Poll: Have you ever engaged in casual sex?

[crazypsyko666]

No, never had the opportunity, but as long as I trust the person to a reasonable degree (a friend of mine gets really horny, no strings attached, [almost happened a few times] or someone I've known for maybe a month decides that they want a fuck-buddy), sure. Why not? I don't think I'd have sex with a stranger, though.

Though I'd like to point out a definition I've created. 'Fucking' implies that you don't really care about the person. 'Making love', or 'Having sex', implies that for the latter, you respect them, and for the former, you deeply care about them.

 

[pharaoh malik]

... I don't know. I mean, I guess the answer would be technically yes but... I actually really have feelings for the stupid asshole so I mean, maybe it was just casual for him. I don't know. x_x I'm not against the idea if it's something both people are interested in, but sometimes it's hard not to have feelings get in the way.... I don't think I could sleep with a guy I didn't really care for. I'd just consider myself to be breaking my personal values.

x_x Okay reading through all the posts and saying all this has made me somehow sad.

I'm assuming most of you folks are guys. Kind of jealous cause I mean, I wish I could just screw around and not care like some of the guys I know and not give a damn about people's feelings. But I just am like incapable or something. It's not like all guys are like this.. haha.. I wish more weren't... but whatever.

 

[Jedoro]

A gentleman has no vices, but allows another his own.

I've considered it, strongly at times, but there's got to be an emotional connection before I'll allow a physical one. People want to sleep around, I don't give a damn, but I won't.

... I don't know. I mean, I guess the answer would be technically yes but... I actually really have feelings for the stupid asshole so I mean, maybe it was just casual for him. I don't know. x_x I'm not against the idea if it's something both people are interested in, but sometimes it's hard not to have feelings get in the way.... I don't think I could sleep with a guy I didn't really care for. I'd just consider myself to be breaking my personal values.

x_x Okay reading through all the posts and saying all this has made me somehow sad.

I'm assuming most of you folks are guys. Kind of jealous cause I mean, I wish I could just screw around and not care like some of the guys I know and not give a damn about people's feelings. But I just am like incapable or something. It's not like all guys are like this.. haha.. I wish more weren't... but whatever.

I actually know what you mean, sleeping with someone you care about but they don't give a damn. Harsh lesson to learn, but just remember it for the future.

Just be patient and keep your eyes open because, judging by your profile pic, I'd venture a guess and say there's at least one nice guy around you who's waiting for you to notice him and not the assholes.

 

[adakias]

Uhm... well... yes. ^__^;

 

[zehydra]

Probably not. It would screw me up emotionally.

 

[FinalHeart95]

Still a virgin here, but planning on losing it in a committed relationship. After that, who knows?

Pretty much sums up my feelings.
Losing your virginity represents a lot, I'd like to have it with someone that means something. After that... eh... not so much.

 

[256th Banshee]

Yes. And since I'm getting divorced I guess I'll be at it again at some point.

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

yeah unfortunately,i hadn't had a good stress reliever in a while and i was semi tipsy that night...so i was semi taken advantage of but it takes two to tangle so ill admit i did it. i much prefer it with a person i love/in a relationship with, idk how to explain it but its just that much better with that special person.

 

[AgDr_ODST]

I could easily if I desired to but I'd much rather seek out and have a relationship where sex if it comes into play means something...so I'll stick it out and look for that 'special someone'

 

[Sovvolf]

Given my general shittyness when it comes to relationships mixed in with my nights spends around the town often drunk... I get the decent amount of drunken casual sex, often in alleyways, cars or toilets... Though occasional on the train, in my house or in an house that I'm not too sure about how I got there...

However, as for normal happy relationship sex... I'm very much lacking it. Which is a shame because relationship sex is a hell of a lot better than the causal drunken shit.

 

[Perhaps]

I guess i have a friend with benefits technically.

 

[Trivun]

i wish.

Really, it's not that hard if you lower your standards and take the girls you can get. Some of my friends do the online dating and easily hookup with 6-7 average/below average girls a semester. With me, I strongly prefer quality over quantity, so it's a lot lower, and I'm okay with that.

Really? What website do they use?

I kid, I kid. Seriously though, I'm still a virgin, but although I'd prefer to lose that to someone who I'm in a committed relationship with, when single I'll gladly go for casual sex. At the end of the day, what harm does it do if everyone's comfortable and honest with each other, and protection is used?

 

[Dags90]

Nope. Call me old fashioned, but without an emotional connection, I just don't see the difference between casual sex and jerking off. Except that jerking off is likely cheaper.

Only dated one person, married that person and have been faithful to that person for nearly 9 years now. It works for me.

You can have casual sex with someone you have an emotional connection with, like an ex. I wouldn't recommend it though.

I don't care for casual sex, though I dislike the implication that monogamous relationships are necessarily deep and meaningful. Looking back, I see how shallow and meaningless some of my relationships were, despite how "deep" I thought they were at the time.

 

[PrototypeC]

I think a better question is, how many of us here are virgins? Then again... that hits a little close to home...

Not for my first time, by gum, but after that maybe. I don't have any moral, religious or philosophical reasons not to.

 

[Drakane]

"Sex without love is a meaningless activity, but as far meaningless activities go its one of the best." Woody Harelson(sp)

so, yes.. yes i have

 

[ReservoirAngel]

I did a few times. If it's worth it, I deeply regret doing it.

 

[Lazzi]

Casual sex? I've never even had formal sex!

*Ba-dum-tish!*

I actully laughed at that.


But on topic, yeah Ive had casual sex. Its an on off thing with a few of my class mates. I thinks its done good for me, after all the pillow talk of two engineering studets is surprisingly stimulating.