Poll: Losing your virginity - Overhyped?
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Overhyped. When it happend to me, it was just like the first poster. "this was sex?" and im about to marry the person I did it with.
i no i guy and he was havin a pretty good night, has to be said, but she was just goin to give him a blowjob and the fecker couldnt get it up. we were all 16 at the time an just had a good laugh but then he told this one guy and then he told everyone. and i mean EVERYONE. EVEN THE TEACHERS. EVEN FATHER PJ!!!MellowFellow said:
The main bit: "Most men ejaculate within a few minutes"jamesworkshop said:
There is no definition of "a few minutes" within that article, and no statistics for "most", so what you actually did was show that it can be entirely natural for someone to last that long without having something wrong with them, which shows that I am correct.
Cheers
Yes, and yes.Prometherion said:
It wasn't great the first time around. In retrospect I would've rather waited for someone more worth my while. In fact, it was so unfun that it turned me off sex for a good two years before I could even consider it again. Luckily I now have a girl that taught me that sex is pretty awesome if you're comfortable enough with eachother and can communicate your wishes properly.
So in my opinion I'd like to say to any of you virgins outside: wait until you really like someone.
Makes a world of difference. In fact you'll be surprised how level the learning curve is. To put it in terms all you big ol' nerds can understand: you'll be throwing supercombo's before you know it. *wink wink nudge nudge saynomore saynomore*JordanMillward_1 said:no no no I never said their was anything wrong with you nor did you suggest that there wasnn't anything wrong with yourselfjamesworkshop said:The main bit: "Most men ejaculate within a few minutes"JordanMillward_1 said:
There is no definition of "a few minutes" within that article, and no statistics for "most", so what you actually did was show that it can be entirely natural for someone to last that long without having something wrong with them, which shows that I am correct.
Cheers
you don't have anything to be "correct" about
I think first time sex is built up to too much. Sex in general is fantastic, really great. My first time I never though it was a big deal that I was a virgin, I was just excited because I really wanted it. I think it's just a memorable thinking back to my actual first time and then my first time with different partners. I think it's just as special taking your relationship to that level. Each person is different, they enjoy different things, you fit together differently, it's really lovely finding all that stuff out about someone you care about.
Then why post it in the first place? If the purpose of it wasn't to suggest that anything over "a few minutes" is actually delayed ejaculation, then there was no real point in posting it, as it didn't relate to my post (the one you quoted in your reply).jamesworkshop said:
The point was that lasting a "long" time is not actually that uncommon during the first timeJordanMillward_1 said:
"distraction from worry, distraction from the environment, anxiety about pleasing his partner and anxiety about relationship problems."
its just as commmon as being too quick of the mark
Hmmm. I just lost mine a few years ago to the woman that I'm going to marry. The first time, it was like, whoooo! We're doing it! So many other people have talked about it, and want to do it and I'm doing it! But then it was like, oh, now I have to move? F*ck. This is cardio.JanatUrlich said:
My first time was ruined by an inconsiderably squeaky bed. It made it very difficult to finish up and that, combined with the nerves of the whole occasion, made it rather difficult to enjoy myself. That being said, it was still a glorious event and one which I have been happy to recant ever since. I do think that loosing your virginity is a fairly big deal even if it is just to give you something to brag about to your virgin mates for a while.
Ideal circumstances. Far and few between. Make sure you wear protection and don't lose it under the influence of anything. I've heard horror stories of how that has gone terribly. First time? It is very contextual and subjective how "good", "bad" or "meh" it is. If you don't want any regrets about the first time, then couple with someone you can trust/rely on. As far as I can tell, if you keep at it with one person you'll both figure out what the other likes and it'll get better or you'll find you two are sexually incompatable.
And for pity's sake: Protection, protection, protection. I hear (unwillingly at times) my friends' stories from time to time about pregnancy scares and all sorts of other unpleasantries because of a lack of protection. Hint fucking hint.
My first time was with a girl who was in a similar place mentally. Both had gotten out of a relationship, had some pent up frustrations, and needed a release. That was that, and we both knew it. Very "meh", but what I expected from it. No regrets
And for pity's sake: Protection, protection, protection. I hear (unwillingly at times) my friends' stories from time to time about pregnancy scares and all sorts of other unpleasantries because of a lack of protection. Hint fucking hint.
My first time was with a girl who was in a similar place mentally. Both had gotten out of a relationship, had some pent up frustrations, and needed a release. That was that, and we both knew it. Very "meh", but what I expected from it. No regrets
Being a student and therefore living in a dump, squeaky bed sex is all i have nowadays. So do do my housemates, so its best to sleep quick if theyre on the pull.Chech said:
It hurt... alot
but after that it was pretty good.
But it was kind of overhyped it wasn't anything like people say it is.
but after that it was pretty good.
But it was kind of overhyped it wasn't anything like people say it is.