Poll: If you could know your baby's sexual orientation...

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Altorin

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do baby's have sexual orientation?

I mean, have you ever looked at a baby and said "Damn, that is one gay baby."

 

Neonbob

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MaxTheReaper said:
Anyway, I wouldn't care who my child wanted to get it on with.
Because I wouldn't care about my child.
Dammit, Max!
Why must you take all the good lines...
sigh...I'd leave the little bastard alone.
I don't want to have much to do with any kid of mine.
They might be like me.
And I cannot stand a copycat.
 

A.I. Sigma

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chronobreak said:
DannyBoy451 said:
Because nobody would choose to have sexual feelings that could get him or her harassed or attacked, and the scientific consensus is that it's genetic?
I knew plenty of people in high school who "became" gay because they didn't fit in, and they wanted to belong to some sort of social group, so in many cases it can be a choice. I've also known girls who had bad experience with men, and decided to become lesbians. It can be a choice.
They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
 

DannyBoy451

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chronobreak said:
DannyBoy451 said:
Because nobody would choose to have sexual feelings that could get him or her harassed or attacked, and the scientific consensus is that it's genetic?
I knew plenty of people in high school who "became" gay because they didn't fit in, and they wanted to belong to some sort of social group, so in many cases it can be a choice. I've also known girls who had bad experience with men, and decided to become lesbians. It can be a choice.
More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
 

The Austin

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ColdStorage said:
The Austin said:
Have you ever felt bad for being the way you are?

I wouldn't want to put my kid through anything he might hate himself over...
Yes, I've felt bad about something and thats the racism I've suffered, because I didn't understand it but that was when I was young....

the sexuality thing comes alot later and the confusion you suffer within yourself is nothing bad, its merely confusion. And when your older the sexuality thing is tiny, the only thing that can bother you is people you can actually sidestep.

Its not to say you should sidestep them, such as you and I, I could have ignored you but I didn't. And so could our resident archetype sex god SCAM (whose totally straight), we both made the choice to take your comments head on.

So in short, no, children do not feel bad for their sexuality, its who they are.
Oh, I see.

Also, I dint mean to offend in any way if I did so, and I apologize.

I would just feel bad for making a kid feel bad, ya know?

I suppose the gene change would be for 3/4 him and 1/4 me. :p
 

chronobreak

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A.I. Sigma said:
They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
They direct their sexual desire towards members of their own sex. That is the definition of gay. I'm sure if you told them they aren't truly gay there would be quite the uproar.

DannyBoy451 said:
More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
Could be, I can't get inside someone's head and see what their exact motives are, besides a desire to change their life's circumstances and the perceptions of themselves by the people around them.
 

Disaster Button

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I want a Bisexual option.. But regardless I'd leave the child the way they are as its sexuality wouldn't bother me.
 

A.I. Sigma

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chronobreak said:
A.I. Sigma said:
They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
They direct their sexual desire towards members of their own sex. That is the definition of gay. I'm sure if you told them they aren't truly gay there would be quite the uproar.
I find this to be the best response:

More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
 

SomeBritishDude

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I honestly don't know on this one. I don't care, but how would the kid feel. There's undoubtedly a lot of hardship that comes with being gay, and probably will be for a long time yet, if not forever. Some people are just plain stupid and can't except someone who's different, which is pretty much the source of most of the worlds problems.

Let's not find a cure for homosexuality. Let's find one for intolerance.
 

Troublesome Lagomorph

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I do not support modification of genes to start with. I also think that being gay is a choice and you are not born with it.
 

bug_chaser

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Couldn't possibly care less. In fact, I'm not even sure I understand why anybody would care.

Now, if I could give my kid a cool mutation, like heat-vision or the ability to turn straight bigots gay, I'd be all over that.
 

Kiefer13

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To all those saying that they would change their baby's sexuality to straight to avoid them having a hard life, I ask you: Is that really the best way to deal with bigotry? To give in to it? Bigotry and intolerance will never decline if they are allowed to roam free and unchallenged.

A million people telling you that you are wrong when you are right does not make you wrong.

A million bigots hating homosexuals does not make homosexuality wrong.

So why succumb in the face of bigotry by giving them what they want?
 

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Hail Fire 998 said:
I do not support modification of genes to start with. I also think that being gay is a choice and you are not born with it.
I'm genuinely curious about what you're basing that on, please explain it to me.
 

bug_chaser

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A.I. Sigma said:
chronobreak said:
A.I. Sigma said:
They'll either be bisexual or not truly gay.
They direct their sexual desire towards members of their own sex. That is the definition of gay. I'm sure if you told them they aren't truly gay there would be quite the uproar.
I find this to be the best response:

More likely that their apparent choices were just them coming to terms with their feelings, and dropping their pretences of heterosexuality.
Gonna add an amen of my own to that.
 

SomeBritishDude

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Kiefer13 said:
To all those saying that they would change their baby's sexuality to straight to avoid them having a hard life, I ask you: Is that really the best way to deal with bigotry? To give in to it? Bigotry and intolerance will never decline if they are allowed to roam free and unchallenged.
It's all very well to say this, but who would use their child as a tool against bigotry? It's a lot to put a child though for your own beliefs.
 

vampirekid.13

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wizzerd229 said:
Where is the option for the fact Homosexuality is a choice, not a matter genes.
EDIT: Ok perhaps it is genes, but people can overcome genes.

yea really, how about you overcome your height. if ur short become taller, its just a matter of genes, go ahead and overcome it, or if ur tall go ahead and magically become shorter for me please, its just a matter of genes, how about you overcome them.
 

Guitarmasterx7

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wizzerd229 said:
Where is the option for the fact Homosexuality is a choice, not a matter genes.
EDIT: Ok perhaps it is genes, but people can overcome genes.
Ok then. Care to back that up? If that's true that means that you could open up gay porn right now, choose to be gay, and get an erection without batting your shit around at all or thinking about anything else but those two guys doing it in the butt. After you've done that you have room to talk. Don't worry, apparently it's a choice so you could just turn strait again after you're done.

I'm not sure if it's genetic or just the result of early upbringing, but it sure as hell isn't a choice. Sure they can PRETEND to be strait, but it's just as easy for you or I to pretend to be gay. It doesn't change what you're sexually attracted to.

OT: I would make them strait. I don't have anything against gays, but a lot of intolerance and hate directed towards them would be avoided because of it.