Poll: How do you run your Sex Life?

[Floominoo]

You guys get up for breakfast? As far as i know it's either have breakfast in bed somehow or stay in bed. I'm not moving out of that bed until like 5 in the afternoon... it's too comfortable.

 

[AgentNein]

I don't go home with anyone. Why is it only "wimp out"? Is the only grown up option to just fuck, in your opinion?

OT: I hate the pub/club/bar scene, it's impossible to get to know a person in a loud, dark pit filled with people shoving past you whie you have to scream at them just to have a vacuous five minute conversation that takes about an hour.

I agree. Going around and fucking everyone you meet at a party/club is immature in my opinion. At least when a girl does it, it does not give her a great reputation...as for men...I'd still think he's an undateable dick. And you don't have to be a virgin to "wimp out". The term "wimp out" makes it sound bad to refuse sex, even if it is because maybe you have feelings for someone, or take more pride in your body and don't let it get tossed around like a wet, crusty rag.

Relationships are better, and worth it, in the end.

Not sure how a guy who enjoys casual sex equates to an "undateable dick", or how I don't take pride in my body because of it. I'd venture to say that I enjoy my body very much, and seek out interesting ways to enjoy it along with other people's bodies. Does that mean it's worth less to me?

I guess I just don't get it. To each their own. I would certainly never knock those who enjoy the monogamy, again I do happen to enjoy that from time to time.

 

[playinthedark]

Into the ground, usually.

 

[Spark Ignition]

option 6. Fuck buddies.

That falls under option 3.

Not the way you defined it. This isnt a random hookup, the girl I'm "with" at the moment, we were friends before and we're still friends, and we have an implicit agreement between us. She's not a booty call. I dont just phone her and chance my luck when I get bored.

Let's say 'friends with benefits?' literally. It's like a relationship but without all that awkward emotional stuff.

Oh, well I didn't consider that in the scenario I wrote. Principle of option 3 kind of applies, though, just with more repetition and assurance of action.

And actual friendship!

 

[Lionsfan]

Well I've done all of these things at one point or another. For the most part though with me and sex it either stays in relationships or it's with girls I know through class/work. I rarely "hit it and quit it", even if you're never gonna see the girl again that's just a way to make unwanted enemies in life

 

[Zykon TheLich]

3 or 4 g

 

[SilentCom]

I probably wouldn't go home or invite someone I don't really know. They might murder me in my sleep >_>

Actually, I'm not really sure how I would react. I would probably be too shy to even talk to them and even if I did, sex would not happen.

Edit: Even if I were to have sex, my choice in whether or not I would stay may depend on the person.

 

[Racecarlock]

How do I run my sex life? That would be Google Images (safesearch off) and youporn.

 

[Baneat]

What counts as loss of the card?

This one always confused me, is there a line I don't know of?

 

[Vern5]

option 6. Fuck buddies.

That falls under option 3.

Not the way you defined it. This isnt a random hookup, the girl I'm "with" at the moment, we were friends before and we're still friends, and we have an implicit agreement between us. She's not a booty call. I dont just phone her and chance my luck when I get bored.

Let's say 'friends with benefits?' literally. It's like a relationship but without all that awkward emotional stuff.

Oh, well I didn't consider that in the scenario I wrote. Principle of option 3 kind of applies, though, just with more repetition and assurance of action.

And actual friendship!

Hey, if things work out then things work out

What counts as loss of the card?

This one always confused me, is there a line I don't know of?

In this scenario I'm going to set the bar at penetration.

 

[sheah1]

Huh. Lotta virgins..... I'm underage so I have that excuse, what's yours?!

 

[jawakiller]

I run mine with fire and ice. Trojan man, that is.

 

[Dexiro]

I'm not gonna sleep with someone I've only just met, I atleast get to know them first. Casual sex with friends I think is fine.

 

[The Gnome King]

Let's try out this scenario. You go out to a party (friend's house/club/bar) and meet somebody. You hit it off and head back to their place/your place for a bit of fun. So, now that you've both been properly sexed, how do you proceed from that point?

From about ages 14-22 I would pretty much jump on anything from a one-night stand to a relationship, with men or women. I got married when I was 22 and my wife and I, being bi and poly, tried the casual sex thing with others but it wasn't for us. Eventually determined that it's not really worth it unless we're close with the people in a friendship-sense, anyway.

I think it kind of changes as you get older and your values/morals/ethics solidify and grow; not to mention simple preference. One night stands used to be fun, now all I can think of is "eww" at the thought of sleeping with somebody I didn't care for deeply.

Considering I haven't been with anyone except my partner or my wife in years, it's kind of a moot point at this stage of life.

 

[Yureina]

Casual sex is not for me. I could see wanting to meet them later and try to get to know them over time, but the chance that I would actually do them that night is slim to none.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

I've only had one girlfriend and it lasted for 2 years. She's the only person I've ever had sex with. (I'm 19)

BUT, if I were in this situation, I'd stick around and get a number and see if it would go anywhere from there. That is if I actually like her and she wasn't just an easy fuck.

 

[Grabbin Keelz]

Well me and my internet connection tried a few things and were in a pretty good relationship right now. On some nights it has a headache or goes too slow for my pace but we've made a good compromise together.

Of course if I wasn't a sad lonely bastard I'd have a relationship if I liked the girl before bonking her I'd invest in a relationship. If not, at least I get free pancakes.

 

[Heronblade]

How do I run my sex life? I don't, at least not in the sense you seem to be asking for. I've been involved in several relationships, some longer, some short. I have yet to meet someone I feel I could spend my life with, and my actions were consistent only in what I felt was appropriate. In only two cases did a one night stand like the one in the OP seem right, and for both I made breakfast in the morning and talked long enough to ensure that the feeling (or lack thereof in this case) was mutual.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I always try to see people I have sex with again. It leads to more sex.

Although, I was amused by the "hit it and quit it" option - I can only hear that phrase as said by Koothrappali. ^^