It doesn't really win the 'argument' but if there are no spectators around, or they have already made up their mind about you, or you just don't care what they think about you, then it is a fun response. You can just sit back and enjoy their reaction, as Zeithri said.Zeithri said:This.FargoDog said:I simply go with 'Define life'. It's fun to watch them stutter and stammer before calling you a 'fag'.
Exactly what I tell them.
Heh, have to try this next timeZeithri said:I simply go with 'Define life'. It's fun to watch them stutter and stammer before calling you a 'fag'.
wow i never really thought of it that way. so it's bear baiting? cut down the attack power, then use very little effort to acquire the kill? magnificent.EchetusXe said:And to TheNamlessGuy as well. 'no u' is a simple and dismissive response that confounds the insulter, it is difficult to respond to. It shows you don't take the insulter's 'advice' seriously. In longer battles it also gives the insulter a false sense of intellectual advantage, leaving them tempted to show their supposed intellectual superiority, which can then be cut down later. Either that or it enrages them (as proved by your response), which leaves them more willing to say silly things in anger which you can use against them.
It either pacifies the opponent by making a joke out of the situation or it draws the opponent out, is my theory.
Some really good responses here guys btw.
I know. Which is partly why it is so frustrating.Rarhnor said:Normally the only ones using this kind of insult, are the ones spending their friday night getting drunk enough, to not even remember it, and waste the next day hungover.
Riiiight...I can totally see where they're coming from.
A 'pity response' would be effective, yes.monstersquad said:It's not an insult to me. It's psychological. Whenever someone pulls that shit on you, they're trying to assert dominance. Like an animal. These are people who have somehow learned in life that they need to put people down in order to inflate their own egos. When you respond to these people in the manner they're used to, you automatically let them win their little head game.
Case in point, my brother says shit like this to me all the time. I can blatantly see that he's trying to both a)put me down and b)try to lift himself up a little bit in doing so. I personally don't need to denigrate and demean someone else's life to enoy mine a little better. I love my life. Everything I do in it, from playing D&D to fishing and hunting, I do because I love to do it. Not because I think it will make me "cool", and surely not to impress anyone.
So my response to such an ill-adusted, developmentally stunted person is pity. Just take the high ground and show them just how sorry you are for them. That's what I do, and it works EVERY time.
Precisely.SteinFaust said:wow i never really thought of it that way. so it's bear baiting? cut down the attack power, then use very little effort to acquire the kill? magnificent.