Poll: Is sex sacred to you?
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Meh I guess it can go both way, mostly about pleasure though. I mean it's fun to hook up with randoms (stay safe kids) and the occasional bump and grind with the ex is great.
Then again sometimes it can be really special when you are in a relationship... but I have only found that a couple of times. Even then... meh guess I'm more about the fun than the meaning, until I find the right women maybe.
Then again sometimes it can be really special when you are in a relationship... but I have only found that a couple of times. Even then... meh guess I'm more about the fun than the meaning, until I find the right women maybe.
It's not sacred exactly but I still think it should mean something. I personally would never have sex with someone that I didn't have feelings for but I don't have to be married to them. My view on one night stands is if it happens then it happens but if you go out every weekend looking to get laid then that's kinda sad. People worry way to much about it.
I find sex to be something special, something meant to be experienced between two people who not only love each other (since feelings can be rather fickle, as can people for that matter), but lifelong commitment. Yes, I'm one who is saving sex for marriage. As much as we try to reduce sex to nothing more than a biological function that has no significance outside of pleasure and reproduction, we still continue to put value behind it as part of a loving relationship. It's kind of an annoying paradox, really, and I wish our culture would just decide whether to put it on a pedestal for fun or for love, but regardless, I'm in it for love.
It's not sacred for me , but i cannot sleep with someone i'm not in a relationship with, i learned this the hard way ( or the soft way rather ). Which is a pitty, because theres tons of women that i find physically attractive and can imagine myself sleeping with , but not dating, but it doesn't work because. I guess it's due to my upbringing. Damn my mother for makig me a gentleman , i would have prefered to be an asshole. I guess the grass is always greener on the otherside.
Captcha: scurrb call . Is this what the new generation is calling booty calls?
Captcha: scurrb call . Is this what the new generation is calling booty calls?
Meh I don't think it's sacred in any way all it is to me is meeting a girl havin some fun then going back to either my place or hers and having wild sex, with me finishing by blowing my load all over her face then apologizing for it by making her breakfast in the morning.
Agreed with you there. Sex is something you think is this magical thing that two people share. Then you have it regularly for a month at least and you stop caring about it as much. Its sex, its natural. Its also a brilliant way for two people to pass the timebdcjacko said:
Malconvoker said:
Olololol...Sorry, but, why does respect necessarily need to have anything to do with it? Some of the best sex I'v had, I'v had with people I really do not respect. And I'm pretty sure they went for them as well.
For me it's very personal. Not sacred, per se, but it is, imo, the most intimate act you can complete with a person. I might get turned on by women, but I could only ever make love to someone I truly cared about and had a connection with.
Personally, I've only ever made love to my wife (though she wasn't my wife at the time) and I don't see that changing anytime soon.
Personally, I've only ever made love to my wife (though she wasn't my wife at the time) and I don't see that changing anytime soon.
I'm 17 and still a virgin not because I'm ugly (I'm fairly good looking)and not because i cant get girls. I have also been laying in bed naked with a girl about to do the dead but i feel like i should save it so i can experience my first time with someone i really care for and means something to me. Also it drives girls crazy when i tell them i dont want to have sex with them because they aren't special enough 
...Seriously?Bran1470 said:Also it drives girls crazy when i tell them i dont want to have sex with them because they aren't special enough
I'm a girl and that makes NO sense to me.
If a guy said that to me I'd just be like `kthanxbyethen`.
OT: I've only had sex in a relationship, but I dont look down on people who do it openly/casually/weirdly/not at all. It is what you decide it is.
I guess it is. I have bad luck with girls, but at the same time, I'm not going to go out and find some slut to lose my virginity...
I'm sorry i should of explained that allow me to rephrase myself...Phasmal said:...Seriously?Bran1470 said:Also it drives girls crazy when i tell them i dont want to have sex with them because they aren't special enough
I'm a girl and that makes NO sense to me.
If a guy said that to me I'd just be like `kthanxbyethen`.
OT: I've only had sex in a relationship, but I dont look down on people who do it openly/casually/weirdly/not at all. It is what you decide it is.
OK, have you ever been with a guy that you liked and cared for so much that you are whiling to do anything for them? So you try to have sex with him because you care so dearly for him; then you try to seduce him but in the end he just say's no to you because your not good enough?
I don't know about you but if that happened to me i would heart broken.