kiss, especially if there are feelings involved. I'd dare to say there's something inherently wrong with the person or their doing it wrong, if one does not enjoy kissing.
^This. That said, few things should be noted:
- Not everyone kisses the same way or likes to kiss the same way. I was with a few what I'd call 'biters' and I can tell you, it's definitely not for everyone. Most people however, will adapt over time and not start too heavily with something specific like that, but rather try it and gauge the partner's reaction. I'd say not being able to adapt is a big part of what makes a bad kisser (and can turn a good one into a bad one if someone's not into what they're doing)

- The idea of the act itself might also repulse some people, but I'd say this is unnatural after a certain age (explain kissing to a kid, see if they like the idea - this goes away with time), like germophobia.

- The emotions play a large part in enjoying a kiss. I went out with one girl for a short while who I liked at first, but then realised I had little to no chemistry with. The kissing was ok in itself, but as there were no real emotions involved, it wasn't really doing it for me (and I can see how someone would view kissing in such a relationship to be "meh" as the OP's friends do). On the other hand, my first kiss with one of the girls I liked was awesome due to emotions involved, even though we just jumped into it like wild monkeys instead of going slow and adapting as I said above.

TLDR version, kissing usually gets better with time - as you learn what your partner does and doesn't like and vice versa. It's also a billion times better when feelings are involved and without it, I can see how someone would find it underwhelming. Considering the OP seems to be talking from the position of someone in high school, the latter is likely the issue.
 

mateushac

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I did like it (a fucking lot!) sometimes with this girl I used to date, but I've never felt anything special with any other chicks.
 

Loki J

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Put some damn feeling into it! My wife stuck around at first partly because she liked (& still likes) how I kiss.
 

Dr. Mongo

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If you do not like kissing you have not done it with the right person.
Kissing is awesome.
 

tthor

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Kissing is largely about exchanging hormones (specifically some hormone that is linked to your immune system). If you kiss someone who's hormone is significantly different from your own, then the kiss will be much better. That way, if you have children together, the children will have a much more varied immune system giving them a better chance of surviving diseases etc. (I may have confused some of the details, but I think i got the general idea)
 
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I'm a guy. I like it.

My GF and I haven't made out yet, but we do kiss a lot. I like it, it feels special.

She was the one to first move for a kiss too, so I assume she likes it too. :p
 

TheDrunkNinja

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Really? That's weird.

Well, for the people I know, I'd say it's about 50/50, since I actually do know some girls who are just... meh about the act of kissing. But then again, I notice a lot of times the "aggressor" in regards to kissing are the girlfriends of most of my friends.

Same goes with me since with my kissing partner, she's usually the one to attack me first. Plus, it's tongue and all, which I gotta say, before I actually tried it, I didn't find the concept of a tongue wrestling match all that appealing. But now... Just... Damn... It reeeeeeally gets you in the mood, ya know?

I dunno, I'm under the impression there's now one way or the other in this case. I think it just varies from person to person.
 

lacktheknack

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sky14kemea said:
Kissing looks grody! D: /innerchild.

I've never seen the appeal, of course I am a complete novice in this area anyway. I get how normal kissing can be nice, but when people start using their tongues to do God knows what to each others tonsils, it kinda makes me wanna puke. o_e
What this one said. Kissing is sweet, but making out is gross. I'm more of a hands guy, anyways.
 

VladG

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LetalisK said:
Your female friends probably don't like it probably because they've never been with a guy who knows how to kiss. Seems to be one of those skills men have a hard time mastering on their own and feel too shy or proud to ask for help.
How in the bloody hell is one supposed to master it on his own?