Well some people don't count a girl having sex with a girl as losing your virginity and since I slept with a girl first, it can get confusing sometimes. I definitely count it thoughSteelStallion said:
Poll: Losing your virginity - Overhyped?
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At least I got my firs kiss at that age.Aylaine said:I feel it's all subjective to what kind of person you are. Therefore everyone is different on it, and factors like peer pressure, sexual desire, religion, and social standing can definitely influence when people lose it. Me? I lost it to someone I cared about, someone I still care about and therefore I have no regrets. I also lost it at a reasonable age, 18 years old.
Ok, I'm gonna speculate on the first kiss, how losing my virginity will be:
-awkward
-weird
-interesting
-leaving me wanting more, but feeling insecure
I concur, Sex is the most overrated thing to grace the planet.tellmeimaninja said:
Ever.
In the history of ever.
Yeah, the term differs form person to person. Some people I know even consider masturbation as a way to lose your virginity.JanatUrlich said:
But I am a man of science so I use the hymen as reference for girls(ruptured or not), and for boys aaa, dam it I forgot the scientific term for that string like thingy... guys, you know what I'm referring to(unless you're a jew and had a circumcision)
Everything in life is overhyped.
Trust me on that.
That aside, I don't see why people would go emo about "losing virginity prematurely". There's no such thing as losing virginity prematurely, unless you were raped as a pre-teen (and that would only apply to girls, unless you account for anal virginity), but then you've probably got bigger problems to take care of anyways.
There's nothing "special" about losing your virginity to someone you delusionally consider your life partne.
Trust me on that.
That aside, I don't see why people would go emo about "losing virginity prematurely". There's no such thing as losing virginity prematurely, unless you were raped as a pre-teen (and that would only apply to girls, unless you account for anal virginity), but then you've probably got bigger problems to take care of anyways.
There's nothing "special" about losing your virginity to someone you delusionally consider your life partne.
LOl dude, the hymen is broken when you first use a tampon! I lost my virginity to a tampon?!?! It can also break during shit like horse riding, which I also did. So according to your theory, I lost my virginity to a horse or a tampon. Yeaaaaaah...yoyo13rom said:
What? The foreskin?? What's the foreskin got to do with anything? I don't understand you at all haha
I didn't mean to insult or offend you, but that's one of the reasons virgin girls(or at least that's how it is here) use a special type of tampon, that doesn't go into the vagina...JanatUrlich said:
They use this
Don't ask me how it's called, cause I don't know(I'm a boy for crying out loud, I shouldn't even remotely know about these things!)
And when the hymen ruptures it causes pain and bleeding(the oh so mentioned first time pains and blood).
But anyway that's how I learned at school and that's what my folks told me, so I could be wrong.
Anyway, not it the face, not in the virtual face!
Edit: No, not the foreskin... there's a small stringy thing that ties the top of the penis to the foreskin on the inside, that usually breaks too during intercourse.(darn my lack of knowledge in English anatomy!)
Haha don't worry about it dude, you didn't offend me. You seriously need to sort out your knowledge though haha! The picture you just posted is not a tampon, it is a sanitary towel that you put in your knickers. A tampon is something you actually put inside you.yoyo13rom said:I didn't mean to insult or offend you, but that's one of the reasons virgin girls(or at least that's how it is here) use a special type of tampon, that doesn't go into the vagina...JanatUrlich said:
They use this
Don't ask me how it's called, cause I don't know(I'm a boy for crying out loud, I shouldn't even remotely know about these things!)
And when the hymen ruptures it causes pain and bleeding(the oh so mentioned first time pains and blood).
But anyway that's how I learned at school and that's what my folks told me, so I could be wrong.
Anyway, not it the face, not in the virtual face!
And honestly, I don't know when my hymen broke. I certainly didn't feel it and I'm pretty sure there wasn't any blood. It's extremely hard not to break your hymen, even if you just live an average life!
I think it's more an emotional thing than a scientific one- I knew I was scientifically a virgin (ouch) first time but even if I wasn't, I'd still have been losing my virginity! Same with different sexes- if not, some lesbians would be 'virgins' forever.yoyo13rom said:
Exactly! Losing it for the sake of sex is pointless. It hurts. Like fuck. Unles you're experienced with yourself, it'll be embarassing and pointless. 30 seconds of awkward contact and then you never see the person again, purely because they're a complete twat and refuse to look at you any more. It may just be me and my jaded experiences, but losing the V to someone who's about as amazing as a used tampon is hideously bland.Johanthemonster666 said:
Well since I find sex to be the most fun anyone can ever have I would say no it's not overrated.
HAHA good point.AcidLillies said:
I'm a dude so it took a bit of getting use to X(
The fact that my ex-boyfriend of all people took it still horrifies me.
But I'll have to put it behind me because my current BF means a lot to me. I was his first so I suppose it was a redeption of sorts.
Heed Acidlilies advice children, don't take your pants off(for the first time or after) unless you're willing to deal with the consequences (if they be good or bad). People think it's corny to find a partner whom you love and devote yourself exlusively to. But actually it's the best set up you can ever get.
Would you have sex with some random person who just wants to get off or are you willing to be with that special someone and have the time of your day whenever you guys get in the mood? I chose option 2.
ouch? I cant think of anything worse that could happen. Well except if she wasnt "clean" (STI's)Kpt._Rob said:
Onward on your quest!Foxbat Flyer said:
OT: Well, with peer pressure and all, it's just as overhyped as having your "first alcoholic drink". Its all something to look forward to untill you actually do it then go "thats it?" And the effects of peer pressure might also make you regret losing it.
Then again, as I have heard: "Virginity is not a state of dignity, its a lack of opportunity."
...hmmm
That is the biggest failure I've ever heard, in my life.Kpt._Rob said:
At the moment, I wouldn't know, for obvious reasons.
I lost mine to my very special girlfriend whom I'm still with. We both loved each other greatly (teenage love) and thought it was the right time. We did it with no complications when we were both 15. It was one of the best times of my short life.
But I think sex is over-rated. I think it's just the glamorization of sex through the media. I mean there's porn, explicit comics and shows, people bragging about it like crazy (like not having sex makes you a complete loser), and advertisements glamorizing both the male, and female body. Hell even with all the people so horny they go and hire a prostitute or even rape a poor girl.
Then you have it, and it's great and all, but damn is it over-rated. I mean we still do it and both enjoy it, but holy shit did western society ever over-hype it. I was expecting...I don't know. Something divine and what I got was something different. Still so damn good, but...you know. Just completely over-hyped.
But I think sex is over-rated. I think it's just the glamorization of sex through the media. I mean there's porn, explicit comics and shows, people bragging about it like crazy (like not having sex makes you a complete loser), and advertisements glamorizing both the male, and female body. Hell even with all the people so horny they go and hire a prostitute or even rape a poor girl.
Then you have it, and it's great and all, but damn is it over-rated. I mean we still do it and both enjoy it, but holy shit did western society ever over-hype it. I was expecting...I don't know. Something divine and what I got was something different. Still so damn good, but...you know. Just completely over-hyped.