Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[DefunctTheory]

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

The same people that say condoms are uncomfortable are the same people who say you need 'practice' to put them on.

This should tell you how intelligent these people are. They're probably putting them on inside out (How this is possible I have no idea, but I know people who have done it).

 

[KefkaCultist]

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Maybe I'm just misinformed and my friend is an idiot then (actually, the 2nd part is right... he's a moron)

If she's on the pill then I'll take the chance of no condom. I know it decreases the chances of pregnancy more, but by how much really when theres already one form of contraceptive in place.

 

[BlackSaint09]

Havent had sex yet...
I just wanna find someone id geniuenly care about and would geniuenly wanna make happy in every way possible.

 

[thecoreyhlltt]

theres no other so i'll just say it, 14

 

[DefunctTheory]

If she's on the pill then I'll take the chance of no condom. I know it decreases the chances of pregnancy more, but by how much really when theres already one form of contraceptive in place.

You do know the pill does nothing for sexually transmitted diseases, right?

YOu also need to take into account the girl 'forgetting' to take part of here treatment, or the fact that pills work on hormones to prevent pregnancy.

I know a bit about hormones, and to be honest, I'm not entirely trusting in something like that. Statistics like this typically don't lie, but still... p[art of me trust physical barriers and chemical treatment (Spermicide) more than hormonal treatment.

Also: People lie. I've seen quite a few news articles about men being deceived into having unprotected sex just so women can have their babies (Goes both ways of course, men saying their tubes are tied so they don;t have to wear condoms).

 

[Sovereignty]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter':
Yes, I have.

Have you had sex?
Yes, a couple different flavors of it.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
16, it was on my 16th birthday as a "gift" from one of my childhood friends (She was older then me.) And I also feel it changed my outlook on sex, and that I was possibly not ready for it honestly.

How many people have you slept with?
I don't count. But 19...

What are your views on 'casual sex'?
It's the 21st century, I've seen the benefits of it. But it is extremely rare when you find a girl genuinely interested in it. They'll say yes when you offer to be in a relationship about just sex, but the truth is they see it as some kind of game to try and change your mind on it. Then when they fail they are hurt and broken up over it... But hey I was always told, "If you at least tell them upfront you just want sex... You're off the hook." And I live by that in my physical relationships to this day.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Let me just say I have. But the ONLY time this is ever a good idea is if you truly 100% know the girl and are committed to a relationship with her. Women and men alike are shady creatures. You never know if they actually want to "screw" you.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Oral is fine. So long as either person receiving has a shower first, or hasn't been doing anything that would make one question bodily hygiene. (Bad baddd experiences) But it's all opinion and personal preference. I will say I've met some people who think oral and intercourse are relatively similar in terms of intimacy and I couldn't disagree more. Oral is far more personal then sex is.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Always wrap it. Never trust she's "On the pill". Never deny a woman. (Unless she's scary or you're in a relationship.) And always be upfront prior to bumping uglies about your intentions.

 

[KefkaCultist]

If she's on the pill then I'll take the chance of no condom. I know it decreases the chances of pregnancy more, but by how much really when theres already one form of contraceptive in place.

You do know the pill does nothing for sexually transmitted diseases, right?

YOu also need to take into account the girl 'forgetting' to take part of here treatment, or the fact that pills work on hormones to prevent pregnancy.

I know a bit about hormones, and to be honest, I'm not entirely trusting in something like that. Statistics like this typically don't lie, but still... p[art of me trust physical barriers and chemical treatment (Spermicide) more than hormonal treatment.

Its not like I'm gonna have sex with a bunch of whores. As I said in my original post, I don't have a problem with others having casual sex but its not for me. If I'm gonna have sex with someone theres a really good chance that its someone I've been with for a while and I know really well. If my intuition about people is bad enough that I end up with a girl who lies about not having STDs and taking the pill then I deserve it for being a blind dumbass.

 

[GrizzlerBorno]

...
I hate Asian culture SO much sometimes.

Goddamn ban on pre-marital sex reminds me why I'm trying to get out of this uptight hell-hole as fast as i can.

 

[ShadowsofHope]

19, and..

n/a
n/a
n/a

Casual sex? I'm fine with it, as long as there is protection.
Oral sex? I'm fine with it, and would likely have no issue offering it to a woman as well.
If pill, no condom? Not the first time, at least. And I'd have to be pretty damned convinced of the woman's sexual history and lack of STD's before I ever take off that latex barrier from my soldier.

I've just never had the opportunity yet, sadly.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Yeah, I don't really get this either.

There's a guy I know - when he tries to put on a condom, he... ahem... "loses wind in his sails" so to speak. REALLY annoying, particularly by that point in the evening.

I can't think of why a condom would be uncomfortable for recieving - I don't really notice a difference. The reason I sometimes like to go without is because I've noticed that I am more careful when my partner has a condom on, cause I'm worried about breaking it. When my partner isn't wearing one, I tend to be more wild. I know it's silly - nothing I do down there is going to damage a condom - but I worry anyway.

But uncomfortable? I just don't see it. I also don't see how it could be uncomfortable for the guy either - wearing latex gloves doesn't make my hand hurt.

