Dammit, Max!MaxTheReaper said:Anyway, I wouldn't care who my child wanted to get it on with.
Because I wouldn't care about my child.
They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.chronobreak said:I knew plenty of people in high school who "became" gay because they didn't fit in, and they wanted to belong to some sort of social group, so in many cases it can be a choice. I've also known girls who had bad experience with men, and decided to become lesbians. It can be a choice.DannyBoy451 said:Because nobody would choose to have sexual feelings that could get him or her harassed or attacked, and the scientific consensus is that it's genetic?
More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.chronobreak said:I knew plenty of people in high school who "became" gay because they didn't fit in, and they wanted to belong to some sort of social group, so in many cases it can be a choice. I've also known girls who had bad experience with men, and decided to become lesbians. It can be a choice.DannyBoy451 said:Because nobody would choose to have sexual feelings that could get him or her harassed or attacked, and the scientific consensus is that it's genetic?
Oh, I see.ColdStorage said:Yes, I've felt bad about something and thats the racism I've suffered, because I didn't understand it but that was when I was young....The Austin said:Have you ever felt bad for being the way you are?
I wouldn't want to put my kid through anything he might hate himself over...
the sexuality thing comes alot later and the confusion you suffer within yourself is nothing bad, its merely confusion. And when your older the sexuality thing is tiny, the only thing that can bother you is people you can actually sidestep.
Its not to say you should sidestep them, such as you and I, I could have ignored you but I didn't. And so could our resident archetype sex god SCAM (whose totally straight), we both made the choice to take your comments head on.
So in short, no, children do not feel bad for their sexuality, its who they are.
They direct their sexual desire towards members of their own sex. That is the definition of gay. I'm sure if you told them they aren't truly gay there would be quite the uproar.A.I. Sigma said:They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
Could be, I can't get inside someone's head and see what their exact motives are, besides a desire to change their life's circumstances and the perceptions of themselves by the people around them.DannyBoy451 said:More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
I find this to be the best response:chronobreak said:They direct their sexual desire towards members of their own sex. That is the definition of gay. I'm sure if you told them they aren't truly gay there would be quite the uproar.A.I. Sigma said:They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
I'm genuinely curious about what you're basing that on, please explain it to me.Hail Fire 998 said:I do not support modification of genes to start with. I also think that being gay is a choice and you are not born with it.
Gonna add an amen of my own to that.A.I. Sigma said:I find this to be the best response:chronobreak said:They direct their sexual desire towards members of their own sex. That is the definition of gay. I'm sure if you told them they aren't truly gay there would be quite the uproar.A.I. Sigma said:They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
It's all very well to say this, but who would use their child as a tool against bigotry? It's a lot to put a child though for your own beliefs.Kiefer13 said:To all those saying that they would change their baby's sexuality to straight to avoid them having a hard life, I ask you: Is that really the best way to deal with bigotry? To give in to it? Bigotry and intolerance will never decline if they are allowed to roam free and unchallenged.
wizzerd229 said:Where is the option for the fact Homosexuality is a choice, not a matter genes.
EDIT: Ok perhaps it is genes, but people can overcome genes.
Ok then. Care to back that up? If that's true that means that you could open up gay porn right now, choose to be gay, and get an erection without batting your shit around at all or thinking about anything else but those two guys doing it in the butt. After you've done that you have room to talk. Don't worry, apparently it's a choice so you could just turn strait again after you're done.wizzerd229 said:Where is the option for the fact Homosexuality is a choice, not a matter genes.
EDIT: Ok perhaps it is genes, but people can overcome genes.
Hell yes to that sir.samaritan.squirrel said:I wouldn't give a toss. Leave them be.