Poll: Losing your virginity - Overhyped?

[LogicNProportion]

It was...okay.

I regret having lost it at such a young age, and the gigantic amount of trouble it eventually caused.

I can tell you that quality of sex varies at different times. With people I'm closer with, it tends to be better, but sometimes, the girl is just that good. My most recent relationship, which has sex in it, is probably the best, but I haven't known her as nearly as long as I normally wait to pounce.

Bottom line: Sex gets better later in your sexual life. Sure, your first is special, but it won't nowhere be as good as it gets.

 

[Ambi]

Yeah, the term differs form person to person. Some people I know even consider masturbation as a way to lose your virginity.
But I am a man of science so I use the hymen as reference for girls(ruptured or not), and for boys aaa, dam it I forgot the scientific term for that string like thingy... guys, you know what I'm referring to(unless you're a jew and had a circumcision)

Actually, girls can break their hymens in ways other than intercourse. That doesn't mean they're not virgins.

 

[Alon Shechter]

I await that moment of losing my virginity because it will most likely be with the woman i love , and we are a couple for 5 years , from the age of 8
But i never expected something SUPER! AWESOME! AMAZING! The only thing i knew was that i could intercourse with someone i truly love , and that is good.
I do not see how plunging my genitals into a woman's body is a magical experience , just something natural done to to squeaky annoying babies.


I did experience a huge amount of kisses , french , good night smooch and all the other types , so based on those i will describe how i suspect losing my V will be:
A.Weird , just like the first time you kiss a loved one is weird
B.Wonderful , not the physical part , the fact that i got far enough to get kissed by a woman , the damn nerdy person that i am.
C.Interesting , A kiss was an interesting experience in my first time.

HAHA good point.

I'm a dude so it took a bit of getting use to X(
The fact that my ex-boyfriend of all people took it still horrifies me.
But I'll have to put it behind me because my current BF means a lot to me. I was his first so I suppose it was a redeption of sorts.

Wait , So you're homosexual? (Not that i have a problem with it , i MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HOMOSEXUALITY!)

This is the first time i EVER saw a discussion about sex which does involve giggles and laughter about the slightest mention of a human's genitals.

 

[effilctar]

I lost it on the floor with a girl I don't even like. Yeah, it was sub-standard.

 

[SovietSecrets]

I lost it at a very young age and well it was pretty cool to brag about it then, but as for losing it..yeah its overhyped. If you are still a virgin kudos to you for waiting.

 

[lSHaDoW-FoXl]

Well some pricks constantly teased me for being a virgin (Which I have no shame in admitting I still am at the age of nineteen.) and it seems that they ended up being virgins as well. So basically they teased me for being honest. It's even funnier because I only came out about a year ago.

And whenever I see them again I'm giving them hell about still being virgins, just to spite them.

The moral of the story is that sex is just sex and that people will always try and make it seem far more important then it really is with colourful euphemisms like 'love making'. People will also reticule and insult you for being a virgin to stop other people from looking at them when they're virginity is question.

 

[duchaked]

keep it serious and respectful, that's about where I stand

where I stood my first time...ehh well it was just something we had waited on for a long time

 

[MissAshley]

Firstly, while I know "losing your 'v' " is important to people, it was never something I considered important. I only felt the same level of anxiety about sex that I would any other activity I had never done before. Peer pressure didn't have much effect on me because I didn't have a close circle of peers. What social life I had in school was left there when I went home.

When my moment finally came, I only thought "That's it?" I do have some personal issues which affect things of this nature, though.

 

[Nietz]

Well, I can't say that the first time I got laid was "good", but memorable it sure as hell was.
It was memorable is in crazy and chaotic kind of way. It's wasn't beautiful, it didn't feel awesome and it wasn't the most romantic thing ever. But it was fun, hectic, scary and full of adrenaline.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

I think losing the virginity is overrated, but virginity (for males) is a stigma created by the promiscuous societies we live in (varies by region/religion/values).

*edit* Oh, and I still have my "V". Due to me not being extroverted, muscular, or confident enough, it's gonna stay that way.

 

[Gabanuka]

Edit: A thousand "thank you's" to Ekit for telling me how to embed.

that video made me laugh at how serious they all looked

Lmao, I thought it was real for the opening few seconds.

 

[General BrEeZy]

all ive heard is that afterwards, you feel colorless for the fact that you've experienced it and..well, that "now what" feeling.

"after having sex, i dont know. it was like 'now what do i do...?'...get a job, i guess..."
-my friend jeff.

 

[xXTheParadoxXx]

i don't think so (im not speaking from experience). why did i even post here?

 

[littlewisp]

Yeah it was overhyped. It was way more painful than I thought it would be, so I wound up staring at the ceiling frozen wondering when the hurt would end. Sort of the feeling you get when you have a cut and you push at the cut or rub something over it. Pretty much it was pure exposed nerve ending frictional hell for the ten or twenty minutes it took for it to be over. This was exacerbated by the fact that previously I'd been able to get myself off often enough, so I really wasn't expecting the pain to last as long as it did, either.

And then I wound up oozing blood half the night, and I'd expected it to clot much sooner so I started freaking out a bit wondering what I would do if it didn't stop (it did by morning). At the time I was happy about having sex with the guy in question, at age 19, but that lasted until I broke up with the guy in question. Now I wish I'd had a better sexual partner, one who maybe would have paid attention and realized that the 'o' my lips were making and the wide eyed staring and squeaks I was emitting were not from pleasure at all.

 

[Rofl-Mayo]

I am still holding on to my 'V'and I truly believe it is overhyped. It pisses me off when some of my friends say "I'm more of a man than you, you know why? I fucked a chick!" Stuff like that bugs me. Unless it is a person you truly love, sex won't be as good. All of this is coming from a someone who is still a virgin though so don't take me too seriously.

 

[Benj17]

Benji92, in the toilets, with the trojan

yeah aside from the clear cluedo jokes, there was nothing special about it.

and american pie made it seem really hard and made it extremely overhyped, it infact lasts not as long as you expect/wanted and the ending result is a sad dribble from ones magic stick.

Other times have been better

Though im still a virgin to doing it in an actual bed, all my experiences have been in toilets and changing rooms =/

 

[lacktheknack]

I'd like to point out that I still have my virginity, and you guys can't ever get yours back.

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.