 

[SkyeNeko]

no, no, 0, if thats your thing, no, mixed

 

[Weslebear]

Sexual encounter? Yup, intercourse and more.
How old? 16, initially awkward as it was both our first, but we went straight back for more and it was really good.
How many people? Just the one.
Casual Sex? Not for me, I really enjoy the emotional attachment with it and how close it makes you feel to someone you love.
Condom? Have done it once without since we both had no STD's but must have at least the pill as back up.
Oral? Feels fantastic to give and receive, good for when you really want to focus on your partner's pleasure.

 

[s0denone]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

Yes.

Have you had sex?

Yes.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?

I was 14. Details? No.

How many people have you slept with?

I'm unsure. I stopped keeping track when I turned 18, or something (at which point I had been with 5 girls) - I think maybe 50? Around 50.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

Maybe you can infer from my answer above... I don't have a problem with it

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

Casual sex? No. Always condom.
Girlfriend? Sure.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Better than normal sex? No.
It's awesome, though - so no, I'm not repulsed.

 

[FamoFunk]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

Lmao, STI's? What about them, buddie? Pill don't stop 'em.

 

[CosmicSpiral]

Yes.
Not with my penis.
None.
None.
Causal sex is a tricky beast. You have to come from the right mindset if you want anything more than momentary pleasure and subsequent emptiness.
Yes.
Oral sex is fun, but please brush your teeth afterwards.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

Lmao, STI's? What about them, buddie? Pill don't stop 'em.

STI's? I thought they stopped using that term in the 80s.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Yeah, I don't really get this either.

There's a guy I know - when he tries to put on a condom, he... ahem... "loses wind in his sails" so to speak. REALLY annoying, particularly by that point in the evening.

I can't think of why a condom would be uncomfortable for recieving - I don't really notice a difference. The reason I sometimes like to go without is because I've noticed that I am more careful when my partner has a condom on, cause I'm worried about breaking it. When my partner isn't wearing one, I tend to be more wild. I know it's silly - nothing I do down there is going to damage a condom - but I worry anyway.

But uncomfortable? I just don't see it. I also don't see how it could be uncomfortable for the guy either - wearing latex gloves doesn't make my hand hurt.

You can break a condom with the kind of SEX you have?

I've done pretty much everything imaginable with a condom on, and I've never broken squat. And then you say this... I'm intrigued. What are you doing that could break a condom?

Seriously, what? Its going to bother me all day and I want to try it!

 

[FamoFunk]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

Lmao, STI's? What about them, buddie? Pill don't stop 'em.

STI's? I thought they stopped using that term in the 80s.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Yeah, I don't really get this either.

There's a guy I know - when he tries to put on a condom, he... ahem... "loses wind in his sails" so to speak. REALLY annoying, particularly by that point in the evening.

I can't think of why a condom would be uncomfortable for recieving - I don't really notice a difference. The reason I sometimes like to go without is because I've noticed that I am more careful when my partner has a condom on, cause I'm worried about breaking it. When my partner isn't wearing one, I tend to be more wild. I know it's silly - nothing I do down there is going to damage a condom - but I worry anyway.

But uncomfortable? I just don't see it. I also don't see how it could be uncomfortable for the guy either - wearing latex gloves doesn't make my hand hurt.

You can break a condom with the kind of SEX you have?

I've done pretty much everything imaginable with a condom on, and I've never broken squat. And then you say this... I'm intrigued. What are you doing that could break a condom?

Seriously, what? Its going to bother me all day and I want to try it!

STI's/STD's all still used.

 

[Stasisesque]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

Lmao, STI's? What about them, buddie? Pill don't stop 'em.

STI's? I thought they stopped using that term in the 80s.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?
Yeah, I have friends who talk about sex and from what I've heard condoms are kind of uncomfortable for both parties.

Woah, hold up. Condoms should not be uncomfortable for men if they are wearing the correct size. There may be some loss of sensation, but they shouldn't be uncomfortable.

As for being uncomfortable for the receiving party... I honestly have no idea why this would be happening. But it sounds like an issue of not enough lubrication.

Yeah, I don't really get this either.

There's a guy I know - when he tries to put on a condom, he... ahem... "loses wind in his sails" so to speak. REALLY annoying, particularly by that point in the evening.

I can't think of why a condom would be uncomfortable for recieving - I don't really notice a difference. The reason I sometimes like to go without is because I've noticed that I am more careful when my partner has a condom on, cause I'm worried about breaking it. When my partner isn't wearing one, I tend to be more wild. I know it's silly - nothing I do down there is going to damage a condom - but I worry anyway.

But uncomfortable? I just don't see it. I also don't see how it could be uncomfortable for the guy either - wearing latex gloves doesn't make my hand hurt.

You can break a condom with the kind of SEX you have?

I've done pretty much everything imaginable with a condom on, and I've never broken squat. And then you say this... I'm intrigued. What are you doing that could break a condom?

Seriously, what? Its going to bother me all day and I want to try it!

...you can break a penis with the kind of sex you have.

Just don't use vaseline as lube (EVER), don't wear more than one condom at a time (EVER) and make sure you're not... uhm, going at it until you're as raw as a cheese grater, and the chances of the condom breaking are very slim. It happens, obviously, but I also can't see sex alone breaking one. Maybe if your kegels are enough to snap steel...

Edit: Not lecturing you, just putting the info out there for those who need it!

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Please guys up above here, stop the war!
Okay, even though it isn't a war. Still. The song will cause world peace.