You're beginning to sound like a technophilic Ignatius J. Reilly.RAKtheUndead said:I love (read: hate, loathe, despise) the assumption that all of us are somehow able to get women to be attracted to us. I do not fall into that category. As few women have ever been attracted to me, none of them gamers, and I've never had a girlfriend at all, I think you can extrapolate easily what my response is to this. This is not an unusual fate for somebody who deals with obsolete computer systems as a hobby and who's read his way through a car mechanic's course manual for fun.
For the record, I'm largely of the opinion that women who game heavily are generally less interesting, more intolerant and more unpleasant people to be around than those that don't play games at all. Some of the female gamers that I've met have been downright nasty and foul individuals, unworthy of my respect or my attention. Of course, they probably think exactly the same about me, so it all balances out.
Eh. Didn't feel like it. Besides, wouldn't posting on a month dead thread be necro posting? And if you're so disgusted by the topic why did you come in here to tell your story?Bara_no_Hime said:This thread again?
Hi. Gamer girlfriend, right here. **waves**
I've also had gamer girlfriends. I don't know why everyone thinks this is so rare these days - there are tons of female gamers now, more than... well, ever before. JRPGs recruit more female gamers than any other genre (which is why people should stop hating on them), particularly games like Persona 3 and 4 that have a strong focus on story. Also Xenosaga and Final Fantasy. And, the WRPG Dragon Age has done it's fair share as well. Great games all.
I commented on this thread's identical twin last month. Check the archives, please.
If there are guys who feel threatened by girls beating them at video games... then that's kind of sad.Darkauthor81 said:Guys don't like women they feel threatened by. That's why for so much of our history women have been deeply socially and sexually repressed. All because of men who were afraid of losing their boners.zehydra said:lolwut? That doesn't make much sense...SegaJanesis said:This is very true. I regularly have to play badly so that guys will still feel manly and spend most of the time just watching others play and commenting on their perfect choice of combo.castlewise said:I would say that what guys really want is a girl who will watch _them_ play videogames and make appreciative noises at regular intervals.
Yawn.
Adversely, girls don't like men they feel threatened by either. Which is why so many girls love having a gay guy friend. A guy they can feel completely comfortable with. It's just that women have never been in power enough to impose their insecurities on us like we have on them.
I know how you feel. But this isn't a gamer guy specific generalization. It's a fact that, even though we've come a long way in our views of women and ourselves, many people still aren't there yet and that we have a long ugly history to get over. While this type of insecurity and sexism is foreign to you and me, it's very real for many others even of our age group.zehydra said:If there are guys who feel threatened by girls beating them at video games... then that's kind of sad.Darkauthor81 said:Guys don't like women they feel threatened by. That's why for so much of our history women have been deeply socially and sexually repressed. All because of men who were afraid of losing their boners.zehydra said:lolwut? That doesn't make much sense...SegaJanesis said:This is very true. I regularly have to play badly so that guys will still feel manly and spend most of the time just watching others play and commenting on their perfect choice of combo.castlewise said:I would say that what guys really want is a girl who will watch _them_ play videogames and make appreciative noises at regular intervals.
Yawn.
Adversely, girls don't like men they feel threatened by either. Which is why so many girls love having a gay guy friend. A guy they can feel completely comfortable with. It's just that women have never been in power enough to impose their insecurities on us like we have on them.
I'd say that's kind of a generalization. There are LOTS of guys who feel totally comfortable with girls being better than them. I am a little offended by this.
it is a generalization, but its still a thing that exists. I mean i have plenty of male friends who im on equal video game terms with, but there are plenty who feel the need to "backseat game" while im playing. The worst is usually when i play shooters with guys, theyll point out where the enemies are, tell me when to get behind cover, when to switch weapons, sometimes when to fire. It gets really old.zehydra said:If there are guys who feel threatened by girls beating them at video games... then that's kind of sad.Darkauthor81 said:Guys don't like women they feel threatened by. That's why for so much of our history women have been deeply socially and sexually repressed. All because of men who were afraid of losing their boners.zehydra said:lolwut? That doesn't make much sense...SegaJanesis said:This is very true. I regularly have to play badly so that guys will still feel manly and spend most of the time just watching others play and commenting on their perfect choice of combo.castlewise said:I would say that what guys really want is a girl who will watch _them_ play videogames and make appreciative noises at regular intervals.
Yawn.
Adversely, girls don't like men they feel threatened by either. Which is why so many girls love having a gay guy friend. A guy they can feel completely comfortable with. It's just that women have never been in power enough to impose their insecurities on us like we have on them.
I'd say that's kind of a generalization. There are LOTS of guys who feel totally comfortable with girls being better than them. I am a little offended by this.